Title Uncle regrets because of the "big boss", I am very moved!
In our mountain villages in southern Shandong, everyone is Xi to refer to the person in charge of the red and white happy event as the "big old deacon".
Although the "big boss" is not a real **, and he only has three or five days to speak, not everyone in the village can hold this position.
To be the "big boss" needs to have the qualities of honesty, kindness, simplicity, thoroughness, and respect, and it is best to have a background of "yarn hat wings".
One of them was my uncle, who had been the secretary of the village branch since he was 30 years old.
Because he is fair and helpful, and he is the "parent official" in the village and has a strong voice, everyone is willing to ask him for help whenever there is a happy event in the village, and praises him as the "big boss".
Although he was invited, he could not refuse.
On the one hand, it is his personality that is eager to help others;On the other hand, he is also afraid of being looked down upon by others who think he is just an insignificant **.
Even he himself did not expect that he had been in that position for 40 years.
Now, he has entered the old age, although he no longer serves as the secretary of the village branch for many years, but as long as there are happy events in the village, people are still willing to find him out of the mountain, he repeatedly refused, saying that he could not act, and would only sit on the field.
He smiled and said to the master that his eyes were dizzy, his thinking was old-fashioned, he could not keep up with the trend of the times, and he could no longer preside over affairs.
In the face of his resolute refusal, everyone had to give up.
He does not take the official position, does it himself, is not a bystander, only plays the role of helping, works and eats with everyone, has an approachable attitude, and treats people without the difference between distant relatives and close relatives
He is willing to help others, and everyone is willing to ask him for help when they have something.
Unlike some people, the village elders invite them to help, no matter how many times they are invited, they will not show up.
And as soon as he arrived, he sat on the sofa chair, picked up the teacup, and smoked a cigarette, as if he were the shopkeeper of the house.
He is such a person that whenever others praise him for three kind words, he will become hostile to others and will not hesitate to suffer in order to satisfy others.
Second, he did not covet the interests of the people in the village when they were in trouble, and when he was invited to help, he never enjoyed the benefits of others for free
Wherever he went, he would give a gift or burn a piece of paper.
with some"The Great Boss"Different, no matter who asks him for help, he will not just take a penny without giving a gift, but can also eat and drink comfortably, giving people a feeling of not worth mentioning.
Third, no matter who in the village asks him to be the "big boss", he will do his best to fulfill his responsibilities
He puts his passion into his work, treating others as if they were his own business, even more than his own.
However, if he does not fully consider his own affairs, he may not be able to do his best, and he is sorry for the person who entrusted him.
For example, for red and white ceremonies, he always puts himself in the shoes of the main family, tries to save expenses, and does things simply and economically, so as to avoid unnecessary expenses wasted by the main family.
The uncle insisted that he regretted what he had done
As a senior editor in the village, he was entrusted with the important task of playing the role of "big boss".
As long as he is present, the main family will follow his arrangement, whether it is a happy event or an errand, he will consider everything on behalf of the main family.
In our village, the ceremonies usually last for two days, during which my uncle would be nervous and talking, but he would not have the heart to taste the food.
If things go well, the main family is a veritable rich man;If things go wrong, it's because the "big boss" didn't guide them well.
The uncle was not understood by the people in the village, and he worked hard and hard, but he was prejudiced by some villagers.
One year, my uncle and three other "big bosses" in the village worked together for the old Xu family, and six years later, the daughter-in-law of the Xu family told everyone in front of everyone that the four "big bosses" had partnered to bully their family's property.
The uncle was very angry when he heard this, and he found the person in charge at that time, and finally proved his innocence through three doors and six certificates.
My uncle said that because he became the "elder" of the village, many of his household and agricultural chores were delayed.
One autumn, the farmers were busy with the autumn harvest, but there were four consecutive red and white celebrations in the village.
I and my wife spent more than ten days busy with these things.