In the fast-paced modern society, long-distance living has become a helpless choice for many couples.
My wife and I are one such couple, and we have to live separately because of work.
Although we know in our hearts that this choice is for our future and family, when we think that we can't be with our wives every day and can't share each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, we inevitably feel a little lost in our hearts.
In this way, my wife and I were separated for 100 days. During these 100 days, we have had a hard time with each other. Every day, we can only communicate through **and**, sharing each other's lives and moods. Although we will send each other some small gifts on a regular basis to express our thoughts and love, these small gifts cannot fully make up for the loneliness and loneliness in our hearts.
Finally, on the hundredth day, I returned home. The moment I opened the door, I was blown away by what I saw. The house was a mess, with tables full of unwashed chopsticks and cups, various items scattered on the floor, and furniture covered in dust and stains. My heart sank suddenly, I thought that going home would be a warm reunion, but I didn't expect it to be a big "surprise".
I angrily asked my wife, "What's going on?".Why didn't you keep your home clean?When my wife saw my angry look, she immediately explained, "I have to go to work every day and take care of the children, so I really don't have the time and energy to clean." "Hearing my wife's explanation, I didn't calm down, but became even more angry.
I feel like I've given a lot for this family and I'm not getting what I deserve. I had to leave my wife and children away to earn money to support my family, but when I came home, I found that I wasn't getting the rewards for what I had done. I felt so depressed and disappointed that I even began to wonder if the feelings between us were real.
In the days that followed, there were some conflicts and frictions between my wife and me. I felt tired and didn't know what to do. Sometimes I think of the good times we had together in the past, but those memories have become a little distant.
Then one day, while my wife and I were sitting on the couch chatting, she suddenly asked me, "Do you think our relationship is still the same as it used to be?"I was silent for a moment, then replied, "I don't think our relationship is as close as it used to be." The wife was silent and said, "I think so too." ”
After our in-depth conversation, we found some problems. The way we communicate with each other is not smooth enough, and sometimes we get into arguments over small things. At the same time, we also found some mistrust and misunderstanding between each other. These problems led to a rift in our relationship.
To fix these issues, we're starting to take some action. We take some time out every day to exchange our moods and thoughts, and share each other's joys and sorrows. At the same time, we try to make time to do some chores or leisure activities together to enhance interaction and trust with each other.
After a period of hard work, the relationship between us gradually returned to its former beauty. We often cook together, watch movies, chat late into the night, and enjoy each other's company and love together. At this time, I realized that mutual understanding and trust between husband and wife is very important, and only through mutual support and care can the relationship be stronger and lasting.
It is true that there are many difficulties and challenges in long-distance life for couples, but as long as husband and wife understand each other, trust and support each other, they can overcome these difficulties and make the relationship stronger and better.