There is one person who cannot be chosen, and that is our parents. They are the earliest mentors and guides in our lives, and their words and deeds directly affect our growth and development. Of course, everyone's family background and family environment are different, and the qualities and behaviors of parents will also vary from person to person. So, when we are faced with choosing whether our parents are good or bad, should we focus on choosing good or bad people?This is a complex question, and different people may have different answers.
Good parents always have their children's well-being at their heart's content, and they will fully support and encourage their children's interests and hobbies. They will provide the best educational resources within their financial means and create a good environment for children to grow up. Good parents pay more attention to passing on the right values and role models, and they will lead by example and teach their children to be honest, kind, and responsible.
In life, it is a kind of luck for children to meet such good parents. They can bring a sense of security and happiness to children, so that children can feel supported and cared for as they grow up. This home environment will develop children's self-confidence and positive attitude, so that they can better face difficulties and challenges.
However, it is also possible for good parents to overprotect their children, leaving them with a lack of independent thinking and problem-solving skills. When children grow up**, they may face difficulties adjusting to society because they lack the experience and ability to live independently.
Bad parents may have personal defects and bad behavior Xi, and they may inflict violence or verbal harm on their children. Bad parents often don't care about their children's needs and feelings, and they may put their own interests before their children or even abuse them.
This family environment is detrimental to a child's development, and they may be subject to trauma and psychological stress, and even affect their interpersonal and emotional development later in life. Children who grow up in this kind of family environment may be resistant to their parents and may even have a tendency to behave ***.
However, bad parents may have some advantages, such as higher requirements and expectations for their children, and may be more able to stimulate their children's potential and sense of competition. Their actions and words may inspire and warn children about the cruelty of society and the reality of competition.
To sum up, both good and bad parents have their own advantages and disadvantages, and there is no perfect parent. When choosing a good or bad parent, you should consider various factors and make a reasonable choice according to your own situation.
In my personal opinion, choosing parents should focus on choosing good people rather than bad people. Although good parents also have shortcomings, they can provide their children with a better growth environment and educational resources, and cultivate children's good morals and values. On the contrary, bad parents bring negative effects and trauma to their children, both emotionally and psychologically.
However, I also recognize that everyone's situation and family background are different, and there are limits and limitations to choosing parents. Some people may not be able to choose their parents, but we can learn from this and learn to deal with our parents in the right way, while also trying to be the first person responsible in life and change our circumstances with our own efforts and determination.
In closing, I want to emphasize that no matter what kind of family environment we grew up in, we need to have our own values and judgments. We can learn valuable lessons from our parents, but we also need to learn to think for ourselves and make our own choices. Only in this way can we truly become independent, confident, and responsible people.