In a recent lecture, Zheng Bingwen expressed his opinion on the phenomenon of young people not daring to have children. He mentioned that the reason why young people are hesitant is because of the pressure of life, especially the burden of education, elderly care, medical care, etc. This view resonates with many people, as many young people do face these problems. However, Zheng Bingwen changed his attitude in the following remarks, and he called on young couples to look forward, seize the opportunity to have children, and seek help from relatives and friends. This view immediately sparked widespread controversy.
However, in reality, the difficulty of childbirth is by no means "temporary" to be solved, as Zheng Bingwen said. Raising a child requires a lot of effort and resources, and the burden is not simply "temporary". In addition to the effort of energy and material resources, the economic burden cannot be ignored. However, Zheng Bingwen believes that young couples can rely on the help of relatives and friends to solve these difficulties, a view that has been questioned by many. In reality, it is not so easy to find relatives and friends who can help, and not every family has such resources. For most people, their parents, let alone other relatives and friends, may not be able to help. Therefore, Zheng Bingwen's view is clearly divorced from reality.
Zheng Bingwen's remarks aroused the indignation and helplessness of many netizens. They have left messages on social ** to express their opinions. Some people joked: "This expert is really rare and courageous, and he will be my uncle in the future." Someone else sarcastically said, "The relatives of the poor are poorer and poorer." "Netizens made it clear that having a child is indeed a burden, and the help of relatives and friends is not reliable.
Some netizens shared their experiences to reveal the truth of fertility difficulties. A netizen wrote that his child is 14 years old, but there are more and more difficulties in life. He was worried about his child's myopia and spent a lot of money on orthokeratology lenses, but he didn't know if there would be *** He was also worried about the child's dental problems, and spent a lot of money on braces, but the effect was unknown. He is also worried about his child's education and whether he can be admitted to a good high school or university. In addition, he is also worried about his children's marital problems, and he is worried that he will have to pay huge financial pressure for the marriage house, car, bride price, etc. This netizen used his actual experience to tell everyone that fertility difficulties are by no means "temporary", but an ongoing problem.
When experts call on young people to have children, they often ignore the root cause of fertility problems. Young people's resistance to childbearing stems not only from the difficulties of life, but also from the uncertainty of society and the freedom of individual choice. Not everyone is suitable for childbearing and parenting, and not everyone has the resources to deal with the series of problems that come with childbirth.
Therefore, the key to resolving fertility disputes lies in resolving these fundamental issues. **More educational, elderly care and medical resources should be provided to reduce the burden on young couples. In addition, society should encourage and support individual autonomy and not overemphasize the responsibilities and obligations of childbearing. It is only on the basis of individual autonomy and social support that the willingness of young people to have children can be increased.
In conclusion, the problem of young people not daring to have children is a complex social problem that cannot be simply blamed on the difficulties of life. Experts should pay more attention to the realities of the situation and the real plight of the public when expressing their opinions, so as to more accurately guide social policies and guide young people's reproductive choices.