Being yourself well is a low-key wisdom in life.
The years are long, and the busy are self-promoting;Heaven and earth are wide, and the contemptible are narrow;The wind and snow are idle, and the disturbers are self-redundant. ”
Many people dream of living like someone else. However, if you trap yourself in the loss of "not being able to compare" for a long time, your life and heart will be restless.
In fact, there are flowers and birds in the world, the bright moon and the breeze, and being yourself is the most true nobility of a person.
People are not optimistic and do not care
The book once said: "Careful thinking about the mistakes, regressing and thinking about everything." ”
In life, when you meet praise from others, you will be happy;And if others laugh at themselves, they will be very uncomfortable, and even rebuffed. Actually, there is no need to do this. Those who understand you will naturally understand, and those who believe in you will naturally believe it, and there is no need to say more. When others are not optimistic, don't be angry, let alone care.
The strong wind blows down the plane tree, and others say that it is short and long. Don't care about what others say, just be yourself.
People don't understand and don't care
The joys and sorrows of the world are inherently incompatible. It is lucky that someone understands you, and it is the norm for others not to understand you.
The cold and warm fish of the water know for themselves, as long as they can understand it. The sweat behind you may not be visible to others;The hardships you have secretly endured may not be imagined by others, but true empathy is very rare.
In the face of incomprehension, instead of arguing, it is better to change. Things that can give people warmth, give people hope, and benefit others and society should be boldly done. Ignoring the eyes and ridicule of others, whether others recognize it or not, and insisting on doing oneself is what a gentleman does and practice.
People question indiscriminately, and don't care
In life, we inevitably encounter doubts, some people are sensitive and feel painful about these discussions, and people who are truly wise usually do not pay attention to these criticisms. Because they understand that a person's true ability will not change because of others' doubts, and a person's achievements will not be inferior because of others' doubts.
The ancient book tells us: "A gentleman comes and his heart appears, and when he goes, his heart is empty." "Stay safe in the hustle and bustle, focus on doing your own business, and the light will eventually be seen.
Being yourself well is a low-key, submerged wisdom of life.
People are not optimistic and do not carePeople don't understand and don't carePeople question indiscriminately, and don't careIf you are principled and assertive, your life will be as you wish, and your soul will be fulfilling.
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