In China's Henan province, a folk blind date story has sparked deep thought. The main character in the story is a man who doesn't seem special at first glance and decides to take advantage of a blind date that he hears about.
On that day, he saw the lady for the first time, and he was amazed by her beauty, and his mood immediately became happy.
However, in a subsequent relationship, the woman candidly informed the man over dinner that she had had a failed marriage and was now 36 years old. Despite this, she is still full of expectations for future weddings, hoping to receive a bride price of 180,000 yuan and three golds.
Although the man verbally agreed to her conditions, he was puzzled in his heart. He asked himself why the lady had such high expectations for the bride price when she had already had a failed marriage and was oldIs it that she overestimates her own worth, or does he not understand social reality enough?
Eventually, the man in the story smiles and leaves in a hurry after paying the bill.
The story may reveal the possibility that women are overestimating their own worth, or that men are unwilling to bear the high cost. Overall, this blind date ended without a hitch.
In blind dates, the woman's age is usually an important consideration for the man. Most men are more inclined to choose young women as life partners because it is more in line with their psychological expectations and to maintain their self-dignity.
In addition, while this view is not universal, there is some conventional wisdom that a woman's fertility declines with age. This is also something that some men need to weigh when choosing a partner.
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