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Recently, a line in the drama "Green Snake" has become a hot phrase on the Internet, it is "Life is very long, girls don't take it seriously". Obviously, what Fahai said in the play means to warn Xiaoqing: Don't believe it easily, there will really be a lifelong love. The author believes that the reason why this sentence can become a hot topic on Internet celebrities is because of the changes in the ideology and conceptual views of young people in terms of marriage, family and love.
A change in the idea of falling in love. Today's young people have reversed the traditional mode of falling in love in the past, and have become both simple and direct, and realistic and straightforward. In addition to the basic conventional conditions such as family, character, appearance, work, education, etc., most of them will regard economic income as a more important factor. Because in the relationship between people, the degree of complete trust in each other has been greatly reduced. Therefore, when falling in love, the pursuit of feelings, and even the idea and practice of love have become rare, while paying attention to reality and practicality prevail. Therefore, for a lifetime of loyal love, maybe there are really few people who will believe it when they fall in love.
A change in the concept of love. For modern young men and women, the cruelest reality is that they no longer believe in love. I really don't know when it started, young people no longer believe in love, and many even deny the existence of love. This change in the concept of love, whether in theory or in practice, is undoubtedly a heavy blow to love, the most beautiful thing and word in the world. If there is no love between men and women, then whether it is falling in love or getting married, and then having children and living at home, it can only be a matter of walking through the forms and procedures, completing the marriage of men and women in life, starting a family, and multiplying the tasks of future generations. Therefore, for the love that does not change for a lifetime, maybe the girls and boys will not be "serious".
A change in the concept of marriage. "Men should get married, women should get married", this should be the common responsibility of all mankind, only from generation to generation, life can be endless. Therefore, marriage is both a major event in life and a very sacred responsibility. However, the reality is really not optimistic, especially in the past one or two decades, with the change of young people's concept of marriage, from flash marriage, to non-marital cohabitation, to the divorce and divorce after marriage, etc., a very unstable marital chaos has been formed. In particular, the increase and high divorce rate has made many people doubt the fragility of feelings or love, not to mention "one lifetime", and even some people only have "one day". In the face of such a situation, how many people can truly "hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son", love each other for a lifetime, and unswervingly "take it seriously"?
A change in the concept of family. The family is the most basic and fundamental part of society and humanity, so everyone should have a sense of sacred reverence for marriage and family. Because home is everyone's warmest harbor, it is also a gas station for power, and it is the last refuge for life and soul. However, it is really not too easy for men and women to work hand in hand, grow old, and live together for a lifetime. Especially when today's young people change their concept of family, in their minds, they really feel that "life is very long", not only girls will not take it seriously, but young men may not take it seriously. It may be difficult to even stand together through thick and thin, share weal and woe, and live a serious and down-to-earth life.
As the saying goes, "there is true love in the world, but I am afraid that there will be no lover", I hope that all men and women in the world can have lovers and eventually become married. In fact, a lifetime is really not very long, as long as you know how to cherish and be grateful, not only girls, but also young men can take true love seriously. What do you think?
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