When we really face all kinds of problems of children, we find that theoretical knowledge is difficult to transform into practical action, and people can't help but sigh: why is it still difficult to practice after reading a lot of parenting knowledge?
The road to parenting is long and difficult. Many times, it is not a lack of knowledge, but a lack of determination and patience. Parenting books provide many theories and methods, but in practice, we need to deal with living individuals, and each child has its own growth trajectory and characteristics. Therefore, the road of parenting requires us to constantly explore, adjust, and find the most suitable method for our children.
Of course, theoretical knowledge is only a beacon on the road of parenting, it points out the direction for us, but in practice, we still need to combine the actual situation and use it flexibly. Sometimes, following the methods in books too rigidly can make us lose our sensitivity and observation of our children. Every child is unique, and they have their own emotions and needs. Therefore, we need to feel the needs of children with our hearts and accompany our children's growth with love.
So, how do you turn parenting knowledge into practical action?First of all, we need to establish the right concept of parenting. The concept of parenting is fundamental to guiding our parenting behavior. Only when we truly understand and agree with the correct concept of parenting can we firmly implement it in practice. For example, respecting children's individuality and advocating the coexistence of freedom and rules.
Second, we need to keep learning and exploring. Parenting knowledge is constantly updated, and we need to keep an open mind, keep learning new knowledge, and understand the latest parenting concepts and methods. At the same time, we must also have the courage to try and practice, and summarize the most suitable methods for our children from experience.
Finally, we need to grow together with our children. On the road to parenting, we need to establish a deep parent-child relationship with our children. Only in intimate relationships can we better understand our children's needs and emotions and better accompany them as they grow. In the process of parenting, we should not only pay attention to the growth of our children, but also our own growth. The process of growing up with our children is also the process of becoming better parents.
I read a lot of parenting knowledge, why is it still difficult to practice?In fact, the key is how we translate theoretical knowledge into practical action. Only under the guidance of the right parenting concept, continuous learning and exploration, and growing together with children, can we become better parents. Although the road to parenting is long and difficult, as long as we have confidence, patience and love, I believe we will be able to accompany our children to grow up healthy and happy.