Wang Shuo once said: "Most of the circle of friends of security guards are security guards, most of the circle of friends of teachers are highly educated peers, most of the circle of friends of ** are **, and most of the circle of friends of doctors are medical care." The quality of your circle of friends reflects the level of your life. ”
Such a sharp point pointed out that our circle of friends is a true portrayal of our life level. This is not a debasement of human relationships, but a deep insight into the real society.
It is often said that "things gather by like, and people are divided by groups", which reveals a law in social life.
Your personality, personality, wealth, and income status are factors that determine what kind of people you attract and what kind of people you will become. Therefore, your circle of friends reflects your own characteristics and level.
Your circle determines your value, and what kind of people you associate with will attract what kind of friends you will attract, and it will also affect the trajectory of your life. The path you choose and the way you live are all within the influence of this social circle.
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: "Respond with the same voice, seek from the same breath." ”
You are like a magnet, your presence will attract people who have the same frequency as you, attract people with similar interests and souls, and eventually form a close-knit group.
Shakyamuni once said, "Whoever you meet, he is the person you should be in your life, and it is no accident that he will definitely teach you something." ”
Therefore, who you are with is really crucial. Some can bring you warmth and care, while others can provide you with valuable experiences and lessons. In the end, people who can get along for a long time must be attracted to each other and love each other.
However, we can't ignore the fact that different circles discuss different things. For example, people who don't have the skills discuss idle things, and people who have the skills discuss projects.
If you want to improve yourself, you must break through the restrictions of the circle and let yourself get in touch with higher-level people, so as to expand your career scope and have a broader vision and pattern.
So how do you improve yourself?First of all, don't mix into low-level circles, because negative energy will pull down your taste and make yourself worse and worse.
Be clear"Walking with tigers and wolves must be fierce beasts, and flying with phoenixes must be handsome birds".。When you are not capable enough, don't force yourself into the circle that you don't belong to, because not only will you not be able to melt in, but you will also be easily injured.
It's better to learn to endure it first, and silently work hard to improve yourself and rebuild the circle for yourself.
"Dragons don't live with snakes, chickens don't live with ducks.", a low-level circle will not only drain your energy, but will also gradually wear out your goals and pursuits.
In contrast, high-level circles will allow you to meet more excellent people and allow you to see different outlooks on life and landscapes.
These wonderful people will motivate you to keep moving forward and make your life more exciting and fulfilling.
"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black".Don't doubt that the circle can indeed shape a person, and if you continue to optimize your circle, you can continue to grow and progress.
"If you bloom, the breeze will come."Only by actively approaching excellent people can we gradually become excellent, and then attract more excellent people to come to us.
At the same time, we must also understand that only by constantly cultivating and improving ourselves can we have more opportunities to meet better people and have a more high-quality circle.