In the past few days, because of the "small composition", Dong Yuhui and Dongfang Selection have been pushed to the cusp of **.
I won't talk about the specific incidents, I grabbed a lot of them on the Internet, but I suddenly felt that anyone can be separated from each other, which is a benign development.
In any relationship, if one party is particularly dependent on the other party and cannot live without the other party, then the relationship will be very dangerous, at least for the inseparable party, it will be a fatal blow.
This applies to workplace relationships as well as to relationships between love, family and friendship.
There were Dong Mingzhu and Meng Yutong before the uproar, and now there are Dong Yuhui and Dongfang Selection, isn't this all a mutual relationship, the development of the first problem, and then the final solution to the problem, and then separate development.
No one can live without anyone, and all relationships end up calming.
Either forced, or negotiated by both parties, feeling that it was time to separate, the end is separation.
In addition to the blood relationship can not be broken, other relationships can be separated, of course, blood is just a bondage, and if you want to break it, you can also break it.
If you want a good relationship to develop, you still have to be restrained and altruistic.
There are checks and balances on each other, and it is beneficial to both sides, so that we can move forward.
If one party is highly meritorious, or one party feels unfair and his interests are threatened, then even if he can go on for a while, it will not last long, because only the feet know whether the shoes fit or not, and wearing crappy shoes, sooner or later the feet will throw away the shoes.
I said earlier that one side is too dependent on the other, and it is also a bad relationship, why do you say that?
Because all people and all things are individual and independent when viewed separately, if they are together, they can go well for the time being, but it does not mean that they can go well in the future.
Everything in the world is changing rapidly, and being good now does not mean that it will be good in the future.
In a relationship, you have to be sober, you have to have your own advantages, and at the same time, you have to have your own circle, your own hobbies and your own financial income, in order to match anyone you love or love you.
In the workplace, you have to have your own ability and have the irreplaceable advantages of others, so that you can have the right to speak, can you choose to come and go freely, and not be easily manipulated and wronged by the platform or company.
Whether it is Dong Yutong or Dong Yuhui, they have achieved each other for the platform, so if they leave in the end, they should not hurt each other and develop better.