Love knows no borders, and there is no distinction between races and cultures. When the destined person appears, everything around them will reced, leaving only each other. We often say that it is difficult to communicate between East and West, but as long as the mind is connected, all differences will disappear. I thought that the cultural gap would push the two hearts apart, but it was also possible to connect them closely. When love knocks on the door, instead of running away, we should be brave enough to believe and see the essence of a person. Maybe difference is the mystery of mutual attraction, maybe similarity is the first to get tired of it. There is no standard answer to love, it is more like an improvised **, which requires two hearts to play a beautiful melody in unison. Today, let's listen to a transnational love between Eastern and Western women, and witness a legend of marriage through culture.
In the 80s of the 20th century, a woman from the United States, Kang Cuilan, came to Taiwan to work. At that time, Taiwan had not yet opened up, and foreigners were rare. However, the mystery of Oriental culture attracted Contrian, and she was eager to learn more about it.
One evening, Contrian went to a Western restaurant to dine alone. She is not accustomed to the local customs, and can only please her loneliness alone. Just then, a melodious guitar sound reached her ears. This is the first time she has heard such a beautiful Chinese song since she came to Taiwan. Kang Cuilan looked at the voice**, a polite young man was playing and singing, his voice was clear and moving.
Since that day, Kang Cuilan has come to this restaurant every night to listen to Zhou Huajian's performance. Although the two had no dialogue, they got closer and closer in **. Perhaps it was the collision of Eastern and Western cultures, and they saw new possibilities in each other. A month later, the two confirmed their relationship, opening a romance of transnational cultures.
Faced with the doubts of her family, Kang Cuilan did not choose to leave. At that time, Zhou Huajian was still chasing his dreams, and the conditions were difficult. But Kang Cuilan doesn't mind this, what she values is Zhou Huajian's character and potential. In 1985, the two officially entered into marriage, and Kang Cuilan became Zhou Huajian's biggest spiritual pillar. She supported Zhou Huajian with acceptance and trust, so that he would no longer be lonely on the road to chasing his dreams.
After his successful debut, Zhou Huajian gained fame and fortune, and his position in the industry was stable. However, his busy work made him rarely spend time with his wife, which became a hidden danger in his marriage. The excitement of the fans quickly turned into harassment of Contrian. She was alone with pressure from all sides, physically and mentally exhausted, and suffered from depression. She couldn't sleep all night, and her face was tired;During the day, I also lost the motivation to work, and even lost a lot of weight.
At this critical moment, Zhou Huajian turned back in time and chose to accompany his wife. He put down his work and took Kang Cuilan on a trip to relax, focusing on communication and accompanying her through difficulties. Under his careful care, Kang Cuilan finally regained her strength and regained a healthy lifestyle and mentality. Zhou Huajian did not forget his original intention because of fame, and he did not abandon this lover who has always supported him. He gave his wife support when she needed it most, making the relationship between the two stronger.
When Kang Cuilan's mood stabilized, Zhou Huajian returned to focus on work. However, he made sure that for all important occasions, he invited his wife first and introduced her to everyone. For a while, the rumors dissipated, and everyone saw their deep feelings. Zhou Huajian guarded this marriage with practical actions, proving his responsibility and responsibility. He did not change his original intention because of the pursuit of fame and fortune, and became a husband who can bend and stretch.
Time flies, and the husband and wife have walked hand in hand for 40 years. Today's Zhou Huajian has long been famous all over the world and has become a model of sticking to his original intention. And Kang Cuilan, who lives under his aura, has become more and more calm and calm. She no longer has the trepidation of the past, but is full of trust and support for Zhou Huajian. Her mature and steady core supports the longevity of this marriage.
The reporter once asked Kang Cuilan's views on the age difference. She said with a smile that life is like reading, some people understand the true meaning of life early, and some people are late. The key is to connect with each other. What is unworthy in the eyes of outsiders is not inconsistent in their eyes. Because love has no borders, and there is no age gap. Her wise answer impressed everyone with the couple.
Now their children are married, and their lives are as peaceful as usual. Looking back, Zhou Huajian sighed: "I am very glad that I chose to turn back at that time. My greatest treasure in this life is the company of my wife. "An encounter started, forty years of ups and downs. The bond of love is so deep that it transcends the distance of age. Maybe this is the fate of marriage, which can withstand the test of wind and rain and eventually become a family.
We often say that marriage is the grave of love, but if there is a lot of understanding and trust, the grave can also bloom. The story of Zhou Huajian and Kang Cuilan makes people think deeply, marriage does not need to be deliberately maintained, the key is to find a person with a similar heart.
Good fate is determined by nature, and we should not give up for superficial differences, but look at the inner quality of the other party. Relationships also need to go through ups and downs to run in a unique spark. We also have to learn to look back and never give up on those who are worth waiting for. Life is a long road, and you will definitely feel warm when you are accompanied by someone. May we all meet the right person and grow old together.
The above chapter depicts a story of marriage that transcends national cultures. Here, we see that everyone is equal in front of love, and age cannot block the fit of the heart. I also saw the power of firm responsibility, so that the marriage can withstand the test of wind and rain. No matter where we come from, love will open a window for us. May everyone meet the right person in this season of love and spend the rest of their lives together.
Zhou Huajian and Kang Cuilan can be described as bosom friends who fit and coexist. They have proved with 40 years of watching each other that love knows no borders and is far and wide. It is the mutual understanding and sympathy of two hearts that is the magic weapon of marriage. When everyone understands and tolerates each other, the family will be as warm as spring.
Life is a long road, and we will also encounter ups and downs. Only by finding a bosom friend can we get along with each other and eventually become a family. Love needs more mutual trust and understanding, and less suspicion and conjecture. The way to get along is to communicate more and hurt less, and be more tolerant and less judgmental. Be grateful for the company every day, cherish the people in front of you, and leave no regrets in life. May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married, laugh hand in hand at the wind and rain, and share the time of white heads.
The above chapter depicts a story of marriage that transcends national cultures. Here, we see that everyone is equal in front of love, and age cannot block the fit of the heart. I also saw the power of firm responsibility, so that the marriage can withstand the test of wind and rain. No matter where we come from, love will open a window for us. May everyone meet the right person in this season of love and spend the rest of their lives together.