Introduction. Cultivation, enlightenment, and practice are the first to be educated, followed by knowledge, and then to practice. - Zhu Xi.
Upbringing is the behavior and habits that a person shows, it is a more important character than knowledge and diligence, and it is the foundation of life.
Educated people tend to have very high moral cultivation, be strict with themselves, treat others politely, and will not be reckless.
And those who are uneducated, even if they have a lot of money and are rich, but their behavior is not in line with moral standards and is impolite, then such people will not be respected by society.
"People are uneducated, you can know at a glance" People who are not educated will have these 4 obvious manifestations
01. Emotionally unstable and easily angry.
Uneducated people, they often show very unstable emotions, when they encounter a little unhappy thing, or when they are stimulated, they are easy to get angry, inexplicable.
Getting along or working with such a person is like a buried one around you"Time bomb".Again, it can erupt at any time.
Such a person is essentially a lack of literacy, and his psychological quality is not strong enough, he is unable to digest negative emotions by himself, and he is prone to impulsiveness and mistakes.
Cultured people are often able to maintain emotional stability, they are able to digest their negative emotions, and they will not vent their anger on others, say some angry words, and do some behaviors that hurt others.
02. Speak too freely and don't take into account the feelings of others.
Uneducated people can actually be seen by the way they speak.
"If you say something inappropriate, you will hurt yourself. —Western Han Dynasty] Liu Xiang "Shuo Yuan, Tan Cong".
This ancient adage warns us that if we speak in the wrong way, if we say something bad that hurts others, we will eventually hurt ourselves.
People who lack education often speak very freely, saying whatever they want, and they don't take into account the feelings of others.
They don't think about what kind of occasion it is, what kind of impact it will have on others, they don't think about it at all, and they just care about satisfying their desire to express themselves.
On the contrary, those who are cultured are very careful in what they say, and they do not say what they should not say casually.
Moreover, there are some things that cannot be said on some occasions, and if you say the wrong thing, it is easy to offend people and cause yourself some unnecessary trouble.
03. There is no public morality, and some bad moral behaviors are made in public.
Uneducated people often lack public morality, and often do some behaviors that affect others in some public places, causing great trouble to others.
For example, in the community where we live, we know that smoking is not allowed in the elevator, but when they enter the elevator, they will not easily extinguish the cigarette butts, and still go their own way, which makes the elevator smoke smell very strong, which affects the health of other owners.
There are also some people who get on the bus or subway, and they are also loud and noisy on it, and they don't take into account the feelings of other passengers.
Such people are often very selfish, lack of requirements for their own morality, and often do some behaviors that harm others and benefit themselves, and we should try to avoid contact with such people in our lives.
04, I don't know how to be grateful, and I take it for granted that others help him.
Finally, uneducated people often don't know how to learn about Entu's retribution, have no gratitude, and even take revenge, a typical "white-eyed wolf".
People who know how to be grateful are often very well educated, and they will"The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring"., you helped him once, and they will never forget your kindness for the rest of their lives.
People who don't know how to be grateful, even if you give him mountains of gold and silver, they will feel that they deserve it, and they will not have any idea of wanting to give back to others, which is essentially a manifestation of selfishness.
Some are even more hateful, and even not satisfied, continue to inch in, and if you don't continue to help him, he will bite you back.
Therefore, if you meet such a person in your life, after we have helped them once, we must recognize the quality of the other party and reduce our dealings with these people, because no matter how much you give, they will not feel that you are doing good for him, and they will not be grateful.
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