In the initial stages of love, there is always an endless story to tell, the patience to listen to each other seems to be never-ending, and curiosity drives them to constantly explore each other's worlds.
However, when the passion gradually fades, the former narrative becomes empty, and even in the same room, there is little communication of words. For couples separated from each other, both good morning and good night greetings may seem redundant.
On the road of two people's growth, when they are in love, every subtle change in the other party can attract great attention from themselves, and the progress or regression of the other party affects your heart.
But when the flame of love fades, you become indifferent to the other person's transformation. Your changes don't matter to him anymore. Once, under the filter of love, you tried to discover the shining points of the other party, even if the other party has such and such shortcomings, you can understand and tolerate them.
However, when love is gone, the flaws that were once ignored begin to come to the fore, and your sensitivity and suspicion make any small matter cause disputes, and the tolerance that once existed no longer exists. In the emotional temperature, you are full of expectations for the reunion of the two, and that happiness is an indispensable condiment in life.
However, when the love cools down, getting together again becomes boring, and even you feel that the other person becomes boring, the relationship loses its original color.
When it comes to conflict and contradictions, you always try your best to make each other happy, create romance in various ways, and try to show your best side. At that time, even if you encounter conflicts, you believe that both parties can understand each other, or at least one party can tolerate.
However, when love is no longer there, you begin to avoid conflict and choose silence to reduce possible discord.