When parents educate their children, they hope that they will be able to be productive and get ahead in the future, so since the baby is born, they have begun to plan their life, such as for their childrenEnroll in early education classes and interest classesAnd so on, thoughI advise you not to be so impulsive just yet, because the best education before the age of 6 is character!
But in real life, many parents have ignored this, always feel that their children's academic performance is the most important, if a child even the most important character and quality is not obtained, even if their test scores are higher, will rush to today's society will not be promising, at the same time there are many parents in the cultural education situation into the error,Therefore, if the child has this kind of "thrifty personal behavior", it is difficult to make a profit when he grows up, and parents should not get carried away!
1. Play clever "diligence and thrift".
In daily life, we often see children playing tricksSelf-righteous,Parents do not do the same thing, but also encourage children to do so, among which the more common is that children in order to better avoid the entrance fee, for example, parents in order to better take care of childrenGo to the zoo to see the animalsIf you exceed 1.2 meters, you have to buy ** tickets, and some children will intentionally wear flat heelsOr the leg is deliberately bent during the ticket checking, this kind of clever thrift is likely to jeopardize the child's personality development trend.
Such children are likely to make big mistakes in the future because of this kind of "self-righteousness".In the end, he became an untrustworthy person, and it was difficult to look up to him no matter how he went, let alone be promising.
2. "Flexible" use other people's things
In the case of studying, we often meet such people, when they don't bring their own literary equipment, they will borrow from classmates or people in front of them, and take advantage of this kind of thing to become their own, there is a sentence that is right,There are borrowed and there are like divine help, and the typical characteristic of these people is that they occupy the lowest level and sell well.
This kind of personal behavior seems to be thrifty and saving what you use, but it is unreasonable to others, and it is also the main manifestation of disrespect for others, if you continue to do that, it will affect your interpersonal interactionsAs a result, no one likes to be friends with you, and it will also harm social interaction in society**.
3. Very childish and unwilling to share with others
Although thrift is the traditional Chinese virtue of our country, but excessive diligence and thrift will make a person more and more very picky, some children will be like this in daily life, they are very small to others, they never learn to share when they have any good things, but others have fun things will continue to have the ability to grab, if the children in the family have such a major performance must be corrected as soon as possible, because this is also the Xi inertia of the royal arrogance.
If I don't correct it immediately, the child will become more and more manic after a long time, and will use violence to solve difficulties no matter what happens in the future, and often encounter many difficulties at work, let alone be able to make a difference.
Not blindly comparing with everyone is thrifty and thrifty
Nowadays, everyone's living standards are gradually improving, and there is no doubt that there will be more among the children, such as dressing up, backpacks, small toys, which is also the essence of human beings, therefore, we must inform children in the case of cultural education children not to have a blind comparison, because there is such a psychological state will make them more and more indulgent.
Maybe you all know the big truth of this, but you can't find the direction to do it, or you are more and more helpless when dealing with your child's "bear nature", in fact, this is all rightThe routine situation of a first-time father and a first-time mother, don't worry, you can be an assistant according to professional equipment as early as possible, for example, I was looking at it before I raised Erbao"Children's Emotional Control and Personality Children's Picture Book", a total of 10 volumes, professional for children's "temper tantrums", specifically guide children to become the best version of themselves.
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Li Meijin taught the necessity of paying attention to children's emotional control as before:3-6 years old is a critical period for shaping the development trend of children's personality and mentalityIf parents can grasp the shaping of one, it is enough to jeopardize the child's understanding and work later.
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