Title: Warm and touching!The 76-year-old aunt was afflicted by illness and was reluctant to give up her grandson
My Aunt Ten is actually my grandmother's third daughter, and she is the same age as my cousin, so she is in tenth place, and we call her Aunt Ten
She lives in a town that, although it is rural, is known as a "village within a town".
Shigu usually grows vegetables to sell, and her life is quite happy.
Now Shigu is 76 years old, and she has given birth to a total of four children, two sons and two daughters.
She had a really hard life, marrying a husband who was very poor and had a very fierce temper.
When she was young, Shigu also experienced domestic violence.
When I was a child, I often saw her running back to her parents' house, and the next day my father would take a few people to her husband to settle accounts, because my father was there, so her husband was a little scared.
In 1993, our family moved to Chongzuo, and after that, the life of the tenth aunt was not very good.
Because the two younger brothers went to Chongzuo to develop, there was no ** in that era, so even if she was bullied, no one could take care of her.
In the face of her fierce husband, her life is very difficult.
Shigu has two sons, the younger son went to work in other places before graduating from primary school, since he went to work, there has been no news, so far there has been no contact with the family or the people in the village, no one knows whether he is dead or alive.
Although Shigu gave birth to two sons, she now has only one cousin.
Fortunately, the cousin is still filial, and the cousin-in-law is also a good person, and both husband and wife work hard.
My cousin has two sons, both of whom are now in their 20s.
The two daughters of the tenth aunt are also very filial, the eldest cousin married into Hangzhou and became a demolition household, and the economic conditions are good, and the second cousin is doing business in the county.
Since the death of Shigu's husband, her life has become very good, and every day her task is to go to the vegetable garden to grow vegetables and sell them in the town.
Over the years, her body has been fairly strong.
It has been more than ten years since the tenth aunt lived a happy old age.
The eldest grandson of Shigu, who chose to lie flat in his 20s, has a total of two sons, the younger son went to Guangdong to work, the eldest son has nothing to do at home all day, and the cousin and his wife work in a factory in the town, and the total monthly salary of the two is more than 10,000, and they are also very frugal and good at managing family life, so they built a second building in the town
After all, there are two sons, and they think that it is the responsibility of parents to have two houses.
However, having a loser in the family doesn't seem to be of much use to the family as a whole.
The eldest son has no occupation, and a man who is over twenty years old chooses to stay at home and do nothing all day.
How is it possible for such a person to marry a wife?Even if his parents built him a house in town, what good would it be?Shigu's eldest grandson is lazy and has no conscience, and thinks about how to get dozens or hundreds of yuan from Shigu to spend every day.
Some time ago, Shigu accidentally fell when she went to the field to harvest corn, and her health was not very good
My cousin has always been against my aunt going to farming because she is old.
But Shigu didn't listen, she was a person who had come through hardship, as long as she could still move, she wanted to earn a little money with her own hands.
Not long ago, she harvested the corn she had planted, but her cousin and sister-in-law could not help, and her eldest grandson was lazy, so she had to go to the corn harvest alone.
I didn't expect to fall on the way back.
Shigu is 76 years old, and this fall made her fall very hard, hurting for a long time, unable to lie down, uncomfortable to sit up, and her appetite was also affected.
Shigu's eldest daughter brought her son-in-law, son and daughter-in-law to see her and took care of her for a few days, but the main care was still taken care of by my second cousin in the county seat.
On the day that Shigu's eldest daughter's family left, Shigu's eldest grandson in his 20s sent a text message to this cousin: "Cousin, grandma said she wanted to eat some bone porridge, can you give me some money?".I'm going to buy her some bones to cook porridge. ”
Shigu's eldest daughter quickly transferred 100 yuan to him.
But he didn't expect him to tell Shigu about it, nor did he buy bone porridge for her, but spent 100 yuan privately.
Some time ago, he asked Shigu for dozens of yuan, saying that he wanted to buy something.
Originally, the tenth aunt had a good life, and her children had given her money over the years, and she often grew and sold vegetables by herself without the need for others to take care of her.
She also saved some money for her own house.
But with such a big grandson who coveted her money, her situation became difficult.
Because her cousin and sister-in-law have to go to work every day, now she only has this eldest grandson at home every day.
I was really angry when I heard it.
I said how a man in his twenties is embarrassed to ask others for tens of hundred dollars.
If he had married earlier, he might have been able to support his family.
But what he did was not even as good as a seven or eight-year-old child.
I taught my children not to ask for money from the elderly, let alone ask for money from an old woman in her twenties.
Because of the existence of such a son, the family lost hope.
Now he treats his grandmother like this, and in the future he may also be indifferent to his parents and only look at money.
Written at the end, if I were my cousin and sister-in-law, I would rather cut off my relationship with him than allow him to spend his days lazily at home
In fact, it has been proven that laziness only makes him lose his conscience even more.
He was extremely selfish at heart, and even though his parents had been helping him, he took it for granted, and even in his forties and fifties, he would not change this concept.
I really want to talk to my cousin and sister-in-law and ask them to let him go out and find a job as soon as possible, otherwise I won't give him any financial support and don't continue to support him.
I don't know what my cousin and sister-in-law think about this.