Woman: the center of the family, the key to happiness.
Introduction. 
If a man is the steel backbone of a family, then a woman is a soft flesh and blood**. In a family, the man may be able to support the material burden, but the happiness of the family often depends on the role and contribution of the woman. The wife is undoubtedly the soul of the family. To have a virtuous wife is to have a precious treasure. As Kant said, "The family is a microcosm of society, and in fact, it is the smallest society capable of self-sustaining." "A woman is the leader of a family. The future development of a family can actually be seen from the wife to a large extent.
1.A woman's character determines the degree of harmony in the family.
Whether a family develops well or not depends largely on the woman's character. A woman's personality is directly related to whether family relations are harmonious or not. In a family, if the hostess is positive and cheerful, then the husband will also be more relaxed and gentle. The child will feel the warm love from the mother, and the whole family atmosphere will be more harmonious. A woman with a good personality can quickly establish a good relationship with everyone in her in-law's family, and the degree of mutual acceptance will be higher. On the contrary, a woman with a bad personality is prone to anger and does not control her emotions well, which will bring fear and helplessness to the child's heart. It may even lead to a husband who is reluctant to go home and does not want to get along with a wife who only loses his temper and cannot communicate quietly. A woman with a bad personality is prone to make the family full of quarrels, estranged between husband and wife, children become rebellious, and the whole family relationship is chaotic. As a result, both spouses may no longer care about running the family, and happiness will become a luxury.
2.The pattern of a woman determines the direction of the development of the family.
The pattern of a woman determines the direction of the development of the family and the development of the career of both husband and wife. Some women are reluctant to let him go on business trips in order to get the company of their husbands, and they don't want him to devote himself to fighting for his career. This kind of woman who lacks pattern is short-sighted and likes to enjoy, but she is unwilling to fight. They like to spend money, but they don't know how to make it. In life, when you encounter a little problem, you rely on your husband and don't share any pressure with your husband. Although she has married and become a mother, she still treats affairs like a child. They don't have their own opinions, and they don't have a clear plan for their careers and families. In marriage, this kind of woman with a small pattern is unwilling to give and just wants to take. It is difficult for such a woman to bring happiness to the family, her husband's career will not develop better, and it is difficult for her children to have a prosperous future. Comparatively speaking, a woman with a pattern knows how to plan the development of the family, how to treat her husband well, and how to raise her children. They will spur themselves and their husbands to develop their careers together and make the family better.
3.The way a woman is educated affects the character of her children.
Children are the future of a family, and the happiness of a family also depends on the nurturing of children. Qiu Xiaoxia in the film "Life Home" is a typical example. She was alone with her daughter Qiu Dongna, and her life was very difficult. However, she firmly believes that her daughter should be raised, and she is positive and optimistic even when she lives in poverty. Through a unique way, let the daughter feel more happy, find the feeling of the ride, and learn to cook food. She told her daughter that no matter how poor a person is, he must earn it with his own hands. As long as you actively think of a way, there is no difficulty that you can't get over. Such mothers raise their daughters to be upright, kind, and brave. She used her persistence and hard work to exchange her daughter for a happier and more wonderful life and create a brilliant future. As Lincoln said, "I owe all that I have, and I can do, to my angelic mother." "Parents are the first teachers of their children, and mothers are the most trustworthy and reliable people in their children's minds. The mother's personality and attitude will profoundly affect the growth of the child, guide the healthy growth of the child, cultivate the child's good character, and make the family more prosperous.
4.Hear the autumn voice.
Women are the central point of the family. Emerson said, "A hundred men can build a camp, but a woman must build a home." "If a woman knows how to be well-read, has a wealth of knowledge, and is able to correct the family style, so that the child will have a good character and character. In family relationships, it is necessary to reduce scheming and make the family feel happy;Pay attention to your children's academics and train them to become excellent, independent and self-reliant. At the same time, excellent women will strive to make themselves grow, improve themselves, broaden their horizons and pattern, and lead their families to achieve better development.
end - About the author:
Smell the sound of autumn and make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.