There is a sentence in "A Bite of China":Chinese will always hide bitterness in their hearts, and turn happiness into food and present it on the table.
Happiness in life does not lie in how much you have, but in the simple smell of fireworks.
It is a fragrant meal, a mood of appreciating flowers, and a wisp of tenderness that lingers in the heart.
In life, it is not because of beauty that you feel warm, but because your heart is warm, so you feel beautiful.
In ancient China, the most heartwarming story is the story of Liang Hong and Meng Guang raising their eyebrows.
Meng Guangyuan was the daughter of a wealthy family, and she married Liang Hong, who came from a poor family.
Since then, Meng Guang has been willing to eat three meals a day.
And Liang Hong saw the steaming food carefully prepared by his wife, and he also respectfully expressed his heartfelt gratitude.
When there is love in the heart, even if it is a cup of soup and a bowl of soup, it can withstand the wind and rain, and it can also warm the four seasons of life.
The poet Yuan Zhi of the Tang Dynasty once looked back on his life with his wife Wei Cong and said with infinite sadness, ".Poor and lowly couples mourn everything".
However, in such poverty, Wei Cong was full of affection and love for Yuan Zhen.
Gu I have no clothes to search for the basket, mud he sells wine and pulls out the gold hairpin. Wild vegetables are full of sweet and long-growing weeds, and fallen leaves add to the ancient acacia. ”
Wei Cong was willing to exchange his most precious golden hairpin for a pot of fine wine, and made ordinary wild vegetables into very delicious food.
Three meals of tea and rice, between the fireworks, are full of gentle attention and full of fragrant breath.
The heat in the three meals is the warm love and thoughtful affection for the family and relatives.
There is a poem in "Han Yue Fu" that describes for us a piece of tenderness that haunts our hearts.
There are strange trees in the courtyard, and the green leaves are blooming. Climb the strip to fold its glory, will be left behind. The fragrance fills the sleeves, and the road is far away.
The poet said euphemistically, because he smelled the fragrance of flowers wafting in the courtyard, he thought of you in the distance.
In other words, because of my affectionate thoughts about you, the flowers in front of me are extraordinarily beautiful and fragrant.
When we stop and savor the faint fragrance of flowers in front of us, the fragrance has already entered our lives.
Su Dongpo once said, ".I was afraid that I would fall asleep in the middle of the night, so I burned a high candle to shine red makeup. ”
Life is always cherished because of tenderness, and see more beauty, smell more flowers.
People who have love in their hearts will be full of fragrance, and they are willing to give the fragrance to their lovers from afar.
The tenderness in the heart, the love in the heart, is always more abundant and more satisfying between giving and giving.
As Master Nebula said,Spring is not the season, but the heart.
When we smell the fragrance of flowers, give out the fragrance of flowers, cherish the fragrance of flowers, and embrace a piece of gentle feelings, we see the splendid spring, and also embrace the countless fragrances in the spring.
Zhu Xi of the Southern Song Dynasty once said in "Feeling of Reading Books in the Living Water Pavilion":
Half an acre of square pond opened, and the sky and clouds and shadows wandered together.
Ask how the canal is as clear as promised?For there is a source of living water.
The faint fragrance of books brings us the source of living water and the richness of the soul.
There is poetry and books in the belly", people who have been infiltrated in the fragrance of books have a calm atmosphere, their own excellent travel years, and a calm and unhurried fragrance.
Only those who have been impregnated in the fragrance of books can the aroma of tea, the aroma of poetry and books, and the fragrant fragrance in the bottom of their hearts be swirled into the fireworks, so that life is more delicious and flavorful.
Li Qingzhao has lived in a scholarly family since she was a child, and lived in the south of the Yangtze River in her later years, and her life has experienced a huge gap and great changes.
The wind and rain may destroy the once calm temperament of many people.
But in Li Qingzhao's body, there is always an elegant atmosphere that does not follow the customs and is lonely and self-appreciating.
This elegance comes from the poetry and books that accompany her all the year round, like a confidant.
Writer Lin Qingxuan said:A family that can smell the fragrance of books and hear peace can awaken the seeds in people's hearts.
This seed is a poetic seed, a seed that is smeared with the fragrance of the four seasons.
Happiness is actually very simple, fireworks in the world, a porridge and a meal, in ordinary years, let a seed of love sprout, and also sow this seed of love.
Between the sun, moon and stars, smelling the fragrance of flowers, wandering among poems and books, and joining hands with lovers, those poetic words that linger in the heart are the most beautiful sentences.
People's lives are not long, perhaps, we should leave a little time for ourselves, feel the warmth of fireworks, watch the flowers bloom in front of us, and let the fragrance be poetic.