It is common to see some strange interactions between parents and children, and these situations often create disharmony in the parent-child relationship, which is the so-called "generation gap".
oneWhat are the aspects of the generation gap with parents?
When people are poor, people pay attention to food and clothing. When they are wealthy, they also pay attention to their appearance and dress. The elders who have experienced hard times are conservative and thrifty. Children who grow up in a happy society are not easy to have the consciousness of their elders. Parents want to dress normally and not dress strangely. Children feel that their parents are old-fashioned and do not understand fashion, while parents think that children are wonderful. Different aesthetics and different fashions also make a generation gap between each other.
Two. Thinking about communication strategies between parents and children in family education
1.Don't be a "judge", learn to be a "lawyer".
Some parents begin to educate their children with the attitude of "judge" when their children encounter problems, without a comprehensive understanding of their children, and simply preach from above, which will only make children resistant. Parents should be like "lawyers", fully analyze their children's inner needs, do not underestimate their self-esteem, give and defend their due rights, and become friends with them who trust each other, which is what parents should do.
2.Don't be a "referee" and learn to be a "cheerleader".
Parents cannot replace their children to face life, let alone be a "referee", but should be a "cheerleader" to give encouragement and strength to children. In the face of daily life, learning and Xi and other problems, parents should give their children enough space to make choices, rather than blindly making good decisions for their children.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care, in order to succeed, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't understand, you have to ask others for advice, and learn Xi experience and art of raising flowers.
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