I read an emotional thing on the Internet:
A seventeen or eighteen-year-old boy fought his mother because he didn't get a bank loan of 30,000 yuan.
Mom cried aggrievedly:
In order to give their children the best living conditions, parents cut back on food and clothing, respond to their children's needs, and are reluctant to let their children suffer a little.
The child spends money so much that the whole family is in debt and does not dare to borrow money from the bank.
But the son said in a heartfelt manner
You are my mother, I don't ask you, who do I want. ”
What a sad education.
The poor family raised a "noble son".
Get rid of the "white-eyed wolf" alive.
In life, everyone hopes that their children will become dragons and phoenixes.
Many ordinary families do everything they have to tighten their belts to get by, just to raise a child who gets ahead.
However, it backfired, and the child not only lost all the family property, but also disgusted that his parents were ignorant and did not understand life.
Japanese writer Koichi Kimura said:
If a child's interests and passions are developed smoothly from the start, most children will become talents or geniuses.
Every child is unique.
Parents do the following 3 things, even if they do one, your child will be very successful in the future.
Likes to read, has a pattern
There is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book.
Reading is too important.
Reading not only increases insight, enriches knowledge, but also changes a person's destiny.
Ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, but all outstanding people are people with insight and vision.
And these insights and visions come from tireless reading and Xi.
Warren Buffett, the richest man in the world, achieved financial freedom through reading.
Warren Buffett loved reading as a child.
He reads everything from comics to history books, from ** to economics books.
He especially likes to read biographies and experience the diversity of life.
Reading has taught him a lot of life principles and experiences.
At university, he studied economics, but he was self-taught.
At Columbia University Library, he spends more time reading than any student there.
He has been reading books on investing and exploring the mysteries of investing.
It was the revelation of a good book in the library, and he found the greatest company in the world.
Eventually, he became a successful investment guru.
Today, Warren Buffett still loves to read, and he reads for at least an hour a day.
Warren Buffett's success proves that reading is not only informative, but also a practical skill that can change the course of life.
Pedagogue Sukhomlinsky said:
A student's intellectual development depends on good reading skills.
If you are not good at reading, you are not good at thinking.
Only by reading more can we broaden our horizons and enrich our perspectives on problems.
No matter what a person's background is, as long as he has an upward heart, has a firm belief, and through unremitting efforts and reading, he will be able to realize his life value.
But it's not that you buy the latest iPad and your child comes out on top;
It's not like having a cabinet of books at home and children will read them.
As parents, we must put down our mobile phones, guide and accompany our children to read, explore together, learn from others, and teach by example rather than words.
In this way, children will fall in love with reading.
The love of reading is a good Xi that children can gain for a lifetime, and it is worth parents to spend time and energy to cultivate.
Work focused,Be serious
In life, we often want to read a book, the mobile phone rings, and we play with the mobile phone again, and we don't turn a page of the book for half a day;
I planned to exercise, but 3 days passed, and I made many excuses for myself and didn't stick to it;
Children are also doing homework while eating, listening, and writing homework miserable.
There is always a beginning and no end to doing things, but in fact, there is a lack of concentration.
Romain Rolland said:
Instead of spending a lot of time and effort digging many wells, it is better to spend the same amount of time and effort digging a deep well.
Stay focused and do one thing at a time to do everything well.
Jiang Nanchun, chairman of Focus Media, also said:
Do things to be focused, don't do the left side, by the way want to do the right side.
Jiang Nanchun has more than 30 years of experience in advertising and marketing.
He focused his life's energy, focused on the advertising platform, and created Focus Media.
Focus Media has become a very good advertising company in China.
Now, even if he doesn't go to work every day, Focus Media still has more than 10 billion yuan a year.
He educates his children as well.
His wife used to enroll her children in many interest classes, but he was adamantly opposed.
He wants his son to choose, what can be the first, learn what to Xi.
Maybe the son will be the first to write the advertising slogan.
Because Dad is his best teacher.
He often taught his son to write advertising slogans.
As a result, the son felt that he was the best in writing the advertising slogan among the children.
The son has his own positioning and self-confidence.
A person has limited energy, and it is impossible to get involved in everything and do everything well.
To succeed in a certain field, you need to pool all your efforts and do the best in that field.
Only by concentrating on what you are good at, staying focused, and persevering, can you achieve positive results.
As a poem reads:
If you were commanded to sweep the streets, you should sweep them like this
It's like Michelangelo painting;
Or Beethoven composing;
It's as if Shakespeare was writing poetry.
Doing everything to the best is art.
You spend your time in, and your achievements will be.
A professor who studies management once said:
How to judge whether a child will be effective in the future is very important to see whether he can focus
It doesn't matter what you do or what you do, what matters is your state, and when you are fully focused, the whole world will make way for you.
So, if you want your child to excel, develop his concentration.
Lock on a goal, let him devote himself to it, and continue to improve.
In this way, the child will be able to embrace the life he wants in the future.
Through the ordeal,Don't give up
The ancients said:Since ancient times, heroes have been born from hardships, and they have never been a great man.
In life, only those who can endure hardships and sweat and persevere in hard work can get things done.
Because enduring hardships can enable us to better explore the direction of progress and exercise our will.
In 2017, Pang Zhongwang, the top science student in Cangzhou City, went through hardships and hardships.
With a score of 744, he was admitted to Tsinghua University.
No one could have imagined what kind of hardships were behind his achievements.
His mother suffers from infantile paralysis and has been in a wheelchair since birth.
The father was mentally ill.
The whole family relied on their elderly grandparents to pick up waste for money to make ends meet.
It's really a family with four walls.
Since he was sensible, Pang Zhongwang poured the urinal for his mother;
Since he was 5 years old, he stepped on a stool and cooked for his parents.
But unfortunately, Pang Zhongwang was diagnosed with congenital heart disease when he was 5 years old.
The mother relied on borrowed money in exchange for the health that the small community expected.
In the second year of junior high school, my mother was admitted to the hospital because of embroidery and overwork.
This time, he relied on Pang Zhongwang to borrow money and save his mother.
These tribulations did not knock Pang Zhongwang down, but made him mature and sensible.
When his peers were sleeping, he got up to take care of his mother;
When his peers are playing, he is doing chores;
In such a predicament, he understood:
Only by working hard to learn Xi can we change the status quo.
No matter how difficult it was, he never stopped learning Xi.
Eventually, he was admitted to Tsinghua University, and four years later, he was qualified to pursue a Ph.D. at Tsinghua University.
It can be seen that the poor door is never an excuse.
Only by being able to endure hardships can we have tenacious willpower to face all kinds of hardships on the road of life.
The hardships and setbacks in life have made Pang Zhongwang's mind more mature.
It is not the character and origin that determine a person's fate, but a person's mind.
Only the vision and pattern can open the gap in life
Heaven is fair to everyone, and the key to success and failure is to see if you have withstood the test of suffering.
As a parent, it is not to satisfy the child's imagination of the life of the rich.
It is to teach children to be strong and resilient in the face of life's hardships, and to be considerate of their parents' difficulties.
Guide children to rely on diligence and dedication to change the unsatisfactory status quo.
Let them understand that only spiritual growth, tempering of will, and perseverance can realize the dream in their hearts.
Write at the end
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
What determines a person's achievement is not talent or luck, but persistence and dedication, which is to keep doing, repeating it, and doing it with heart. The harder you work, the luckier you get.
Everyone's achievement is not talent, but perseverance and dedication.
It takes time for everyone to grow, too.
Parents should be patient as their children grow up.
Cultivate children's focus and have a lifelong Xi Xi of learning.
In the face of difficulties and setbacks, be able to endure hardships, believe in your own abilities, treat them with a grateful attitude, and continue to move forward.
When the time comes, it will naturally come to pass.
Winter