A friend I had never met asked me if I had childrenI was quite surprised, and after chatting, I learned that she wanted to consult a person who had come over: whether a pregnancy test is necessary and what items to do for pregnancy testing.
I'm a little confused, the pregnancy test is not three months after the pregnancy to the hospital to apply for a card, the test items are not automatically generated by the hospital?I asked her if she was pregnant.
She said that she was not pregnant, she was preparing for pregnancy, and she originally advertised that there were several free programs, but when she arrived at the hospital, she found that she was recommended several projects, and the cost was 4,000. I struggled for a while and wanted to find a reliable person to consult.
I think that if both parties have done marriage checkups and usually have regular physical examinations, there is no need to do pre-pregnancy check-ups!Neither I nor my friends have done it, and the prenatal check-up after pregnancy has included all kinds of pregnancy tests, which is enough.
So I gave her my advice: instead of spending 4,000 oceans for various check-ups, it is better to spend money on food or fitness to keep your body in the best condition.
She followed my advice. It dawned on me that this was too arbitrary, after all, I had only come to such conclusions based on very little experience, and I was not a professional. What if it hurts her?
So I thought of my neighbor, an all-powerful gynecologist and child, so I relayed my friend's problem and asked her to analyze it.
The first thing she said was: send me the inspection items first, and I will evaluate them. I instantly felt professional.
Based on the test items, she gave very detailed suggestions and opinions, and also gave two psychological guidance to prepare for pregnancy.
When I gave my friend's advice back to my friend, she also took a reassuring pill and insisted on sending me a red envelope.
I recall that I once had the experience of being pitted by the "hospital", but at that point in time, I could only rely on the Internet because I did not find a suitable person to consult, and the Internet had too many "pits".
If you don't believe it, try it at x degrees, and make sure you receive a bunch of messages and accidentally fall into the pit.
A series of hospitals that have been in the headlines are the biggest pitfalls.
In fact, many times, there is not much to do, but because we have no professional knowledge, we don't know the answer, and we are too scared and worried in the face of the unknown.
Take my baby as an example, before the age of two, as soon as I had a headache, fever, stomach discomfort, vomiting or something, we ran to the hospital. Even if I don't think it's a big deal, going to the hospital won't have much effect, after all, ** needs a process, and in the end, it depends on your own physique.
But you can't stand the worries of the people around you, especially the elderly, grandparents, and grandparents who keep saying when the baby vomits: go to ......the hospital, find a doctor, and feel more at ease
Since getting acquainted with this gynecologist, the only thing Wang and I have felt is that it seems that we almost don't go to the hospital anymore. There was a headache and brain fever, and the baby took the initiative to run to her house, she showed it and rubbed it, and then said a few words of precautions, and told us what medicine to buy when necessary. Don't be too happy.
Recently, the baby vomited and had a stomachache, and when she got to her house, she gave excellent advice, which made us all feel at ease. From the bottom of my heart, I feel that it feels good to have a family doctor, and we are willing to pay for this reliable family doctor.
This is true for medical treatment, as well as in other aspects, and I have found that there is a growing trend of paying for knowledge in life. I also increasingly agree that the free ones are often the most expensive.