Recently, the new term "disappointing parent" has appeared on the Internet, which has sparked a wide discussion. So, do disappointing parents hurt their children or are they educational?Let's take a look.
1. What is a disappointing parent?
Disappointing parents refer to parents who often pour cold water on their children's self-confidence and enthusiasm during their children's growth, and make their children feel frustrated, lost and unconfident. This style of parenting often manifests itself in being too demanding and demanding of the child, as well as giving negative evaluations or ignoring the child's efforts when the child achieves something.
Second, the harm of unhappy parents.
Hitting children's self-confidence: Children need to be affirmed and encouraged as they grow up, but disappointing parents often criticize and attack their children, making them feel that they are not good enough and lack self-confidence.
Affect children's mental health: Long-term blows from disappointing parents will affect children's mental health, and they are prone to psychological problems such as low self-esteem and depression.
Destroying the parent-child relationship: The education method of disappointing parents is easy to make children rebellious, destroy the parent-child relationship, and affect family harmony.
3. The educational significance of disappointing parents.
Let children learn to face frustration: Although the education style of disappointing parents will make children feel discouraged, it can also teach children how to face setbacks and failures, and develop children's resilience.
Make children more independent: Disembarkative parents tend not to spoil their children excessively, but instead let their children take responsibility and consequences, thus cultivating their children's independence and autonomy.
Make children cherish success more: While disappointing parents can make children feel lost when they achieve something, they can also make children cherish the opportunity to succeed more and pursue their goals harder.
4. How to avoid becoming a disappointing parent.
Give your child affirmation and encouragement: Give your child recognition and encouragement when they achieve something so that they feel that their efforts are recognized.
Respect children's personality and interests: Every child has their own personality and interests, and parents should respect their children's choices and not interfere and demand too much.
Establish good communication styles: Parents should establish good communication styles with their children to understand their children's ideas and needs, so as to better guide their children's growth.
Develop your child's self-confidence: Parents can build their child's self-confidence by encouraging them to participate in various activities, supporting their children's Xi and hobbies.
In short, "distracting parents" are not an absolute concept, and their harm and educational significance depend on the specific education style and the child's personality characteristics. As parents, we should try our best to adopt positive and positive education methods to guide our children's growth and avoid becoming "unhappy parents". At the same time, it is also necessary to understand that children's growth requires time and patience, and we need to face the challenges and difficulties on the road of growth with our children.