Parental onesPensionIt's only 12,000 yuan, why do you have to give 5,000 yuan to your in-laws, otherwise you don't want to see your granddaughter.
Youran is at work when she suddenly receives a ** from her mother asking who is taking care of Fluttershy at home, and she asks her husband to work overtimeWu WeiBringing children, but the parents came knocking on the door and no one answered. Hurriedly call ** to giveWu Wei, only to find out that he was actually at home but did not open the door, and withWu WeiThere was a quarrel.
Cheng's father and Cheng's mother have retired, with a total of 12,000 yuan per monthPension, in contrast,Wu Weiof parentslifePoor conditions, noPension, can only rely on a few acresFieldsMix up and eat.
After marriage, Cheng Xiao's parents helped take care of the children, but withWu WeiThe parents don't get along very well, resulting inWu Weiput forward a request for Cheng's parents to give his parents 5,000 yuan a month, otherwise they would not be allowed to see their little granddaughter.
Cheng Xiao received her mother's ** and found her husbandWu Weiwas not at home, causing the parents to knock on the door and no one responded. She gave angrilyWu WeiHit **,Wu Wei's answer made Cheng Xiao very angry. Wu WeiThinking that the parents are doing well, for the safety of the child, they should give his parents a monthly fee of 5,000 yuan.
Since the in-laws don'tPensionlifeConditions are relatively tightWu WeiI hope that Cheng's father and Cheng's mother will fund his parents with some money. Cheng Xiao did not agree with this request, she thought that her parents had already helped take care of the children, and it was enough to give 2,000 yuan a month as a cost for care. ButWu Weiinsisted that since her parents could afford to support his parents, why not give more?This sparked arguments between husband and wife.
Cheng's father and Cheng's mother can receive a total of 12,000 yuan per month after retirementPension, whileWu Weiof parents did notPension, can only rely on a few acresFieldsMake a living. Wu Weithat parents have worked hard all their lives and should enjoy it, and theirPensionEnough not only to be able to support himself, but also to support his parents. He also used Cheng's mother to travel as an example to prove it. Wu WeiI think my parents have the money to travel, so why don't I give more to his parents?
Cheng Xiao: YesWu WeiThe logic was shocked. She thinks her parents havePensionis the result of their hard work, whileWu Weiof parents don'tPensionIt's because of their own choices. Parents have helped to take care of the children, buy gifts, and pay back 2,000 yuan a month for care, and have fulfilled their responsibilities and obligations. , whileWu WeiI hope that Cheng's father and Cheng's mother will fund more money for his parents, which is unfair treatment to parents.
Cheng Xiao believes that inMarriagelifeThere are some things that can be compromised, but there are also some principles that cannot be compromised. She was adamant that she could not compromiseWu Weidemands, because this will only fuel the desires and dissatisfaction of others. She decided to take the child back to her parents' house by herself and let Cheng's father and Cheng's mother see their granddaughter. Wu WeiRealizing his mistake, he apologized to Cheng Xiao and said that he would no longer insist on it. They decided to work out the problem together and find a mutually acceptable solution.
The couple sat down and communicated each other's needs and concerns in detail. They realized that solving the problem was not simply about giving money, but about finding a balance. They agreed, givingWu WeiSome of the parents are funded, but not all of them are fixed amounts each month. Cheng's father and Cheng's mother agreed to give 5,000 yuan a yearlifefee, not per month. Wu Weialso agreed that after the parents helped take care of the children every month, they would give Cheng's parents 2,000 yuan per month as a care fee.
Eventually, the two sides reached a consensus and resolved the dispute. They realize that financial problems are only superficial contradictions, and more importantly, understanding and respect for each other. They pledged to strengthen communication and work together to create a harmonious family environment.