The 75-year-old handsome old man has a pension of 9,000, and the 137-square-meter house is sold and moved to a 30-square-meter apartment for the elderly
Snowflakes dance like white fairies between heaven and earth. The little snowflake gently tapped on the window of the hospital and looked in curiously.
A pale-faced woman lying in a hospital bed, exhaling a lot and inhaling a lot, has advanced liver cancer, and the moment of death seems to be close at hand.
The thin left hand firmly held his son, and his right hand held his daughter, but his eyes looked deeply at the peerless wife, full of affection and concern.
She spoke softly, almost silently, and her children could hear her words with tears close to her lips. The mother was worried about the father and told the children, "Take good care of your father, he can't take care of it himself." If you have the opportunity, let him meet another partner and don't embarrass him. The children burst into tears and nodded their heads in understanding. The 65-year-old father Feng's heart was like a knife, a resolute man, holding his wife's hand, crying silently. Knowing that in this life, there is no one who can fill the void she left behind.
Their feelings are deep. Sometimes, there will be some small friction. But in the end, it was always the wife who smiled softly, with a hint of playfulness, hugged him from behind and put her face on his back, bringing a warm feeling. She coaxed him, "Okay, don't be angry, blame me, okay?"However, he was like a stubborn child, twisting his neck and refusing to agree. She was his most virtuous wife and the one he loved the most. On snowy days, she went to a paradise where flowers bloomed. Daddy Feng was like an abandoned old dog, his eyes had lost their brilliance and vitality, and he just sat there blankly. His wife, Hui Lan, as her name suggests, has an elegant and virtuous temperament, who takes care of the housework and takes care of everything about him. Daddy Feng only knows how to cook instant noodles, and he is a complete layman.
The salary he earns every month, he always happily gives to his beloved wife.
Huilan's eyes widened and she said in surprise, "Wow!This month's salary is so much, husband, you are really amazing!”
Father Feng was complacent. He had never even bought a pair of socks, and everything from head to toe was arranged properly by Huilan. The passbook at home is in **, and he doesn't know anything. He didn't know anything about housework. When the child asked about the family, Father Feng always prevaricated, "Don't ask me, go ask your mother." It has been a year since Hui Lan passed away, she was only 63 years old when she died, and Father Feng was 65 years old. As a person who retired from a large state-owned enterprise, Daddy Feng's pension is enviable, he can receive 8,068 yuan per month, and then he has reached more than 9,000 yuan. The children were very worried about their father's condition and invited him to live in their house. However, Daddy Feng fell into a deep sense of loss and was reluctant to leave his home. There are traces of Huilan's life in this residence, which makes him feel that as long as he stays here, it is as if Huilan is just going out to buy vegetables and will come back at any time. The children looked at each other, concerned about their father's safety. They had to take turns taking turns to take leave to accompany their father. However, everyone has their own job. After the holidays, the sons and daughters had to return to their respective posts. When the children left, they repeatedly told Daddy Feng to take care of his health.
The daughter said with tears in her eyes: "Dad, you must be strong, you are the one who is not inferior to Mom." We want you to be happy. The son said to the side, "Dad, do you want to consider coming to live in my house?"Father Feng shook his head blankly, he didn't want to go anywhere. He used to be a handsome old man, personable, detached, and a notoriously handsome guy. But these days, he is too lazy to take care of himself, and his beard is unkempt. After his children left, he began to try to remember how Hui Lan cooked, washed clothes, and washed dishes. His wife is good at housework and is skillful, but he is clumsy, either boiling the pot or scorching the vegetables. At first, he didn't even know how to use the washing machine, and the clothes that came out were crumpled, and folding them was a problem. However, he was finally able to eat a hot meal and put on neat clothes. Silently said to Hui Lan: "Look, I'm not too stupid. He currently lives in a house of 137 square meters, with 3 bedrooms and 2 living rooms, and two bedrooms facing the sun. The amount of his pension has made him much richer than his peers, and he is still in good spirits. He's a clear one"Diamond King Old Five"!Some single women like to talk to him, and some even go so far as to find someone to match.
But Daddy Feng refused them one by one. He hopes to be with Huilan in a hundred years.
Sometimes, when he felt lonely, he would play a few games of chess and a few games of poker with his old friends in the yard.
When he was alone, he began to practice Tai Chi.
Early in the morning and at dusk, he went to the park to practice Xi Tai Chi, and his movements were smooth and natural.
The temperament exuded by him always attracted a group of aunts and sisters to watch, but Father Feng was indifferent.
However, as he grew older, he was already 70 years old. He suffers from high blood pressure and coronary heart disease, and his children really can't worry about him.
They came back from time to time to visit Dad. invited him to live in his house again, but Father Feng still shook his head.
The children are really worried, what should they do?Daddy has been living alone for 5 years, but he hasn't found a stepmother for them.
Would you like to hire a babysitter?This time, Daddy Feng finally agreed. Dad has a stable income and savings of his own, and he does not need his children to contribute money to support him.
First came an aunt, about 40 years old, who looked extremely shrewd and neatly moved. Father Feng gave her a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan and another 2,000 yuan for living expenses. However, to my father's surprise, the living expenses were not enoughConsidering that it was only him and his aunt who dined, he was puzzled by the situation. v
Daddy wasn't a fool, and he found out that the aunt had misrepresented her accounts. Sometimes it's a dish for 3 yuan, but she reimburses 5 yuan. Sensing this dishonesty, Father Feng didn't say a word and decided to let her go.
Then came the second nanny, about 45 years old, plump, procrastinating and lazy. Even when Daddy came back from Tai Chi in the park early in the morning, she still had to be woken up. To make matters worse, the babysitter's cooking was terrible, she was obviously cutting corners, her cleaning was sloppy, and she was lazy and unkempt. Father Feng was extremely dissatisfied with her and dismissed her without hesitation.
The third aunt came, about 48 years old, capable of work, cheerful and handy. Her cooking skills are superb, and she carefully matches nutritious meals, and she also cleans the house. Father Feng was very satisfied with her and was willing to give her a salary increase of 6,000 yuan per month. This Aunt Li has worked hard for two years and now has to go home to help take care of her grandson, so she has to leave her job.
Now 73-year-old Daddy Feng is too lazy to find a nanny anymore, and feels that it is difficult to find a suitable candidate like Aunt Li. The children again suggested that they hire a nanny, and Daddy Feng finally agreed.
He went to the house of his son and his daughter. At the son's house, the son and daughter-in-law vacated a sunny room for him to live in, and the conditions were quite comfortable. The grandson is already in graduate school and is very close to his grandfather. However, the daughter-in-law's food is so light that the father is Xi not used to eating it, he originally likes northern tastes and salty and spicy things, while the daughter-in-law prefers light. Living with my son's family, I always feel a little awkward. My son is a small boss in a business, and he is busy with work and does not spend much time at home. And the daughter-in-law is a university teacher and works from home most of the time, so this coexistence makes my father feel a little awkward.
He even felt a little embarrassed in the summer, because he and his daughter-in-law were very tidy. Moreover, the daughter-in-law likes to stay up late to do scientific research, which affects the quality of Daddy Feng's sleep, he sleeps relatively lightly and is sensitive to light and noise.
So, Daddy Feng was finally picked up by his daughter. At his daughter's house, he feels more comfortable, and his son-in-law treats him very well, and plays a few games of chess with him every weekend. The daughter is the eldest in the family and a senior executive in the company, and she is busy with meetings every day, but she still finds time to spend with her father.
Daddy Feng's heart is heavy, his daughter was recently diagnosed with breast cancer, underwent surgery**, and will need chemotherapy next. This made the father feel pain in his heart, and he worried that he could become a burden to his family.
Last year, Dad turned 74 and decided to return to his home. Here, he feels at ease. Now, he is able to take care of himself, enjoy eating and sleeping, and do not depend on others.
In addition, as an elder who has become a grandfather, his grandson has entered the marriage hall and welcomed a cute chubby little one. The daughter-in-law needs to take care of her grandchildren wholeheartedly, and the daughter's health is also worrying. For the affairs of his son and daughter's family, the father didn't want to interfere too much.
Dad began to think about how to better live out his old age. He paced back and forth in the spacious room, the 137-square-meter space seemed lonely and lonely, he was the only one, lacking the fireworks of the world.
Last winter, my dad was also in poor health, facing a severe cough accompanied by breathlessness and a high fever of 387 degrees. The hardest thing to endure was the headache and nausea.
Lying on the bed, he barely wanted to move, but he didn't want to disturb his children. Every time the kids called, he always said he was all right.
Daddy struggled to get up, took some antipyretics, and boiled some pear water to drink. In order to increase his nutrition, he drank a little pure milk.
Anyway, Daddy miraculously s***. It's just that the limbs are still weak, and there is still a slight cough.
After experiencing this physical discomfort, Dad felt that he still needed to be accompanied by someone. But he didn't want to hire a nanny anymore, thinking it was too much trouble.
Just then, an old friend invited him to a senior apartment. This apartment is conveniently located on the outskirts of the city and has a pleasant view.
Old friend Lao Song said: "I have moved into this senior apartment, there is a special person in charge of medical care, hygiene, three meals a day**, and peers are with me, I feel very happy." ”
Daddy Feng took a ride and liked it at first sight.
Each exquisite apartment is only 30 square meters and has a spacious balcony with a kitchenette and toilet.
There are 65 elderly people living in this senior apartment, all of whom are smiling, chatting with tea, playing chess and cards, and there is a gym specially set up for the elderly.
There are many flavors of the restaurant, sweet, salty, spicy, sour, everything is included, and the three meals a day are never the same.
There are professional cleaning staff to take care of the hygiene, and there are a variety of cultural and recreational activities. Even if you are sick, there is a dedicated person to provide medical care.
The grandparents are all in high spirits, which is very different from the dreary atmosphere of some nursing homes.
These retirement apartments can be purchased or rented for between 3,000-8,000 yuan.
Father Feng's children already have a family and will not covet his property.
Dad suddenly had an idea, thinking about his extra 137 square meters house. Maybe it's time to **.
Located in a third-tier city, the 7-storey property has a ** lot, elevator and garage. Such a property can sell for at least 1.5 million.
With 1.5 million as a fund, it may be more suitable to buy a mid-grade apartment. The remainder can be used to pay for hygiene, property and medical expenses.
Dad thought about it, and had 1 million deposits in his hand, plus the remaining 1 million before, for a total of 2 million. Plus a monthly salary of more than 9,000 yuan.
No matter how much it costs, it should be enough. And I was able to spend my old age with so many of my peers, and I was no longer lonely.