The emergence of parents is a product of education and social progress, but its existence is also like a "double-edged sword", which brings convenience but also triggers many negative effects.
With the rapid development of electronic technology, interpersonal communication has become more convenient. The way of communication between teachers and parents in primary and secondary schools has gotten rid of the narrowness of the past, and is no longer limited to traditional parent-teacher meetings and communication.
For parents, they only need to ask the teacher in the parent group to find out how their child is learning in school. This kind of communication not only saves the time of teachers and parents, but also deepens parents' understanding of students' academics, which can be described as a major advantage of the existence of parent groups.
However, the parent group will inevitably bring some "** because there is more than one pair of parents in the group. When both parents of a student exist in a parent group, the group can become a "worry group" at any time, because the social circle of adults is often accompanied by unnecessary comparisons.
In this context, some parents may express unbelievable remarks in the parent group, and this is when the disadvantages of the parent group are revealed.
At that time, there were some "weird" remarks in the parent group: there were 25 students in the class, and there were 95 parents in the parent group. Some parents not only dote on their children, but are still overly concerned even after their children enter kindergarten. A kindergarten teacher found that although there were only 25 children in the class, there were as many as 95 members in the parent group.
After digging deeper, I realized that this is because some parents spoil their children too much, resulting in children almost becoming the focus of attention of the whole family after entering kindergarten. In the parent group, the child's uncles, aunts, grandparents, and even the nanny at home have joined in, forming a situation of family supervision. This situation made the teacher feel quite speechless.
Some parents made remarks in the group saying "buy a villa for the teacher, sycophant", and some parents were too flattering to the teacher in the parent group, and even organized the whole class of parents to buy gifts for the teacher, saying that it was only more than 2,000 yuan and hoped that other parents would share it. This sparked the anger of one parent, who bluntly said: "Buy a villa for the teacher, sycophant." Many parents expressed their support after reading it.
In the parent class group, some people use English frequently, which leads to an embarrassing scene. Nowadays, the change in the way education is carried out not only in the presence of the parent group, but also in the election of the parent committee. In order to succeed in the election, some parents even introduced themselves in English in the class group. In addition to introducing themselves, some parents also used a lot of English in the group to express their gratitude to the teacher. Although the work of a teacher is really hard, why do parents have to show off their English?This kind of behavior made the teacher feel disgusted, saying that this year's parents "have a lot of drama".
It is only when parents and teachers work together that the parent group can truly make sense. The existence of the parent group aims to allow more parents to communicate with teachers at any time, understand their children's learning status in school, promote the progress of education, and solve problems in a timely manner.
Effective communication can save a lot of time. At a time when parents and teachers are facing busy schedules, making good use of the parent community can help solve problems and have a positive impact on the progress and development of education.
However, the premise of all this is based on the active nurturing of parents and teachers. Why do many people report that the parent group has "changed its taste"?This is partly due to the fact that some teachers assign tasks to parents in parent groups for parents to monitor and correct students' work. This is a manifestation of lack of education and dereliction of duty, which makes many parents angry but afraid to speak out, turning the parent group into a "pressure group".
In addition, some parents like to compare and talk about topics unrelated to education in the parent group, causing dissatisfaction among other parents. Some parents are even good at flattering too much in the parent group, exaggerating the teacher's responsibilities and influencing the perception of other parents. As a result, some districts have chosen to eliminate parent groups to avoid the existence of useless parent groups. To make better progress in education, teachers need to continuously improve their professional ability, and at the same time, they also need the active cooperation of parents.
As a child's initiation teacher, parents need to pay attention to their words and deeds, and avoid excessive flattery to the teacher, so as not to make the teacher feel disgusted and have a bad impression. As the main body of education, teachers should constantly improve their professional level and not shirk their responsibilities and work to parents. Only when teachers work responsibly can students grow up healthier and make better progress in the field of education.
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