Mo Yan said: "Dogs can't be fed, people can't please well, snakes are not warm, wolves can't be fed, soft-heartedness is disease, and love is deadly." The truth of human nature is: thousands of people have different tastes of the same tea, just because thousands of people have different hearts. If you are too kind, you will be bullied; If you are too honest, you will be taken as a fool; If you are too nice to people, you will take it for granted. ”
In this world, whether it is a person or a thing, there is no absolute good and bad, black and white, only the relationship between interests and interests. We can't expect everyone to be good to us, and we can't be good to everyone.
Because everyone's position, values and interests are different, we can't change the thoughts and behaviors of others, we can only learn to protect ourselves, distinguish between right and wrong, and choose friends.
In order to thrive in this complex society, we need to keep learning and improving ourselves, Xi and ourselves.
As the famous saying goes, "Instead of adorning yourself with a gorgeous garment, enrich yourself with knowledge and wisdom." ”
Only by truly arming ourselves with knowledge and wisdom can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.
At the same time, we must also learn to respect ourselves and others. In this world, everyone has their own worth and dignity.
Learn to respect other people's opinions and feelings, while also sticking to your own principles and bottom line. Only in this way can we truly respect others and maintain ourselves.
It is said that it is not easy to be a man, but in fact, it is not difficult. As long as we have the right values and outlook on life, broaden our horizons, and embrace all things, we can find our own place in the world and reap the happiness of our hearts.
In short, life is like a journey, and we are all people on the road. In this process, we need to learn to protect ourselves, distinguish between right and wrong, and choose friends.
We need to constantly improve ourselves, learn to respect ourselves and others, and stick to our principles and bottom line. Only in this way can we go further, more stable and happier on the road of life.