My neighbor, Aunt Wang, is an elementary school teacher and lives downstairs from me. Maybe we are both teachers and have some common topics, and occasionally when we have nothing to do, I will go to her house and drink tea and chat.
Aunt Wang's daughter, Ah Rong, is in the ninth grade this year, and the walls of her living room are plastered with Ah Rong's awards. I'm very curious, Ah Rong doesn't seem to be the kind of child who is very talented, Aunt Wang and his wife are not high-level intellectuals, why is her daughter's grades so good?Education
Aunt Wang is 42 years old and teaches primary school Chinese, and her daughter Ah Rong is 15 years old and in the ninth grade. When it comes to her daughter, Aunt Wang's face is full of excitement, she said that from elementary school to now, Ah Rong's studies have been good, and the total score of each exam ranks in the top three in the grade.
She once quietly asked me, which is better, Tsinghua University or Peking University?The implication is that she thinks that Ah Rong will definitely be admitted to Tsinghua University or Peking University in the future. I laughed. But I still admire her in my heart, her husband is in business, and he can't take care of Ah Rong's studies at all, and it is indeed not easy for her to cultivate Ah Rong so well by herself.
Yesterday, I couldn't help but ask her, Ah Rong's studies have always been top-notch, how did she do it?Do you have any "ancestral secret recipes"?Aunt Wang haha Yile said, **What's the secret recipe?In fact, her approach is very simple.
1.Don't give your daughter pocket money casually. Aunt Wang said that since she was a child, she has never given Ah Rong pocket money for no reason, and her daughter's pocket money must be earned by labor. For example, for each time you brush the bowl, give 1 yuan, for each mopping the floor, give 2 yuan, and so on. This can not only help children develop the habit of bearing hardships and standing hard work, but also let children realize that there will be rewards for paying, and a better life needs to be fought for by themselves, so as to cultivate Ah Rong's enterprising consciousness.
2.Collect your daughter's mistakes and consolidate them repeatedly. Most of the questions that are easy to make mistakes are related to the important and difficult points in the textbook, some are very comprehensive questions, and of course, there are also careless and careless ones. Only by making mistakes will the results be good. Since the first grade of primary school, Aunt Wang has scanned Ah Rong's mistakes into the computer every day and saved them according to the subject classification.
Every weekend, she prints out all the mistakes of the week and asks Ah Rong to redo them. At the end of each month, she prints out all the mistakes of Ah Rong that month and asks Ah Rong to do it again. Before the final exam, she would print out all the wrong questions of a semester and let Ah Rong do it seriously.
3.Bonuses are set according to the size of the number of mistakes. When Ah Rong redoes the wrong question, Aunt Wang will give her money as a reward. The amount of money is determined according to the number of wrong questions, and if all the wrong questions are done correctly every week, 20 yuan will be rewarded, and 2 yuan will be deducted for a wrong questionIf you get all the wrong questions right every month, you will be rewarded with 80 yuan, and 20 yuan will be deducted for one wrong questionIf you get all the wrong questions in a semester right, you will be rewarded with 300 yuan, and 30 yuan will be deducted if you make a wrong question.
Aunt Wang used this method to make Ah Rong develop the habit of independently and consciously understanding every wrong question, so Ah Rong was able to maintain a good score in the top three of her grade in every exam.
Aunt Wang's approach is indeed very simple, but any parent with a certain level of knowledge and computer operation can do it. Her educational approach has a certain scientific and positive significance, which is mainly manifested as follows.
Good habits should be cultivated from an early age. Aunt Wang is a caring person, she has paid attention to cultivating Ah Rong's habits of loving labor, not being afraid of hardship, and being diligent since she was a child, and it can be said that these good habits are of great benefit to Ah Rong's subsequent learning. Studying itself is a difficult work, and it is impossible for people who are afraid of hardship and tiredness to achieve good grades. Ah Rong's ability to maintain the top three overall grades is closely related to the good habits she has developed since she was a child.
"Catching the wrong questions" is a good way to improve your grades. The questions can be done, which means that the corresponding knowledge points have been learned, and the wrong questions correspond to the knowledge points that have not been learned. Grasp the wrong questions and consolidate them repeatedly, so that you can check and fill in the gaps in time and achieve the purpose of fully mastering the knowledge points. Experience has proved that sorting out the set of mistakes and correcting every mistake is a very effective way to improve subject performance.
Motivation is motivated. Since she was a child, Aunt Wang has used the method of rewarding money, allowing Ah Rong to earn pocket money through labor. After going to school, Aunt Wang applied this method to Ah Rong's learning, and if she made a mistake and did it right, she would be rewarded, and the more she was right, the more generous the bonus. This is actually an incentive measure, where there is motivation, there is motivation, there is motivation, and it can effectively achieve the desired goal.
Aunt Wang's education method of Ah Rong has strong operability, which is worthy of reference by parents. However, this method does not work for every student. If the student is very inert, is not interested in monetary or material incentives, has a weak learning foundation, or is not able to persist in doing it for a long time, it may not have an immediate effect.
Children's education and cultivation is a systematic project and a step-by-step process. It is a stone of the mountain and can be used to attack jade, but the characteristics of each child are different, and the education method is also different from person to person. Other people's good educational methods can be borrowed, but they cannot be imitated mechanically, otherwise it will be self-defeating and counterproductive. Personal opinions, welcome comments.
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