The wife originally planned to have twins, but when she saw that the brother-in-law had a son, she regretted asking for two.
My wife and I have been dating for 6 years, but she has always refused to raise children, saying that she wants someone who does not have children. However, just after her sister-in-law had a boy, her attitude changed again, saying that she also wanted to have two more.
My name is 33-year-old Huang Zhongyi and I run a small cigarette hotel.
A man who is nearly 30 years old does not have much worry and tension in his life now. He has no financial pressure, no loans, no house, and is easy to manage.
My parents and siblings are very nice and live with me and form a happy little family. Still, despite their beauty, their parents often sigh.
Because they both want grandchildren, but my brother and I don't have any children.
His parents were very angry about this, and often said that they were both in their thirties, married, and had not yet given him a child, and if they were not satisfied, they would kick us out.
Even his father's repeated persuasion had no effect.
My sister-in-law is 25 years old, my younger brother is 29, and my sister-in-law wants a child, but now she plans to work.
On the contrary, my wife, Xiaoqin, has never had the idea of having children.
In fact, Xiao Qin plans not to have children for the rest of her life.
When we started dating, she made it clear that she wanted to have children. At that time, I thought that Xiaoqin was still young, so I had such an idea, and when she grew up, she would change her mind.
However, now Xiaoqin is my 6 years, I am 33, she is 32, and we are all together.
Xiaoqin is still as firm in her idea as ever, no matter how good things are at home, she doesn't want a child.
We've been trying to convince Xiaoqin, and my in-laws are trying to convince her to solve this problem as soon as possible.
My parents are also trying to convince Xiaoqin that if she has a child in the future, they are willing to pay for it, and if she is not willing to take care of the child, they will also pay for her.
However, no matter what kind of preferential treatment he offered, Xiaoqin was indifferent.
I find it annoying about this. I'm not worried about not having children, men can have this right regardless of their age, but if women miss this period, their chances of getting sick go up.
I don't want Xiaoqin to turn 40 and come back to regret it, when it's too late.
The birth of her sister-in-law changed Xiaoqin's thinking.
When her sister-in-law gave birth to a child, Xiaoqin changed her concept of Dink.
In July, my sister-in-law gave birth to a healthy baby boy, which brought joy to the whole family.
With a new little life, Mom and Dad finally have a smile on their faces, and I am happy to be an uncle.
Lately, I've been taking time to go home to see my eldest nephew, who always wake up early in the morning and want to hug their grandson.
Although the baby is not very old, the clothes and shoes are already arranged in the closet. My mother also knitted sweaters, shoes and hats at home every day, in order to keep her good grandson warm in this cold winter.
Xiaoqin also often goes to her sister-in-law's house, talks to her sister-in-law, and teases her.
I can clearly feel that although Xiaoqin does not want children, she does not have much resistance to this issue.
Xiaoqin said: "Although this kid is very good, it's just to look at people." After you have a baby, you will know that there are many things to worry about. ”
Therefore, Xiaoqin still doesn't want to have children.
Things took a turn when there was a piece of news that their home was going to be demolished.
The reason why Xiaoqin is so nervous is because of the demolition of houses in the village.
My family lives in an urban village, with a total of three houses, and I can collect some rent on weekdays.
In September, a new planning center was set up in the village.
Although the village has plans to be demolished, it has not yet been decided, and it will be as short as three years, as long as 10 years, as short as 3 years, and as long as 10 years.
Once, my father and two older brothers came to measure the three of our houses, and we stopped by to see the restaurant that sold cigarettes.
After the measurement, a master worker patted him on the shoulder and said, "You are really lucky, if you really want to dismantle, it will be all yours." ”
His brother smiled and talked to him, then watched him leave.
Although I don't care, Xiaoqin's mood is still very bad.
When Xiaoqin saw his brother coming in, she asked, "Ah Xiao, how did those people measure?"”
The little boy said, "It's okay, my dad said, let's test ourselves so that we can better understand ourselves." ”
Xiaoqin asked again: "Then why do they say that all the money belongs to you?"”
The little boy said, "Maybe Daddy just wants to tease them, but we older people think that the good ones are for the children and grandchildren." ”
Xiaoqin said angrily: "How can you say that?".”
The elder brother said, "Our older generation thought so that everything should be passed on to our children and grandchildren. If you don't want to have children, no amount of money will be in vain. He just wants you to have a villa in the future, and the rest is mine. ”
Xiaoqin said reluctantly: "This is not good, it should be distributed equally." ”
Brother: "I don't know, but we can be half of one and half of one." When you're gone, it's all ours. No need to rob it. ”
My brother has always had a good affection for us, and we don't mind when he says that. Xiaoqin just casually threw something away and let him leave with a smile.
It was under this circumstance that Xiaoqin made up her mind to have a child.
Since September, Xiaoqin has been worrying about the baby that is about to be born.
I don't know if it's because of the previous events, Xiaoqin suddenly had inspiration, or because everyone around her has children.
Xiaoqin told me, "It's better to have one child, and two are better." "When we're older, maybe no one will care about us. ”
In addition, she also said that in the future, she would leave all the good things to her sister-in-law, but we had nothing, and after we died, we would leave all the money to my brother's family.
Since then, Xiaoqin has been thinking about her son. Now Xiaoqin and I are preparing to have a baby, and I am looking forward to being a father at this time this year.