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In the workplace, there seems to be a subtle relationship between character and circumstances. It is often said that the better the character, the fewer friends;The more down-to-earth a person is, the worse he mixes;The kinder a person is, the more suffering he will suffer;The more you do it, the more tired you are. These perspectives have led me to explore and think about the relationship between character and circumstances in the workplace. Start planning for my 2024
I know a friend named Kaixuan, he has a very good character, I have never seen him do any shady things since I was a child. When he entered a municipal institution, I thought that his character would be recognized in the unit and make many like-minded friends.
However, the truth surprised me. Not long after Triumph joined the company, I found that there were many improper behaviors in the unit, such as unauthorized use**, paid absenteeism, etc. But Triumph has always adhered to its principles and has never participated in these violations. As a result, he had almost no friends in the unit, and everyone thought that he was too worried and spoiled them"Good thing"。
Once, the department held a party, and everyone went to KTV to sing and play late, but Kaixuan left early to go home alone. The next day, when I heard that the party had been reimbursed, Triumph sternly objected that it was an illegal operation. However, none of his colleagues supported him, and everyone sided with the use of the ** party, and Triumph's proposal was ultimately rejected.
Through these things, I realized that in the workplace, the better the character, the fewer friends I usually make. Because most people are happy to get some illegal benefits from the unit, even if it is only a small convenience. People like Triumph who stick to their principles are especially uncomfortable for everyone. Therefore, in public institutions, people with good character are often lonely.
At the same time, I have also observed that employees like Kaixuan who are down-to-earth and willing to work often do not mix well. Many people in the unit know how to lead the rhythm, will curry favor with the leader, and spread gossip. These people openly and secretly do everything possible to fiddle with interpersonal relationships, although the means are not legitimate, but they are often able to climb faster and higher. In contrast, Kaixuan just buried his head in hard work and never played with power, but as a result, he was distanced from others.
What distressed me the most is that I found that in the workplace, the kinder the person, the more suffering he endured. Triumph is always enthusiastic about helping others, never caring about his own gains and losses. However, some selfish colleagues deliberately pushed some of the drudgery they didn't want to do to Triumph, because they knew he wouldn't refuse. Gradually, the burden on Kaixuan's shoulders became heavier and heavier, and his own interests were also lost.
On another occasion, our department made a major misjudgment for which the head of department should have been primarily responsible. However, the supervisor used personal relationships to put most of the blame on Triumph alone. Kaixuan knew that it was not his responsibility, but out of consideration for the harmony of the unit, he silently undertook the punishment and losses.
I saw it in my eyes, and I felt very sorry for Kaixuan, and felt that he had suffered too much loss in the unit. However, Triumph told me that he had no complaints, because he had chosen this path and he had to bear the consequences. He believes that in the unit, the more you do the right thing, the greater the pressure and pain you will have. But as long as he has a clear heart, the injustice of the outside world is not a problem for him.
Through the experience of Triumph, I realized that there are many irrational phenomena in public institutions. However, each of us has the power to choose. A person like Kaixuan, who adheres to principles and is willing to suffer, although he has endured all the hardships in the unit, his sense of satisfaction and justice in his heart is more than anyone else.
In contrast, the emptiness and distress in the hearts of those who are reluctant to live in peace may be even greater.
Therefore, I hope that everyone will not be discouraged in the face of this situation. It is precisely because there are people like Triumph who stick to their original intentions that they bring a glimmer of hope to this world.
Each of us does not need to judge the choices of others, but at least we are responsible for our own lives.
Temporary pride will eventually pass by, and a life worthy of one's conscience will become an eternal legend.
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