Zhang Ailing said that every man has at least two women in his heart, one is not there, and the other is already by his side.
What you get is mosquito blood or rice grains, and what you don't get is vermilion and white moonshine.
Maybe every man really has an extreme love in his heart, an unforgettable first love, a ruined wife who is reluctant to lose, but what really makes men unforgettable is the woman who gives them these feelings.
First of all, a woman who is willing to give and support unconditionally.
In the TV series "Walking on Thin Ice", the eight masters are charismatic and have loved many people.
But in the end, it was not the person he once loved that made him unforgettable, but his former wife Minghui who was ignored by him.
When the Eighth Master prospered, Minghui was like an ornament and was not taken seriously.
But when the Eight Masters are in need, she always stands firmly by the side of the Eight Masters.
In order to help Ba** complete the great cause, she took away the future of her mother's family, just to give her beloved husband the most powerful support;Yaba is trapped in a trap, and it is Minghui himself who supports the overall situation and maintains Yaba's face.
A woman who is willing to support a man unconditionally is the easiest for the other person to remember for a moment.
This support is like helping out in the snow, which is what men need most. This support contains trust, but also anticipation and care for men. Men feel this unconditional love, and if they have a heart, they will cherish it well.
Second, women who are willing to think differently and understand men.
When you get along with a man, if you put the other person on the opposite side of the omnipotence, you will make a man feel cold in a high place, feeling that his lover and himself are always in the same position. Such a man is very lonely in his heart, and over time, he will definitely have resentment and dissatisfaction with the women around him.
On the contrary, women who can really touch men's hearts are willing to take the initiative to be men's interpreters.
Just like in the TV series "The Bottom Line", President Fang suffered a huge Waterloo in his career because he was framed by a child. Because of his identity and face, he always pretends to smile in the unit and does not show his inner emotions.
Back at home, in the dead of night, a person hid in the bathroom and cried aggrievedly, and his wife heard the voice without asking anything, just came over and hugged him gently, gave him a gentle hug, and let him rest assured to vent his emotions.
When a man's heart is weathered, misunderstood by everyone, and wronged, the understanding given by a woman in time is like a ray of gentle sunshine that can penetrate a man's heart and make the other party feel warm.
Third, women who are willing to believe in and actively encourage men.
The male classmate got married, and he said he was not happy with the marriage because he married a woman he didn't really like. I asked him who he really liked, and he was silent for a long time before finally saying his name.
It turns out that what boys never forget is the first person they talk about in college.
I was very impressed with his work. One winter, we went to the homeroom teacher's house to make dumplings, and the male classmate also took his object with him.
The male classmates were very anxious to make dumplings. His object is not to blame, but to praise the man for making dumplings well for the first time;Later, the boy decided to take the college entrance examination, which means that the development path with his girlfriend will be very different, and he may break up as soon as he graduates.
The guy is hesitant, but his girlfriend encourages him to give it a try when choosing a path in life. His girlfriend can be changed, but only once in the future.
Although the two eventually broke up, the girl was an unforgettable light for the male classmates.
Everyone has a dream to pursue, but in the process of pursuing their dreams, there may be an uncertain state of mind. When a woman can take the initiative to give a man the support and encouragement he wants, so that a man has confidence in herself, she will be grateful to the woman who gave him this feeling.