When we are in a relationship, whether it is love or friendship, we express ourselves when we interact with each other and care about each other.
But once we don't care in our hearts, we will quietly stay away.
When a person suddenly does not contact you, the best countermeasure is in one word: cold!
01. If necessary, communicate calmly
When a person suddenly leaves you, if you really don't know, you offended him, and you especially want to know the reason, then communicate with the other party and see what went wrong.
In fact, there is not much need for communication, because people who care about you enough will not quietly stay away from you, but whoever chooses to leave quietly means that you are no longer important to him.
02. Get along with each other coldly, regardless of the reason
How people treat you, how do you treat people, if you ask yourself, you don't have to be sorry for him, he suddenly snubs you, and alienates you without asking the reason, you don't have to be afraid that he will misunderstand you.
Because even if there is a real misunderstanding, if the other party wants to resolve the misunderstanding, they will give you a chance, and they will not just like that, indiscriminately, draw a line with you and alienate you.
Therefore, the person who snubs you is not worthy of your enthusiasm, he is alienated from you, and you don't need to get too close!
03, cold him, let him sober
In fact, some people suddenly distance themselves from you, if they no longer contact you, forget it, it proves that their life can be without you, so you should not come to him.
He is indifferent to you, you learn to be cold, treat him coldly for a while, and then look at him, if he has you in his heart, he will be close to you;
Only those who do not have you in their hearts are departing from you.
With you in my heart, I naturally understand your importance;
I don't have you in my heart, and it's not worth keeping you!