In 1974, in the delivery room of a county hospital in Ningxia, a baby's cry broke the silence of the early morning. The director of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology of Childbirth** walked out with the newborn baby girl in his arms, and the father of the baby girl was excited to greet him. He named his daughter Geng Lanjun, which means a healthy and intelligent girl.
However, Geng Lanjun's personality has been different from other girls since he was a child. She doesn't like to play girls' games, but prefers boys to play with glass balls, wars, etc. She has short hair and short-sleeved shorts, and looks like a boy. When I go to school, I am often mistaken for a boy, and I am kicked out if I want to go to the girls' bathroom. Her parents also treated her as a boy for this reason.
Geng Lanjun not only did not dislike being treated as a boy, but enjoyed it very much. She often wondered why she wasn't a boy. I often complain to my parents: "Why am I not a man?" I'll definitely become a boy when I have a chance! ”
In 1992, the report evoked the dream of sex reassignment In 1992, Geng Lanjun happened to see a report of "female to male" sex reassignment surgery in the newspaper, and immediately resonated strongly, as if opening a new door for her. She began to gather information and aspired to become a man one day through surgery. However, at that time, sex reassignment surgery was not yet mature and very risky, and basically no hospital dared to do it. What's more, Geng Lanjun didn't have that much money to pay for the high cost of surgery.
In desperation, Geng Lanjun could only wait for the opportunity. After graduating from high school, she came out to work part-time and grew rapidly in the company with her unique ideas. Finally, at the age of 29, she saved enough money for surgery!
In 2005, 29-year-old Geng Lanjun returned to his hometown and immediately told his parents that he would have gender reassignment surgery and change from a woman to a man. The parents were taken aback and at first strongly objected. But seeing that their daughter was determined, the parents had to compromise.
In 2005, Geng Lanjun accompanied by his parents to Xiamen Zhongshan Hospital. Over the next year, she underwent four major surgeries, each time when her body weakened and her mother burst into tears. The first removal of the female *** officer, the second removal of the breast. After becoming asexual, he underwent *** official reconstruction surgery, and finally became a man completely.
In 2006, he officially changed his name to "Geng Zi", got a certificate with "male" written on his ID card, and became a man who has completely changed his face from the outside to the inside, from body to mind.
After the gender reset, Geng Zi lost her fertility. is also timid on the emotional road, and does not dare to take the initiative to pursue, so he can only wait for love to come.
I once met a girl on the Internet, and after making friends with each other, the girl confessed her pursuit and proposed to meet. But Geng Zi was afraid of online dating and refused. There was also a girl who was attracted by Geng Zi's unique temperament, and the two went on a date to eat. The girl proposed to live together, but Geng Zi didn't dare to accept it, for fear of exposing his transgender identity, so he had to avoid it.
Later, I met a girl through a friend, Geng Zi looked at the right eye and wanted to confess his pursuit. However, due to his own situation, he was worried that the woman's family would not accept it, so he finally did not muster up the courage and let the girl leave.
After being emotionally frustrated, Geng Zi devoted all his energy to his career. After leaving his old place, he came to Shenzhen, where he went through all kinds of hardships, and finally got a job offer in a company, and soon turned into a regular through his own ability, which was deeply appreciated by his boss.
In the following years, Geng Zi changed five or six companies, from Shenzhen to the north. Some people who saw him leave suddenly were puzzled, but Geng Zi explained that he didn't want to stop pursuing. Now Geng Zi has a successful career and has made remarkable achievements.
Time flies, 18 years have passed, and today's Geng Zi is 43 years old. He is still single, but he is passionate about life, works hard, and takes his parents out on trips in his spare time.
The physical and mental torture suffered by Geng Zi in the past 18 years is unimaginable for ordinary people. But he never regretted his original choice, and had the courage to disclose his identity, faced the strange eyes of others, became more and more courageous, and finally got his current achievements.
This incident quickly caused heated discussions on the Internet, and netizens had different opinions. Some people admire his courage and persistence, some people think that he wasted what should be a beautiful female body, and some people ridicule him for his "true temperament". However, Geng Zi himself seems to ignore these comments and live the life he wants.
We should not be overly critical of Gengzi's choice. His life is in his own hands. What we can do is respect each individual's right to make their own choices. What do you think about this? What do Geng Zi's experiences and choices mean to you?