Wen Xiamo.
As the saying goes, "Rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out." ”Everyone works hard in society, and there will be a few friends around them to a greater or lesser extent, so that they will not be too lonely.
And some people have almost no friends around them, and they don't like lively occasions very much, so they look very unsociable.
The joy and happiness of a person's life are all determined by themselves.
Those who don't have many friends in life mostly live like this.
People who don't have many friends, most of them are introverts and like to live alone.
He rarely takes the initiative to make friends, he easily does not open his heart to others, and he always stays in his own world and enjoys himself.
I don't want to have too much involvement with others, I feel that managing interpersonal relationships is very troublesome, and I always feel that my world is disturbed.
So, more often than not, he enjoys his time alone, reading a good book, sipping a cup of tea, or enjoying the night view of the city alone. Quiet, yet very pleasant.
People who have few friends seem to be silent, but they actually have a very rich inner world. Inside, it's exciting, it's lively.
When you are alone, you never feel lonely, nor do you feel that you don't know how to spend a lot of time.
A person with few friends, Xi to being alone, will run his life very full, full of elegance and indifference.
Introverts don't need a lot of friends. Because, he prefers to live an unrestrained life in his own world.
All year round, it is natural to have friends to accompany you, no matter the wind or rain, someone to help you.
It's just that everyone has their own life trajectory to follow, and their own life to be busy. Many times, your friends don't have time to take care of you.
People who have few friends are very strong in their hearts and are able to face most of life's problems independently and without relying on others.
Xi self-sufficiency and keep your life stable. With a fixed life trajectory, it is easy not to change much.
No matter what problems you encounter, you will first choose to solve them by your own ability, and will not ask others for help at will.
Unwilling to trouble others, unwilling to disturb others' lives, Xi politeness and upbringing, to maintain a distance from others.
The less he intersects with others, the fewer opportunities he has to make friends, so he always has no friends in his life and is always alone.
Self-sufficient people, not dependent on others, capable enough. Although there are few friends, most of the friends attracted are high-quality friends who can cooperate and grow together.
Belinsky said: "True friends do not pay lip service to friendship, they do not ask anything from each other for the sake of friendship, but do everything they can for each other." ”Some people don't have many friends because they don't want to spend too much time and energy to maintain a relationship.
However, if someone treats him sincerely, he will definitely accompany him with sincerity.
I don't have many friends, and I don't usually come and go often, but I have a deep relationship with each other and trust each other very much.
I've seen a paragraph ** that says:
A man has a small circle of friends, and there are not many real confidant friends.
Once, he encountered a difficult situation and tried his best, but it still did not solve the problem. So, he called his friend and explained his current situation.
The friend only told him to wait for half an hour. Half an hour later, his friend transferred him a sum of money and told him not to have pressure to solve the problem first.
Although he doesn't have many friends, every one of them is a deep friendship. As long as there is a difficulty, my friend will lend a helping hand without saying a word, and he will not shirk it.
People who don't have many friends actually take friendship the most.
Never pursue the number of friends, will not waste time on hypocritical people, and his sincerity is only given to sincere friends.
When others treat him sincerely, he will treat them with great sincerity.
Some people say that many friends have many paths. In fact, the number of friends is not in the many, but in the sincerity.
Instead of being wary of hypocritical people, it is better to stay alone and focus on running your own life.
If you meet a true friend, please cherish it and maintain each other's friendship with your heart.
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