Do you envy the kind of people who make quick money and make money off the beaten track?It is the kind of person who seizes the opportunity to earn millions of dollars in a year or even a few months, instantly reaches the peak of life, and realizes the leap of wealth class.
But in fact, you don't need to envy these people, first, you can't envy them, and second, the real results may not be as beautiful as you see.
Take what happened around Shang Ze as an example, a friend of mine followed me to do e-commerce before, but because he didn't catch the first wave of dividends late in the industry, he did a very average job. When I was 15 years old, I couldn't bear the loneliness, so I found another way to do micro-business, at that time, micro-business was in the hot stage, the platform supervision was not strict, and customers were relatively novel. Then I encountered the double blow of the platform and the law, I didn't dry my hands, I held 30 million in my hand, what is not good to do, even if I buy a few houses, I can at least double my earnings in 17 years to now. As a result, I was fascinated and went to build a bar KTV, due to poor management, although I barely survived for three years, but I didn't make any money, and the investment in hardware equipment was wasted. Later, I was unwilling, and I don't know which relative at home said that the hotel business was stable, so I took out the remaining money, borrowed millions, and invested in a hotel. Family life is also worse, the wife and children are forced to pay debts every day, and they are terrified, in order not to affect the children, they divorced last year, and now in addition to the house they live in, even the children's living expenses are difficult. If he didn't invest at the beginning, then the money he made from micro-business would be enough to support him through the trough period of his life over the years, because for him, that is, after six years, he would be able to usher in his own tailwind.
But now?In his forties, he is in the first stage of his career when he reaches middle age, and as a result, he is under so much pressure that every step forward is extremely difficult, and this heel fall is likely to affect him for the rest of his life. Therefore, when reading numerology, Shang Ze often said that it is difficult to buy old luck with money, and it is not necessarily a good thing to have good luck when you are young, and it is normal to have some stumbles and unhappiness, which is the only way to go through life, and you are accumulating experience for yourself. On the contrary, it is too smooth when you are young, and when you fall on your heels in middle and old age, it is often more fatal to a person than when you are younger. In fact, such cases abound around us, although numerologists can see a person's good luck and troughs, and even have some means to avoid and mitigate the occurrence of adverse results, but numerologists are not omnipotent, some things are destined, and no one can change them.
All the Fa, all the magical techniques, revolve around your own fortune, and the focus is still on yourself. If you want to change your fortune, you must first change your mind, and change your mind in essence, most people can't envy the matter of getting rich, you don't have that life, and there is a high probability that you can't bear it if you get rich. To use the popular word, virtue is not worthy of wealth, and many people do not have the ability to control this wealth, so when wealth comes, he can't catch it. Similarly, Shang Ze thought of another word, called Virtue and Virtue, do the things at hand in a down-to-earth manner, and move forward step by step, it should be yours, you can't hide it, it's not yours, you can't ask for it.