In Mr. Jin Yong's "Dragon Babu", the relationship between Wang Yuyan and Duan Yu always makes people feel a little confused. Duan Yu was infatuated with Wang Yuyan, however, Wang Yuyan always seemed to be inseparable from him, and even a little cold. Why is that?In fact, from some details in **, we can find some clues.
We must understand that Wang Yuyan is a woman with extremely high connotation and talent. She is not only beautiful, but also has extraordinary wisdom and knowledge. For such a woman, her requirements for the other half will naturally be very high. Although Duan Yu is a prince, his infatuation and nerdy spirit may only seem a little childish and ridiculous in Wang Yuyan's eyes.
On the other hand, Wang Yuyan actually has others in her heart. This person is her cousin Murong Fu. Murong Fu was born in a family, with a good demeanor, both civil and military, and shared a common language and interests with Wang Yuyan.
In **, the two are inseparable and have a deep relationship. And a large part of Wang Yuyan's indifference and avoidance of Duan Yu is because she has already given her innocence to Murong Fu.
This answer can actually be confirmed from a passage by Abi in **. Ah Bi is Murong Fu's maid and knows the relationship between Wang Yuyan and Murong Fu well. When Duan Yu asked Ah Bi about Wang Yuyan's situation, Ah Bi inadvertently revealed the deep relationship between Wang Yuyan and Murong Fu. She said: "Miss Wang is considerate to her son, why did you go and ask her cousin if he took good care of her?"The meaning of this sentence is very obvious: Wang Yuyan and Murong Fu have long had emotional entanglements, and this is one of the reasons why Wang Yuyan is cold to Duan Yu.
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However, this is not to say that Wang Yuyan does not have a trace of affection for Duan Yu. But it can be seen from the description of ** that Wang Yuyan's feelings for Duan Yu are more of a kind of gratitude and respect, rather than the love of men and women. And Duan Yu's infatuation may be more of a manifestation of naivety and immaturity in Wang Yuyan's view.
To sum up, the reason why Wang Yuyan doesn't like Duan Yu is not just because of his infatuation and nerdyness. What's more, her heart has long been occupied by Murong Fu.
And if Duan Yu wants to win Wang Yuyan's heart, he needs to be more mature and deep, and be able to resonate with Wang Yuyan spiritually. Only in this way can he truly enter Wang Yuyan's inner world and win her heart. And this may be a kind of life philosophy that Mr. Jin Yong wants to express in **: only people who have the same heart and understand each other can really come together, and infatuation and appearance are not the only factors that determine feelings.