Today, I don't write long essays and small essays, my writing specialty is to condense the essence and point directly to the hearts of the people.
Before people have great luck, there will be changes in interpersonal relationships.
The old relationship shows that you are in the old circle.
The loosening and dissolution of old relationships means that your old circle is broken, so that you can poke your head out and jump into the new class.
So, don't feel guilty, upset, unwilling, when those old friends are far away from you, or even betray you.
There used to be a good relationship, but once, you changed, and the other party also changed.
If there is a fate, you will see it, and if you don't have a fate, you don't have to repair it, you don't have to force it.
Don't expose your power and wealth, otherwise, don't say that people who haven't been in touch for 30 years, even people who have been buried in coffins, want to come to you.
When people fall into a trough, they always want to turn over and rise quickly.
I tell you the truth:
First, when you think you've fallen into a trough, you're actually only halfway up the mountain, and next year will be even worse. (My experience).
Second, there is no need to panic, let alone hesitate, fall into the trough, never fall to death, only give up yourself, will you die of despair.
Third, in the trough, you are already the worst, you have nothing, or even a negative number, just lie flat, build a good foundation in the trough, lay a good foundation, strengthen the body and mind and physique, out of the valley often do not have to grope for a path, but wait for the opportunity, soaring into the sky.
The distance between people and things, is echoed by each other.
You feel that others don't understand you, and others think you are unreasonable.
You reject certain things, and certain things reject you.
I see, you see, it's all because of the heart, and you don't have to seek a sense of identity.
Call friends, yes;Living alone and secluded, yes.
As long as the spirit is not entangled, out of sight and out of mind, they can go their own way.
In the face of impermanence, I am not confident at all, and it will hit me in the face at any time.
In the face of fate, I do not compromise at all, I can fight with my life at any time.
People think that God is already the greatest, but in fact, God is only the master of the Heavenly Dao.
God is the main road, the sky is strong, and the gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement.
The correspondence is Kun Dao, the terrain Kun, and the gentleman carries things with virtue.
Qiankun is just a moment of Qi, and before a Qi is impermanence.
Impermanence is the biggest boss and the biggest master of the universe.
People are most afraid of impermanence, some people met yesterday and were fine, but today they sent bad news, had a heart attack, and left.
Impermanence is everywhere.
It almost makes us think that impermanence is a ghost and a bad thing.
In fact, impermanence contains both positive and negative aspects.
Negative means accidents, suddenness, conflicts, and deprivation.
Positively, it is a pleasant, lucky, unexpected good thing.
In short, impermanence means that all the good or bad things that happen outside the plan are not controlled by people at all, and they are impermanent, not fate.
Human life can be controlled by oneself, only the strong.
The weak are often manipulated by others, defeated by themselves, and cannot be said to be in charge of their own lives.
The strong can overcome themselves, not be disturbed by the outside world and others, and live their own nature, which is to control their own life.
The winter is cold, and many things are frozen, crunchy, and many objects, instruments, and machines are easily damaged, because of aging, they are hard and brittle, and brittle are broken. (The same goes for human bones).
The rules of nature are the laws of life.
One should be soft, not hard.
Lao Tzu said that his life is also soft, and his death is also withered.
Anything that has vitality is soft and flexible;And what loses its vitality will become stiff.
I personally sent away my 3 pet dogs, and watched them go from a lively life to a stiff thing in less than half an hour.
The reality and lessons of society have made my heart strong, and my heart has become strong in order not to be bullied by others.
Many times, I thought about it myself, there is no need, life is soft, there is no need to harden myself because of the injuries I have suffered, and show my edge.
In the final analysis, it is still necessary to learn to play Tai Chi, which is tight and loose, loose and tight, relaxed and relaxed, and rigid and soft. Life is very short, and half of it has passed, so adjust to the most suitable and balanced state and live this life well.