I have a pension2300, my husband suspected that his son was not his own and forced me to do a paternity test, and the whole family was stupid
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I am Chen Yulan, a native of Yuncheng, and they all say that young couples are old companions, but my wife doesn't go to find a way, and has fought with me for half a lifetime.
We have a son, my in-laws have long since died, my son got married and gave birth to a little granddaughter, the family is simple, and it is said that life should be very comfortable.
In the year I retired, my husband made an amazing decision to ask my son and me, the three of us, to take a paternity test together.
The whole family was stunned by this ridiculous request, and the son was silent for a long time, and then suddenly burst into tears.
Ignoring his daughter-in-law's presence, he knelt down on the spot: Dad, Mom, can you think about it for me?
I'm so old, I'm a family and a father, Xiaofeng has been through the door for three years, and Yueyue was also born, why do you have to worry about this?
Shall we let it pass?Can you live a good life?Do you have to do it?”
I hugged my son and couldn't help crying: Son, mom wants to live a good life, I don't want to toss, but your dad is so strong, who can control him?
The husband's face was gloomy, he didn't say a word, the daughter-in-law saw that it was wrong, picked up the child and entered the house, packed the package with a gust of wind, said to go back to her parents' house, and slammed the door and left.
My husband's suspicion of me has been planted since I got married.
Back then, I was a factory flower, I could sing and dance, and I served as a curtain announcer at the Spring Festival Gala every year
In the machine shop, I drive a small milling machine, the parts turned out are precise and smooth, almost flawless, and on the honor roll at the gate, there is a big ** of my advanced workers.
The young men who chased me lined up, including the son of the factory director and the college student technician, but I never met a satisfactory one.
People say that I have high eyes and high hearts, and sparrows pick high branches to fly, and I must find a ** child outside the factory.
After everyone retreated, there was a young man who came to my house every day to work, helping my father make honeycomb briquettes and carrying water, and helping his younger siblings with their homework.
He didn't talk much, he came to say hello, and when he saw a job, he got started, and his parents liked him.
I was 28 years old that year, and my mother said: Pick and choose, don't make yourself an old girl, it's almost there, I think Xiaolei is good, honest and kind, marry him and you will not be bullied.
Although you are beautiful, our family conditions are average, and the threshold for marrying is high, so if you want to be angry in the future, you should find an honest person to be reliable.
My parents are ordinary workers, and the following two brothers and one sister are indeed average.
My mother was determined by her words, and I didn't hate Lei Xiaojun, so I agreed to get married.
At the wedding feast, the young men who chased me joked:
Lei Xiaojun, this kid is blessed, he eats swan meat, how can he be cheapened by him, and marry the most beautiful girl in our factory. ”
My husband's face was gloomy on the ground, and on the wedding night, I asked who I had been in love?
I had a clear conscience, ** could eat such unpleasant words, and quarreled with him.
The next day he apologized, saying that he was too impulsive to drink yesterday, and the two reconciled, and a month after the marriage, I found out that I was pregnant.
When Lei Xiaojun learned the news, his first reaction was not to be happy, but to count the days with his fingers suspiciously.
Having a child so soon?Got married that month, got pregnant the next month, is it such a coincidence?”
I didn't know at the time that he was suspicious, he was born in the countryside, and he had low self-esteem in his bones, so he always interrogated me again and again, what did he like about him?
Although you married me, you are still not confident, and you often puv at home: You are almost 30 years old and can't get married, so you found me, right?
I didn't bother to talk to him, and when the child was born, I heard him ask the doctor if he was pregnant with a child in the month of marriage
The doctor replied: Why not?This is called sitting on the bed, which means that the woman is easy to conceive, and it is too late for others to be happy, and the daughter-in-law gave birth to a big fat boy for you, what are you suspecting?
Once the seeds of doubt are planted, they can never be pulled out.
My son went to school at the age of 6, the factory went bankrupt and restructured, the workers bought out the seniority, and they were looking for a way out, and I found a job as a cashier in the supermarket and worked for more than 10 years.
During this period, Lei Xiaojun applied for a new company and passed the undergraduate examination, his career was thriving, he was promoted to project manager, his status changed, and what remained unchanged was his suspicion.
For so many years, from time to time I mentioned the birth of my child, arguing back and forth, living under one roof, my son roughly understood what was going on.
After junior high school, the child chose to live in the school, and until he graduated from college, he didn't go home every once in a while, saying that he didn't want to see his father's small belly.
After I completed the retirement procedures, Lei Xiaojun was diagnosed with cirrhosis, and he said that he was sick from my anger, and he has not been happy for so many years.
I replied: You are not happy because you are not happy, you are not comfortable at ease, and you make something out of nothing.
Then he ignored his son's feelings, proposed that the three of them go for a paternity test together, and said that he was seriously ill, and even if he died, he would die to understand.
The son cried and said: Dad, I am your son, no matter what you think in your heart, I always think so, you have to think about it, once you go to the appraisal, the father-son relationship will be gone.
Lei Xiaojun was stubborn and insisted on doing it, and after the results came out, it was proved that his son was his biological child.
As soon as we got home, the child packed all our belongings and said that he had bought the tickets and would send us away after the meal today.
From then on, he had no parents, and we should not come to his house again, and the son was cold and swept his parents out of the house.
When he returned to his hometown with Lei Xiaojun, he reversed his many years of virtue and began to greet me with warmth and care, but I didn't want to deal with him anymore.
I've had enough of living with a suspicious person, and now science has cleared me.
I have a pension, 2,000 yuan is not much, but it is also an income, I can still work, as long as I am in good health, it is no problem to keep working.
Whoever is separated in this world can live, Lei Xiaojun's paternity test broke my heart and my son's heart, I am ready to divorce him, and I don't want to see this person for a day.
What are the benefits of doing a paternity test for him?Just for their suspicions to be proven, the family broke up, the wife was separated, and the cost of the paternity test was too great.
A person's obsession can destroy the family, trust is the foundation of harmony, and without this foundation, it is impossible to live together.
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