At first glance, there must be doubts about this topicAuthorNerves are not normal. Yes, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, men, women and children, who do not pursue successAvoid failure and regret failure. It is like a monster suffering from the plague or AIDS, which makes people talk about defeat and change color, and they are shocked by defeat and frightened.
Thomas Moore said: If we don't understand the meaning of failure, maybe we will never succeed one day. Understanding the mystery of failure, acknowledging its effect on the mind, and accepting its necessity allows us to recognize the limits of our abilities without being discouragedPeople who have been conquered by failure and have never recovered, have a mentality that is very close to "negative narcissism". In a negative way, they refuse to acknowledge the role of "uncertainty" in their work. Negative narcissists will say, "I'm a real failure, I can't do anything." "To dwell on failure like this will only lose the opportunity to benefit the soul through failure. We can use our imagination to understand and embrace failure, making connections between failure and success. Without this connection, work can be reduced to vanity, narcissistic illusions of success and miserable feelings of failure. And if we can understand the mystery of failure, we will find that failure does not belong to us, but is only part of the work we do.
Failure is not a scary or a shame. We should jump out and observe failures, reflect on failures, and appreciate failures. Failure shows that we are not willing to be lonely and mediocreOnce boldly pioneering and enterprising;Failure shows that we dare to break through the old barriersFailure is an experience;is a kind of precipitation;It's a rare lesson. Failure will make us more mature, and if we can't climb in one direction, we will move forward in another direction. If you haven't failed on the road of life, you have been luckyEither you're too old-fashioned;Either you're too easily satisfied ......If you're a challenger, you're bound to have many battles with failure. Can you deny that your glorious edifice today was not laid with the sand and stone of failure and setback?Throughout the history of mankind, there has been no general who has not been wounded;What leader hasn't suffered?themIt's just a spiritual wealth that treats this misfortune as a life.
In fact, there are no absolute successes and failures in the world. In a sense, there will always be people in the world who are better than you, even if they don't for the time being, they will soon be born and appearNo matter how unfortunate and depressed you are now, there are always people on earth who are more miserable than you. The so-called success or failure is just the external evaluation of what others have done and the career you have developed. However, when you have 10 million, others think that you are very successful in all directions, but your goal is 1 billion, so you are still unwilling to eat and run around day and day to calculate. When you have been promoted to the head of the hall, live in a spacious building, and have an enviable car in and out, your family, friends and classmates think you have succeededIn addition to celebrating, some jealousy often breeds, but your target is the provincial level, the vice premier, so you often worry about the complicated interpersonal relationship, worry about the face of the leader above, and regret and anger because you did not get the vice provincial nomination at ......the last provincial people's meeting.
Man, although he is the master of nature, lives a very tiring lifeVery unhappy. Man is the only spirit of the animal that can laugh, but the function of human laughter is degrading day by day. A flock of sheep ran on the hills, and those who ran in front were not praised, and those who ran behind were not ridiculed. A group of monkeysInJumping in the woodsNo one is judging which one dances well and which one dances badly......Why do we have to use the words of success or failure to measure and evaluate the results of our human work, life, career, love, friendship, etc.?
It turns outIn addition to breaking the lawTemporary results other than crimes cannot be evaluated by mathematical "positive" and "negative" right or wrong. This is because it is a foregone conclusion to judge a question with the " " and " " signs. How can it be unbiased to judge a person's temporary results by success or failure?Think about it, if when Edison invented the light bulb, when he experimented 9,000 times, people thought he had failed, would there still be the glory of today's fire tree and silver flower?Even if there is, it is impossible to say how many years it will be delayed!If the literary giants still insist on the word "failure",AuthorIt is advisable to use "he has not succeeded for the time being, he has failed once", and never say "he is a failure". Of course, we should not use the latter form of expression ourselves, because it would be a bad negative suggestion, which would be very detrimental to our own life.
Failure is an integral part of life, and no one can succeed without experiencing failure.
If you taboo the word failure and blindly pursue success, then when you explore all the laws of success, you will definitely "fail", which is a frequent beating note in the success movement, struggle-failure-failure-struggle again......Until success, this is the general law of success. If you don't believe it, please open the straw paper that Chen Jingrun calculated for the "Goethe's ** conjecture" how many turns can go around the equator and seeLookThere is a lot of failure in itOr is it a lot of successful pages?and Zhao Zhangguang, the inventor of "101" hair regrowth essenceThe inventor of the "505" magic vitality bag came to Huiwu and so on. If the results of their research are likened to a "pyramid", then except for the spireThe rest of the part is almost entirely a foundation built by a boulder of failure!Feel free to read a biography of a celebrityFlip through an entrepreneur magazineWhat great man's success is not watered by the blood and tears of failure?As Qiong Yao said: The flower of success, people only envy its current brightness, but its buds were soaked in the tears of struggle and the blood rain of sacrifice.