The ancient idiom "talented and beautiful" has gradually evolved over time into a word to describe the relationship between husband and wife or lovers. In this vocabulary, talent and beauty are no longer just superficial labels, but more emphasis is placed on the tacit understanding, mutual appreciation and emotional exchange between husband and wife.
However, in real life, we find that "talented women" are not always as perfect as people think. A man shared his doubts about the choice of "beautiful woman" on social **. He thought he was the most handsome man in the village, but he was puzzled that a man who was not an amazing man who kept a donkey had found a beautiful wife in the city.
The man's ** shows a seemingly "unattractive" man holding a donkey while his wife rides on the back of a donkey. The scene, which professed to be the most handsome man in the village, was incomprehensible to him, and he felt that he could not find a beautiful wife, and that this seemingly inconspicuous donkey keeper could be so lucky.
This has led to reflections on the weight of appearance and economic power in love. In this case, the man emphasized his appearance and appearance, but ignored the economic strength of the donkey man. There is a saying in the countryside, "the family has a lot of wealth, but the hairy one does not count", which refers to the donkey. This may be a unique view of wealth in rural areas. Here, we see the collision of physiognomy and economic power, which is more of a symbol of strength.
This also leads to a deeper question, that is, in real life, whether the choice in a relationship between husband and wife depends only on physical appearanceAppearance alone may be able to cater to the aesthetic standards of the time, but if you lack economic strength and internal understanding, it may be difficult to maintain a long-term relationship.
In this man's puzzlement, we also see a kind of blind confidence in our own worth. He thinks he is the most handsome, but he ignores his own shortcomings in the economy. This also makes us reflect on whether we should look at ourselves more holistically when pursuing relationships, rather than just staying at the level of appearance.
The whole story conveys a profound message that while physical appearance is important, economic strength and inner ability cannot be ignored either. In reality, the relationship between husband and wife needs more elements to maintain, including tacit understanding, respect, common goals, etc. The idiom "talented and beautiful" may also need to be given a more comprehensive connotation to adapt to the diversity and complexity of today's society.
In this story, the single man's doubts about the donkey man are actually a reflection on his own limitations. Physiognomy is only the tip of the iceberg, and deeper things, such as financial strength and inner abilities, are the key to sustaining a relationship. This also reminds us that when we are looking for a significant other, we should pay more attention to the other person's morality, sense of responsibility and shared values in addition to their appearance.
The old idiom of "talented and beautiful" may need to be re-examined in today's society. Not only the appearance, but also the internal quality and strength, in order to build a real sense of the general relationship.