Mothers are busy taking care of their children every day, and they also have to deal with various household chores, which will inevitably feel tired and anxious. And family harmony is what every family member desires, how to better communicate with the family?
Recently, I woke up early and read a book called "Good Talking", which really benefited me a lot. AuthorLin SichengWith his unique perspective, he told me how to answer the phone, which gave me a new understanding of interpersonal communication.
The importance of listening was first emphasized.
Learn to listen. When communicating with family members, don't rush to express your opinions, and listen patiently to the other person's thoughts and feelings first. This will lead to a better understanding of each other and a more intimate relationship.
Secondly, the book also talks about the importance of getting the topic right.
Choosing the right topic and guiding it has a direct impact on the atmosphere and depth of the exchange. If you want to make the conversation more in-depth, you need to pick up the conversation well, be good at grasping the extension point of the topic, and make the conversation more rich and interesting.
That is, to learn to express one's own opinions。After listening to the other person's ideas, you can express your own opinions and opinions appropriately. But be careful to use a gentle, friendly tone and attitude to avoid causing conflict.
In addition, humor and praise are also two treasures of answering.
Learn to praise and be grateful. In the family, we should be good at discovering the strengths and contributions of our family members, and praise and thank them in a timely manner. This can enhance mutual trust and respect, and make the family more warm and harmonious.
However, ".Take the call wellis not just a guide to communication skills, it is also applicable to the family, the workplace and other environments. By learning Xi these skills, we can improve our emotional intelligence, better handle interpersonal relationships, and build a better harmonious family and workplace environment.
The book also shares some specific examples of answering calls, which made me realizeThe importance of how to apply these tips. For example, how to deal with people with different personalities and backgrounds, how to deal with awkward silences, and how to express one's opinion when appropriate, among others. These examples gave me a deeper understanding of the art of answering calls.
In addition to the tips mentioned above, the book also provides a number of othersAdvice and reflection。This book is really a very practical communication skills book, it not only provides theoretical guidance, but also shows how to apply these skills with examples.
If you are looking for a book that can improve your communication skills, I highly recommend reading this book to read and answer the call, which can improve our emotional intelligence and master the skills of communication with family members. Let's work together to create a harmonious and happy family atmosphere!The content in this book is very practical and I believe it will be of great help to you.