Women want you to succeed, but you don't say it directly, but you have these 4 performances, don't be stupid and miss the opportunity
Text|Lei Lei. Love is the most sacred emotion between men and women, and it is the most beautiful emotion in the world, which is irreplaceable. In the process of love, men and women communicate through subtle signals to explore each other's inner worlds.
When men and women are in love, women are often in a passive position because of physical and psychological reasons, and they are innate reserved, they cannot directly confess to men, and even hide this love shyly.
Sometimes, these signals are not obvious, but if you feel them with your heart, you will find the secret. When women develop a crush on men, they tend to express it in some unique way.
At this time, men should keenly grasp these opportunities and take the initiative until love is perfect.
1. Pretend not to chat
When a woman has a crush on a man, they may pretend to be bad at chatting in order to create opportunities for the man to get to know them better.
They may behave awkwardly and even have some awkward silence. Some people say that a woman in love is a fool, but this is not the case, this is just a deceptive illusion. Women have the instinct to pretend to be stupid and show weakness in love, just to better win the emotions of men.
However, pretending not to speak is not because they really don't know how to communicate, but because they want to get men to pay more attention to them and take the initiative to pursue them.
For example, at a party, Xiaoling looks overwhelmed by a man she likes. She fiddled with the drink in her hand for a moment, and stared at the ceiling in a daze. And when the gentleman took the initiative to talk to her, she immediately became cheerful and chatted with him enthusiastically.
This is a clear signal that she wants the man to pursue her.
Second, I want to go out alone with you
When women have a crush on a man, they will find ways to be alone with each other.
This may be because they feel that it is easier to communicate their feelings and understand each other's inner world in an environment where they are alone. Therefore, if a woman takes the initiative to invite you out alone, then it is most likely a hint that she has a crush on you and wants you to take the initiative to pursue her.
Wanting to be alone with you also conveys a kind of trust in you, even if you want to do something to her, they will not resist in their hearts. Of course, the meal needs to be eaten in one bite, and the relationship also needs to be taken step by step, not in a hurry.
For example, Vicky shows a keen interest in a man she likes. She often takes the initiative to invite him to the movies, shopping or dinner. On every date, she dresses up to show off her charm. And when the man expressed his affection for her, she was even more ecstatic.
This is a clear example of how she wants him to pursue her on his own initiative.
3. Will care about everything about you
When a woman develops a crush on a man, they show concern for everything about the other person. Whether it's work, life or family matters, they will want to know and give advice.
This concern is not motivated by friendship or sympathy, but by their affection for men. In this way, they hope to make men feel their warmth and love, so as to stimulate men's desire to pursue.
Although this kind of care may be something other than love on the surface, in the hearts of women, they are looking forward to getting love in return because of these loves, and men must understand.
For example, Xiao Min shows meticulous care for a man she likes. She often asks him about his work situation, life trivialities and family situation, and gives him some advice and help.
When this man is in trouble, she is always the first to lend a hand. Her actions made the man feel her sincerity and love, and he eventually plucked up the courage to confess his feelings to her.
Fourth, they will seek protection from you
When women have a crush on a man, they show a sense of dependence and expect the man to give them protection and security. This is not to say that they can't take care of themselves in life, but they want to show their weak side in front of men in order to stimulate men's desire to protect.
It is also a hint that they are willing to let men into their lives and become their supporters. Since ancient times, in the Chinese tradition, most of them are male outside and female inside.
Women's thoughts have a certain factor of dependence, when they say to you that they are afraid of some small things, saying that they are afraid of insects, snakes, afraid of the dark, etc., they are actually sending a signal to you!
For example, Xiao Yun shows a strong sense of dependence on a man she likes. She often asks him for help and support, whether at work or when she has problems in life.
Her actions made the man feel her trust and dependence, which strengthened his feelings for her. In the end, under the initiative of this man, the two came together.
In short, love is a wonderful emotional communication process, in which both men and women need to explore each other's inner world through subtle signals.
When a woman has the above performance, the man should find out and take the initiative to respond. Otherwise, the woman will give you the opportunity, and you are really stupid and ignorant, like a wooden man, she will definitely be disappointed, and even leave you.