The word filial piety naturally means to honor parents and elders, so that filial piety will go down from generation to generation, but this simple word is easier said than done.
Around the seventies and eighties, the older generation thought that the more children in the family, the stronger the family became, and at that time almost every family had a lot of children.
Everything has pros and cons, it is good to have more children in the family, whether it is the elderly who are sick, or the brothers and sisters who need help, they can do a little bit, on the contrary, they will face some problems when they have more children, that is, we often see the uneven distribution of inheritance.
Back in 2007, an old resident in Beijing, his son Du Xinmin, has worked hard to support his parents for 56 years.
However, when it came to the mouth of Sister Du Xinmin, his filial piety turned out to be something else, saying that some of what he did was acting for others to see.
So is the truth really the same as the eldest sister said?Or did the eldest sister deliberately frame him like this?
The distribution of family property was taken to court.
March 2017, Beijing.
A man named Du Xinmin's family ushered in a funeral of life and death, although everyone knows that one day will "pass away", but when they really face this moment, they will still be afraid, sad, sad, Du Xinmin's father died at the age of 89 and completely rested here, and his mother in her 90s was even more sad after seeing her lifelong wife leave.
Thinking of this, the 90-year-old mother wanted to call all her children back and discuss her posthumous affairs in advance, but what was unexpected was that except for Du Xinmin's eldest sister, none of the other siblings were willing to go home to visit their mother.
The occurrence of this scene instantly made Du Xinmin's old mother much older, his own children grew up with a handful of and urine, and they were reluctant to call them to talk to them when they were old, as the old saying goes, "filial piety is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation" , Even if we can't let our parents live a rich and noble life, at least we should do our best to honor our parents, but Du Xinmin's brothers and sisters are the opposite, which completely chilled the old mother's heart, so they decided to take advantage of the fact that they still have a breath of air, and they are ready to distribute the property accumulated by the two of them in this generation.
But the old mother's decision caused Du Xinmin's eldest sister to be dissatisfied, and even took Du Xinmin to court.
Du Xinmin's old mother believes that during these many years, whether it is the life of the wife and the two of them, or the care of the two when they are sick, it is her son Du Xinmin who works hard and takes care of them meticulously, but on the contrary, her other children are ignoring and putting the word filial piety out of the way, so she decided to hand over all the real estate of tens of millions of yuan to her son Du Xinmin.
However, the mother's last wish was dissatisfied with the eldest sister, she thought that although her younger brother Du Xinmin was diligent and took care of his parents for more than 50 years, but he could not inherit all the property by him, she was also the daughter of two old people, she had the right to inherit the property of her parents, I have to say that the face of the eldest sister is really the epitome of many people in reality.
When you inherit property, you say that this is your right, so why don't you fulfill your obligation as a child when you take care of your parents?
How many times have you actually visited your parents in the past 50 years?It is really sad that such a person runs faster than anyone else when dividing his property, but hides far away when honoring his parents.
In fact, the relationship between Du Xinmin and the eldest sister was originally very good, and it was precisely because the eldest sister told him that he had married and let him live with his parents, so that he could take care of his parents' daily life, "Then the house of my parents is yours, and our other brothers and sisters will not compete with you", and at that time, the eldest sister could say such things because the house was not worth much, but she never thought that it would reach tens of millions after many years, and the details of this matter will be described in detail later
Brothers and sisters come together to fight for the family property.
After Du Xinmin's mother handed over all the inheritance to him, the eldest sister forgot all about the original promise, and directly contacted several other brothers and sisters, and sued Du Xinmin in court, she thought that the children who were also parents should return their part of the property, pitiful, ridiculous, sad, their mother had just died, but because of the property problem, they fought and sued the court, is this the second elder after the death, as a daughter to give them a reward?
In fact, even Du Xinmin himself didn't expect that his eldest sister would sue him in court, as the saying goes, family ugliness should not be publicized, which is good to directly bring the matter to court.
Du Xinmin's family situation.
Du Xinmin's parents have a total of six children, the eldest brother died of illness when he was young, so there are only five brothers and sisters left, one eldest sister and four younger brothers, and Du Xinmin is the fourth.
In order to make a family of seven people more comfortable, the parents worked day and night, getting up early and working late, and finally in 1954, they spent a huge amount of 300 yuan in Beijing to buy a small house of about 50 square meters, and the family lived happily together.
Time passed bit by bit, and the children in the family have become big children one by one, and when they were children, the house of 50 square meters was crowded and lived, but it was inconvenient to continue like this anyway when they grew up, so Du Xinmin's parents used all the money they had saved over the years to expand the house, this time it was 200 square meters larger than the original, Du Xinmin and several other brothers and sisters did not have to live in a small house, everyone had a bright smile on their faces, the happiness and innocence of children were so simple, if Du Xinmin's sisters and brothers were still like children, they might not have come to this step, but there is nothing satisfactory in the world, and what should come will always come.
With the passage of time, Du Xinmin and several brothers and sisters have gradually grown up**, after the eldest sister got married, Du Xinmin's two brothers also went out to work hard and got married and had children everywhere, and only Du Xinmin himself was left in the family.
In the middle, because of the discord between the two families, they failed to get married, the fifth Du Xinyi is Du Xinmin's younger brother, although he is not married, but he has been working hard outside, and he has already prepared to settle down in the field, after a period of time, Du Xinmin got a new girlfriend under the introduction of the matchmaker, The two people are very compatible with each other in terms of three views and personalities, and they are ready to buy a house and move outside to prepare for marriage after talking for a long time.
The children in the family have left one after another, and they can't leave the two old people at home alone, so on this day, the eldest sister returned to her parents' house and found Du Xinmin.
It is said that the eldest sister is like a mother, and the eldest sister is also very good to Du Xinmin, so Du Xinmin has been obedient to the eldest sister's words since he was a child.
So the eldest sister pulled Du Xinmin outside and said to him alone: "Fourth brother, if you want me to say that you don't go out to live, the second and third are already married and settled outside, and the fifth has been out and has not come back, and is ready to settle down." ”
If you also go out, then our parents will have no one to take care of.
How could Du Xinmin not hear what the eldest sister meant, she didn't want Du Xinmin to buy a house like the other three brothers and go out to live alone, so that the two old people in the family would be fine, if something unexpected happened, I am afraid that no one would be able to deal with it in time.
Seeing that Du Xinmin didn't answer but was thinking about something on the side, the eldest sister continued: "Our parents must have someone to take care of it, if you live with your parents and provide for them, our sisters and brothers will not treat you badly, and I can mention the second, third, and fifth parents of this house, and in the future, this house will be yours, and we will not want it." ”
In fact, Du Xinmin did not choose to take care of his parents because of the house, but he himself was extremely filial, and the housing prices in Beijing, where they lived at that time, were very low, and Du Xinmin would not think that the house would increase in value to a very high level in the future.
In the end, Du Xinmin agreed to the eldest sister's request, and after getting married, he lived with his parents, and he took care of his parents' food, clothing, and housing.
But after many years, the increase in the value of the house was something that no one expected, which also made the five sisters and brothers turn against each other, from the sisters and brothers who helped each other at the beginning, to the enemies who blew their beards and stared at each other.
It didn't take long for Du Xinmin to get married to his blind date, his wife and Du Xinmin are honest and simple, people who don't have so many flowers, after coming to Du Xinmin's house, his wife is also hard-working, just like treating his own parents, treating Du Xinmin's parents, the filial piety of the two elders also see it in their eyes and keep it in their hearts, and even the surrounding neighbors say that Du Xinmin and his family are filial sons and care for their parents.
Just from the praise of the neighbors, we can see that Du Xinmin is not like the eldest sister who said earlier that he has other intentions to take care of his parents, or is greedy for these family properties, Du Xinmin is sincere and has no intention of filial piety, even if he really has other plans, it can only be said that these are all he deserves.
After learning that their parents were being taken care of by Du Xinmin, the other siblings almost never went home to visit their parents, and sometimes they didn't even come back for the New Year's holidays.
Although Du Xinmin took good care of him and did not let the second elder have any serious illnesses, but people will eventually grow old, Du Xinmin's father failed to resist the attack of the years when he was 89 years old, and finally passed away, and his mother left him at the age of 91.
Before dying, the mother was ready to call everyone back to discuss the inheritance, but except for the eldest sister, several brothers and brothers did not return home.
So her mother made an oral will in front of her eldest sister, which meant that after she died, the house in the family would be inherited by Du Xinmin.
But after the death of his mother, the eldest sister and several brothers learned the value of the house, so they directly sued Du Xinmin in court, and said that Du Xinmin was acting and putting on a show during the more than 50 years he took care of his parents, and the real situation was actually greedy for his parents' property.
In fact, everyone can see that several of Du Xinmin's brothers and sisters said such high-sounding words, undoubtedly to find a reason to find a distribution of property, whether Du Xinmin is putting on a show as they said, everyone can see clearly.
So in the end, did the eldest sister and the others get the inheritance as they wished?
Du Xinmin's hard work and meticulous care of his parents for 56 years, while the other children only occasionally go home to visit their parents, Du Xinmin's behavior undoubtedly reduces a lot of burden on the other children, so that they can work carefree to make money, therefore, Du Xinmin can divide more in the distribution of the family's inheritance, but it does not mean that he can inherit the inheritance in full, especially when there is a dispute between siblings.
After a long period of confrontation, the siblings finally sat down together for the first time after their mother's death to discuss the ownership of the house.
1.If Du Xinmin wants the real estate certificate of this house, he must pay the money to the other brothers and sisters according to the real estate at that time.
2.The house was inherited by Du Xinmin, but the remaining few people must enjoy the right to benefit from the house, because Du Xinmin enjoyed 40% of his parents' 56-year pension, and the remaining 60% was divided equally by several sisters and brothers.
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