Mo Yan said: "It is your parents who hope you get better;I'm afraid you're too good, it's a relative;It's a colleague who misses you unlucky;Most of the people who advise you to be generous are not well-intentioned;Most of the people who teach you to make money want to make your money. ”
In the long river of life, is every love pure and flawless?
Can we always draw strength from family affection to withstand the winds and frosts of the world?
When the hustle and bustle around you recedes, do you often find that those who quietly lend a hand are actually hiding another hand?
Let's stop for a moment in the hurried footsteps of the journey to explore the truth behind it.
In a crowded city park, parents are always the hardest working on holidays, following the laughter of their children from afar, their eyes full of anticipation and pride.
The love of parents, such as Li Bai's "bright moonlight in front of the bed", illuminates the way we grow up.
They are never shy about approving, and even small improvements are met with applauds full of expectations.
I hope that in everyone's selling pressure, there is such selfless love from parents, it is the warmest harbor in life.
Turning around for a family gathering, behind the superficial talk and laughter, there is no lack of undercurrents of relatives.
Don't forget the old proverb "close relatives are close to each other", and close blood does not necessarily bring the heart of close relatives.
Beneath the surface of compliments, competition and comparison are often hidden.
They use excuses to ask long and short questions, but secretly they are weighing and arguing, and they are like a treasure for every gain and loss.
At this time, we need to follow Thoreau's motto, "Go your own way, let others speak", and let our lives be set by ourselves, not by the gaze of others.
In the world of work, our colleagues are both collaborators and competitors.
Nietzsche said that "on the way to the top, you are always lonely", which is a true portrayal of the relationship between colleagues.
Although they seem to share your troubles when they work together, they may have hidden hidden ulteriors behind you.
Improving ourselves in cooperation and staying sober in competition is perhaps the best lesson we can learn from this.
Those who claim to be teachers always have earnest teachings in their mouths, claiming that "it is better to teach a man to fish than to give him a fish", but how many people really have no selfish intentions and just want to teach wisdom?
Wisdom passed down from generation to generation is tarnished by the real-world philistine, and simple help becomes a complex human debt.
In this clash of good intentions and self-interest, being vigilant and suspicious of any "free lunch" may save us from being misled.
And those who teach you how to make a fortune are endless.
They package their know-how to make money in a sparkling package, but under these alluring guises, the truth that "a thousand dollars can't buy my heart's joy" has been completely forgotten.
We should be cautious about these promises and use our knowledge and experience to discern them, after all, as Aristotle said, "knowledge is the source of wealth."
In the transition of these scenes, how we interpret and deal with these relationships has become an important topic in our lives.
The most beautiful affection is given without expecting anything in return, and the strongest relationship is based on equality and respect.
In the face of these symphonies of life, we are both composers and performers, and our sincere feelings and indifferent attitudes will become the key to our grasp of the melody.
Open our hearts, let us treat every encounter in life with sincerity, even if we sometimes encounter the dark side of the human heart, but still maintain a quiet and rational heart, just like the thorns in the rose still bloom, we should walk in the world.
In the end, the chaos of the world is just the scenery on the road of life.
In the face of these complex relationships, we learn to open our hearts and clear the fog with the eyes of a wise man and embark on the road of growth.