When it comes to marriage, it seems like the right answer can never be found.
Everyone's understanding of marriage is different, in this vast world, is it really reasonable to split legs and be loyal to choice?
In October 2016, badminton Grand Slam winner Lin Dan did an extremely unseemly thing to his wife Xie Xingfang.
At the Hilton Hotel in Foshan, Guangdong, Lin Dan and a long-legged beauty forgot to close the curtains before they became passionate.
Lin Dan hugged a long-legged beauty under the gaze of **, and she whispered a few words in his ear. Immediately afterwards, the two kissed passionately, and Lin Dan quickly indulged in it, put his hand on the buttocks of the long-legged beauty, and stroked it.
Zhao Yaqi, this woman who is known as a long-legged beauty, can be seen from their demeanor that they seem to be very familiar with this kind of unsightly behavior, and it is not the first time.
After Lin Dan's ***, the whole network criticized him. No one could have imagined that the man who claimed to be in love with Xie Xingfang at the age of 14 would commit an unfaithful act during his wife's pregnancy.
On November 4, that is, a month later, Xie Xingfang gave birth to a son with Lin Dan. In order to maintain his image as an excellent man, Lin Dan deliberately posted such a news on social platforms: "Welcome to your arrival, Fangfang has worked hard."
A couple and their children were intimate and happy together, but Xie Xingfang didn't know that a month ago, the man in front of her had staged a passion scene with another person in a big hotel.
It wasn't until November 17 that **I saw the **picture of Lin Dan falling from the altar. Before this, Xie Xingfang was still in confinement, and she must have felt very painful when she saw her husband like this.
In the midst of everyone's accusations, Lin Dan stepped forward and said that he would no longer justify his actions and apologized unreservedly to the injured family members.
Everyone was waiting for Xie Xingfang's response, and in the face of Lin Dan's bad behavior, everyone thought that she would choose to divorce and not forgive him, because he betrayed his marriage and destroyed his family.
Xie Xingfang posted a message, saying that the family will support this man who has the courage to take responsibility and is willing to correct his mistakes. However, the opposite is true, and such a response has shocked netizens.
is different from the ambiguity when watching the glow-in-the-dark script in the entertainment industry, this time it was really photographed cheating, it can be said that in the marriage with Lin Dan, Xie Xingfang is more patient than imagined.
Future badminton star Lin Dan was born on October 14, 1983 in Longyan, Fujian Province.
Xie Xingfang, as the only daughter in the family, is already two years old in Baiyun, Guangzhou, on the other hand, she is pampered by her parents.
Lin Dan was very naughty when he was a child, and his parents were teachers, and they tried their best to educate Lin Dan well. In addition to imparting knowledge, they also pay great attention to cultivating his qualities.
In order to calm Lin Dan's mood, his parents spent money to buy a piano and go home. However, because Lin Dan has always had ADHD and could not sit still in one place for a long time, he only practiced the piano for Xi a few days before it was put on hold.
It wasn't until later that his parents realized that Lin Dan seemed to be interested in sports, whether he was bouncing or playing ball, he was full of energy, as if he could never run out of energy.
Under the guidance of their parents, the family would go to the gymnasium to play when they had free time, with his father keen to play table tennis and his mother fond of swimming. Lin Dan, on the other hand, developed a strong interest in badminton at the age of 5.
In order to allow Lin Dan to learn Xi badminton more deeply, his parents signed him up for an amateur badminton class. Because Lin Dan Xi used to use his left hand to power and hit the ball, this attracted special attention from the teachers in the training hall.
Due to his young age, Lin Dan looks a little wobbly when playing, and although his skills have not yet reached a high level, he is the most persevering member of the team.
After the class level test, it was found that Lin Dan achieved full marks in basic footwork, movements, and touching the ball back and forth.
At that time, Xie Xingfang was beautiful and tall, and when she was in the first grade, the school's badminton teacher found that she had talent, so when she was 6 years old, she was selected to enter the Guangzhou Badminton Sports School.
Due to the average family conditions, Xie Xingfang's life in the sports school was quite difficult. Because the training facility is so far away from her home, her father has to ride her to the station before each departure, and then she has to drive alone for an hour to reach the gymnasium.
The only worry of her parents is that Xie Xingfang has been thin since she was a child, and playing badminton requires a lot of exercise, so every time she goes home, she seems exhausted.
Xie Xingfang has lost a lot of badminton rackets since she entered the sports school, and often falls asleep on the bus because she is too tired, and forgets to take them home.
Lin Dan, a 9-year-old child, was sent to Fujian Provincial Sports School by his parents in 1992 because of his love for badminton.
Lin Dan spent his childhood in the company of his parents, but when he entered the sports school, he faced a closed management environment.
Lin Dan was very uncomfortable with the life of living in school, but he could not do anything, so he could only obey the school's arrangement, and spent the nights of missing his parents silently crying.
After several years of experience, Lin Dan gradually showed a manly demeanor. At the age of 12, he participated in the National Junior Badminton Championship for the first time and successfully won the men's singles championship with his special skill of being left-handed.
At that time, Xie Xingfang had reached a certain level of training, and she often went out to compete as a representative, but she did not like badminton as much as the outside world sees.
However, Lin Dan was different, and he caught the attention of the Bayi Industrial Brigade for his outstanding performance on the badminton court, and began a years-long military career in 1995 as a soldier.
Xie Xingfang ushered in the first glorious moment of her badminton career, she won three championships in one fell swoop at the Guangdong Provincial Games, and as a result, she won a 180,000 prize money.
In order to thank her parents, Xie Xingfang used the first money she earned to install ** for them. Now life is getting better and better, which makes her determined to stick to badminton.
After being selected by the Guangzhou badminton team, Xie Xingfang joined the team, and Fu Hanxun became her enlightenment coach, which was after achieving good results in the provincial games.
The coach thinks Xie Xingfang is a smart player who is good at using her brains to play in the game.
In 1997, Xie Xingfang was soon selected for the national badminton youth team for her outstanding skills.
At that time, Lin Dan was assigned to Nanri Island to experience the life of the army, in addition to basic badminton training, he also needed to stand guard and participate in drills with other army personnel.
In the army, Lin Dan often faced severe torture under the scorching sun, and the emergency assembly at night also made it difficult for him to sleep. Although this life was extremely difficult, Lin Dan's rigorous training tempered Lin Dan's strong and resilient character, which arguably laid the foundation for him to become a World Champion in the future.
At the age of 14, Lin Dan's heart began to beat because of a girl. Once, during emergency training in the army, a tall and tall girl appeared in the army.
The boys in the army were very excited for a while, because they hadn't seen a woman for a long time, and this beautiful girl was Xie Xingfang, who had made a name for herself in the world of badminton.
In order to prepare for the Asian Youth Championships, Xie Xingfang went to the Bayi team for training. In order to improve the training effect, her coach arranged Lin Dan as a sparring partner.
The wonderful thing is fate, they train together every day and naturally get to know each other well. In Lin Dan's heart, seeing Xie Xingfang, who was fair-skinned, slim, and smiling, all the fatigue seemed to have disappeared.
Although Xie Xingfang is two years older than Lin Dan, her mentality is more mature. She didn't have any other thoughts about Lin Dan, she just regarded him as an ordinary friend she met in the army.
After a period of training day after day, Lin Dan began to have a good impression of Xie Xingfang. However, he is still just a young and ignorant child, and he is still a little overwhelmed when faced with sudden love.
Lin Dan lacked the courage to move forward, and deep down he had a fondness for Xie Xingfang. Just as the Asian Youth Championship was approaching, Xie Xingfang left the Bayi team and passed by Lin Dan, and the fate of the two diverged from then on.
He didn't ask Xie Xingfang about his Xi practice again, but buried his first love in the depths of his heart.
In October 2000, Lin Dan officially left the Bayi team and joined the national badminton team; At the same time, Xie Xingfang has participated in many badminton competitions and won several championship trophies.
In order to get closer to Xie Xingfang, Lin Dan has been working hard to practice Xi badminton skills. It wasn't until the 2002 Korea Open Badminton Championships that Lin Dan, who was not yet 19 years old, won the International Badminton Federation championship.
Lin Dan finally had the chips and began to take action against Xie Xingfang. For the first time, he mustered up the courage and successfully obtained Xie Xingfang's *** However, in the next few years, Lin Dan never showed his thoughts and silently guarded Xie Xingfang's side.
In 2003, Xie Xingfang participated in the World Championships for the first time, she had a crush on this girl, and defeated Singapore's Xiao Lu all the way, but in the end she lost 0-2 to Gong Ruina.
Xie Xingfang's recent poor performance in several consecutive matches has made her frustrated with her badminton career. During this time, Lin Dan often sent her messages as a flower messenger, enlightened and encouraged her, and became her spiritual support.
After in-depth contact, Xie Xingfang also noticed that Lin Dan, who was two years younger than herself, was gradually becoming more mature.
2004 is here in a blink of an eye, and this year is very important for Lin Dan, not only a turning point in his career, but also the beginning of the love between him and Xie Xingfang.
Lin Dan successfully defended his title by defeating Bao Chunlai by a landslide at the Swiss Open Badminton Championships. It was also the fourth time he has won the title in the last five Open Championships.
Therefore, the title of Super Dan was given to Lin Dan because watching him play is really a real pleasure.
During the Spring Festival in 04, Lin Dan expressed his love to Xie Xingfang and expressed his hope to have the opportunity to meet her. This sweet text message turned out to be a good couple.
Lin Dan confessed his heart to Xie Xingfang, thinking that he was very happy to be pursued by the person he liked. After meeting, Xie Xingfang also really felt Lin Dan's emotions. This time, Xie Xingfang did not hesitate anymore and resolutely agreed to Lin Dan's confession.
Lin Dan suffered a major career setback at the Athens Olympics when he unexpectedly lost to Singapore's Lim Yu Feng in the first round despite being ranked number one in the world at the time. The impact of this defeat on him was huge.
After the match, Lin Dan was depressed and fell into a state of depression after returning home. At one point, he considered giving up training, but Xie Xingfang always encouraged him and took him out to play and experience bungee jumping to release his stress. Soon, the love between them supported Lin Dan, and also made the relationship between him and Xie Xingfang deeper.
Since then, Lin Dan has been at the pinnacle of his athletic career. In December 2005, he reached the final of the World Cup and won his first world title with a 2-0 victory over Thailand's Vensar Posana.
At that time, Lin Dan's name was loud and sound in the Chinese badminton world, and even every match was full of expectations.
In 2007, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang both had a glorious moment in their careers, going all out at the All England Open to win the men's singles and women's singles titles respectively.
Xie Xingfang, who was standing on the podium, made Lin Dan excited, and he couldn't wait to express his love to her, so he ran straight to the podium and gave her a first kiss like a TV screen.
Lin Dan's public relationship has triggered a big report that he and Xie Xingfang are known as fairy couples, champion couples, golden boys and girls in the feather world, etc. These titles are used to describe the love between them.
Despite falling in love, Lin Dan did not relax in his pursuit of a badminton career. In 2008, he defeated Lee Chong Wei without dropping a game, becoming the first player in badminton history to win both the All England, the World Championships, the World Cup and the Olympic Games.
Xie Xingfang ended her badminton career after winning multiple silver medals, while the other did.
Although the match did not end perfectly, Lin Dan still sent a heartwarming message to Xie Xingfang: "No matter what the result is, you have worked very hard and are very good. I'm proud of you. ”
Xie Xingfang announced her retirement in 2009, and then on December 13, 2010, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang received a marriage certificate at the Zhuhai Famous Certificate Bureau in Guangzhou, and their six-year relationship finally came to a successful end.
Since Lin Dan will participate in the London Olympics, the wedding of the two has been postponed.
In 2012, Lin Dan performed well in the tournament, defeating Malaysian rival Lee Chong Wei again to successfully defend the title, as if he had turned on invincible mode.
Lin Dan was extremely excited at that moment, and even tears burst out of his eyes, because the eyes of countless Chinese people were on him.
He won the championship and everyone was very proud of him. At that time, Xie Xingfang also witnessed the moment when Lin Dan became a real man.
Lin Dan held a grand wedding for Xie Xingfang at Beijing University of Technology on September 23 of the same year. After marriage, Xie Xingfang was immersed in love, willing to be the woman behind Lin Dan, and willing to be diligent and thrifty.
In order to better help Lin Dan train, Xie Xingfang worked hard at home to build a complete gym with all the equipment needed for training. This move is especially important considering that Lin Dan will also compete in the Olympics.
Whenever Lin Dan injured his muscles, Xie Xingfang would always bring ice cubes and keep giving him ice compresses, so an ordinary but happy life lasted until 2016.
That year, Xie Xingfang was pregnant with her first child with Lin Dan, so to be on the safe side, she chose to stay at home to prepare for pregnancy, while Lin Dan continued to prepare for the Rio Olympics.
With the arrival of August, the competition of the Rio Olympics officially begins. Lin Dan started in excellent form and achieved satisfactory results. However, in the semi-finals, he lost to Lee Chong Wei and was unable to achieve the feat of winning three consecutive Olympic titles.
When everyone was surprised, Zhao Yaqi had already quietly appeared, and what was even more surprising was that Xie Xingfang actually played Lin Dan's game with Zhao Yaqi.
In order to alleviate the pressure, Lin Dan secretly took Xie Xingfang, who was eight months pregnant, out to play after the game, while enjoying herself outside with Zhao Yaqi.
Lin Dan may think that he does not belong to the entertainment industry, so he may think that no one will follow and photograph him. However, when the t*** in November was touched, Lin Dan was completely stunned.
*Not only did Lin Dan go out with a long-legged beauty in September**, but also showed the picture of the two holding hands and shopping, which seemed a little bold.
During Xie Xingfang's pregnancy, Lin Dan began to leisurely date the beautiful Zhao Yaqi. After people's in-depth investigation, it was soon learned that this long-legged beauty turned out to be Miss Global Tourism Zhao Yaqi.
Zhao Yaqi is not an ordinary person, with her hot figure, she once had a relationship with Gao Hu.
Due to the needs of work, she established contact with Lin Dan, and after ***, Zhao Yaqi was condemned by the whole network, and everyone was criticizing her.
Becoming a third party is always the most humiliating and unforgivable act, and eventually Zhao Yaqi publicly apologized after the situation deteriorated.
I never imagined that my rash actions would cause harm to so many people.
Lin Dan also issued an apology statement to his family, saying that he did not meet the standards of a qualified husband by engaging in such behavior during his wife's pregnancy. As a man, he felt that he had failed his family's expectations.
In marriage, Lin Dan made a mistake, and what ended the relationship was a sentence from Xie Xingfang.
In order to save Lin Dan's image, Xie Xingfang, despite her weak body, firmly stated that Lin Dan had recognized her mistake, and posted a ** of a family of three holding together, expressing her determination to face difficulties together with Lin Dan.
Many netizens were deeply disappointed, thinking that Xie Xingfang would be treated coldly, but finally chose to forgive, such a reaction is unbelievable.
Xie Xingfang realized that maybe she couldn't just be a stay-at-home wife, but needed to pursue a career development.
Xie Xingfang then set her sights on the maternal and infant market, created her own maternal and infant brand, and served as her own boss, showing the demeanor of a successful woman.
In the mouths of others, her husband Lin Dan was once known as "Super Dan", but now he is only left with the title of "touching P shares". In an interview, the host asked Xie Xingfang's opinion on Lin Dan's derailment.
Xie Xingfang replied with a calm attitude: "Marriage is a kind of growth, and it is also a matter between two people. Everyone can make mistakes in marriage, it's just that every family solves problems differently. ”
Maybe in Xie Xingfang's heart, Lin Dan's derailment incident left a scar that will never heal herself, but looking back on the bits and pieces that the two have experienced together, the years of hard work together, the journey of fighting together, and the time when they grew up together.
It is not easy to go through a long journey and finally step into the palace of marriage. Although the initial novelty has passed, the two ran hand in hand to create the life they are today.
Xie Xingfang has children, has a complete family, and has experienced many years that are difficult to give up, she chose to be patient and chose to silently endure the criticism of others and continue to move forward.
Because of her traditional beliefs, she aspires to build a complete family and let the whole family enjoy a happy life.
For now, Lin Dan has indeed become much more low-key after Xie Xingfang forgave him. However, it is still difficult to determine whether the marriage status of the two is compatible or really returned to the original state.
Xie Xingfang's endurance is admirable, Lin Dan is now 38 years old, he made a mistake under the ** of desire, and now he can't go back to the past. As the father of his children, he has left regrets in his life.
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