Although "Parental Love" has been on the air for many years, it still wins the love of many viewers. In addition to its touching storyline, the characters in the play are also indispensable. Whether it is the protagonist or the supporting characters, their personalities are very distinct, just like everyone around us, has their own strengths and weaknesses. In this drama, we can see their attitude towards love and understanding of life, and we can also experience the family and friendship between them, and we can also feel their true thoughts in their hearts. One of the most striking things about this drama is that it doesn't contain a bloody plot or court struggle, but rather shows the various emotional swings of an ordinary family, as well as the upbringing of a couple.
Ge Meixia, the daughter of a fisherman, her marriage was affected due to her birth background. Not only is she beautiful, but she is also very knowledgeable and speaks very elegantly. An Jie shows a flamboyant personality, while Ge Meixia gives people a gentle and humble feeling.
She had developed a romance with two officers, but due to the birth background of Lao Ding, the relationship between the two eventually broke down. In her forties, she married Wang Zhenbiao and finally realized her long-held dream. Her life was full of love and hope, but also had many regrets. Like Dehua, she is loyal to her heart and is willing to marry a good husband who can enjoy her old age in peace.
Compared with Dehua's deep feelings for Lao Ding, Ge Meixia's initial marriage to Wang Zhenbiao was not out of true love, Wang Zhenbiao was just a springboard for her to pursue a better life.
While some people think that Ge Meixia is An Jie's close friend on the island, I must point out that the relationship between Ge Meixia and An Jie is not really friends. If there is a deep friendship between them, it is just what we now call "plastic sisters".
When Ge Meixia later persuaded Yafei to marry Wang Haiyang, Jiang Defu told An Jie: Isn't Ge Meixia your close friend?She and I are friends. ”
At that time, An Jie said with a gloomy face: "This is a nonsense friend!."”
In order to ensure that the character's description is both fair and fair, I found out that Ge Meixia has mixed emotions for An Jie during my fourth ** interaction with An Jie, including appreciation, exploitation, jealousy, and ridicule. From the stories behind her two love histories with An Jie, we can clearly feel how ruthless she is to An Jie!Her love for him was so cruel. Except for her, probably no one else would treat him like An Jie. In fact, everything she does is intimately connected to human nature.
Craving. An Jie and Ge Meixia met for the first time next to the well. At that time, An Jie had just arrived on the island and planned to fetch water by himself. That's the beauty of women, she said. Anjie has never tried to carry water, and although she is very concerned about her appearance, she still chooses a beautiful skirt and high heels to carry water. Women wearing high heels and skirts to carry water may have been the first on the island, thus attracting a crowd of onlookers from children.
With an elegant gait, An Jie staggered to the side of the well. She put the bucket in the well, and even though she had never touched the water, she couldn't get it with all her strength, which made the children around her laugh at her. "Why are you so stupid?I'm not going to hit it. Anjie felt both shy and angry.
Ge Meixia not only expelled the children, but also helped An Jie get water, and when she found that An Jie could not stir up a full bucket of water, she thoughtfully dumped half a bucket for An Jie. She is a very loving and caring mother. This encounter, Mr. Ge left a deep impression on An Jie's heart.
When the two of them met for the first time, Ge Meixia knocked on the door of An Jie's heart with her kind heart.
Later, when An Jie began to teach at school, Ge Meixia once again tried to get closer to him, she said that An Jie's voice was the most pleasant she had ever heard, and it contained a unique charm.
An Jie invited Ge Meixia to his home for coffee and prepared a dress for her. Ge Meixia chose her favorite one from An Jie's many dresses to wear on her body, and An Jie praised her like a fairy.
Ge Meixia was wearing the dress given to her by An Jie, sitting in An Jie's courtyard and sipping coffee, she couldn't help but sigh: This kind of life is really beautiful!She considers herself how lucky. As she stood in front of the mirror trying on clothes, she asked herself, "When will I be able to live this life?"
If earlier she was snubbed and discriminated against on the island because of her birth background, but she still accepted the arrangement of fate a little, then from the first contact with An Jie, she also made a plan for her future in her heart.
Although An Jie's background is similar to hers, An Jie's lifestyle surpasses that of many women, isn't it precisely because she married a wonderful husband?If it weren't for Jiang Defu, would her Anjie's current living situation be complete?
If Ge Meixia first assisted An Jie in fetching water with good intentions, then her praise for An Jie was more to please him, because An Jie's husband was the subordinate leader of the island. Her relationship with Anjie has always been positive.
Everyone has a natural mentality of admiring the strong, and when they see someone better than themselves, they will have the urge to become friends. It's the same in dealing with the weak, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will be recognized by others. Forming friendships with powerful people has brought great benefits to you in many fields.
Ge Meixia has a deep understanding of these social common senses. Moreover, considering the predicament she was in at the time, it would be both good and no bad for her to stand with An Jie, the wife of the second chief.
Ge Meixia approached An Jie in a deliberately flattering gesture, and An Jie presented her with a dress and invited her to drink coffee, a series of actions that further inspired Ge Meixia's desire for a better life.
From then on, in the deepest part of her heart, an emotion called desire was awakened.
Mr. Lu Xun once pointed out that although life may encounter various difficulties, the noble quality of human beings is reflected in the need to adhere to their own moral standards in the face of adversity, and not to overindulge themselves and let wrong thoughts spread everywhere.
This desire shown by Ge Meixia is not wrong, it reflects the desire for beautiful things in human nature, and we have no blame for it. In the face of such adversity, she still has deep expectations for a better life, which is very commendable.
With the outbreak of ***, although Mr. Ge's background is not prominent, An Jie still lives a life no different from the past, which makes Ge Meixia feel a certain degree of psychological imbalance in her heart.
During this time, she met her ideal partner, Lao Ding. Although Lao Ding has four sons, he is handsome and loves to read and newspapers, with whom he has a lot in common. So, they decided to get married. Lao Ding holds the post of deputy chief of staff, and although her official position cannot be compared with Jiang Defu, at least she is an officer. If she can marry him, she will have the opportunity to break away from the socially unpopular lifestyle of the past and be able to live a life similar to An Jie. Therefore, Ge Meixia was very satisfied with Lao Ding, and the two quickly fell into a passionate relationship.
However, life will always play some unexpected jokes on you, and just when Ge Meixia was looking forward to the upcoming good life, Wang Zhenbiao's words once again pulled her back to the original point. "I think that's life. Wang Zhenbiao expressed doubts about her marriage to Lao Ding, and Lao Ding chose to let go for the sake of his own future and his 80-year-old father and four sons.
Dehua witnessed Ge Meixia's crying at Lao Ding's home. She knew that she had been abandoned by fate again!How could she not shed tears?She had been thinking about it for so long, looking forward to it for so long, seeing that her decades-long wish was about to come true, who would have thought that fate would once again hit her hard.
Ge Meixia has a deep affection for Lao Ding, although she has waited for many years, and people praise her for her unique vision, both high standards and lofty pursuits, but in fact, deep down she has her own criteria for choosing a partner, and she never lets herself be wronged. She thinks that she has good conditions now, so it is better to find a rich man. When she met An Jie, her thinking changed, that is, in her future married life, even if she was slightly wronged, she wanted to marry a partner who had the ability to change her current situation.
Lao Ding fully met her expectations. Although Lao Ding had four sons, he was not only good-looking and knowledgeable, but also an officer. Ge Meixia, a woman in her thirties, has come to realize that sugarcane cane can't be sweet at both ends, especially for people like her who come from poor backgrounds. Therefore, she chose Lao Ding. If someone like Lao Ding is willing to marry her, she is already very satisfied. Moreover, in addition to having four sons, Lao Ding has performed quite well in all other aspects. Her husband is also a good person, although he has worked in the army for many years, he is still honest and can live quite peacefully. What's more, if Lao Ding didn't have those four sons, how could he have a good impression of her from a poor background?
She originally planned to marry Lao Ding, but was violently treated by Wang Zhenbiao. Lao Ding didn't want to fight for the two of them, she could only sigh about her bumpy fate and decided to continue her long wait. Has her love finally begun?Looking forward to when fate will be able to fulfill her dream.
Affected by this mentality, Ge Meixia's heart gradually changed. If she deliberately approached An Jie out of envy before, then since then, her feelings for An Jie have changed from envy to jealousy. When the painter arrived on the island, she carried out a series of artistic operations that proved this.
The artist who went to the island to sketch invited An Jie as his model, and from the painter's eyes, you can clearly feel his love for An Jie. During that period, the island was filled with various gossips about An Jie and the painter, and Dehua had a heated argument with An Jie, accusing An Jie of dishonoring her brother. Jiang Defu was also dissatisfied, and he criticized An Jie for not taking into account his influence. An Jie is used to having the upper hand and is unwilling to suffer. When there was a disagreement between the husband and wife and no reconciliation was reached, Jiang Defu was sent on a business trip for two days.
That afternoon, when An Jie was correcting her homework in the office, Ge Meixia curiously asked her why she didn't choose to become a model
An Jie said: I don't want to go, it's really boring. It's so harsh that it makes me angry.
Ge Meixia said: It's not really boring, but I'm scared by all kinds of gossipYou say, are you telling the truth?I'm going to tell you, the harsher the words, the more untrue, and the more ** the words, the harder it is to be trusted.
At this moment, a painter walked up to the door with a bouquet of wild flowers in his hand. The painter pointed to the bouquet of roses and said, "I want to know what its name is."I said I saw this flower on the street before and it was beautiful, so I picked a handful to add some color to your place. Where should this flower be placed?
An Jie suggested that the flowers be placed on Mr. Ge's desk, but Ge Meixia did not hesitate to bring the flowers to An Jie's table.
The painter invited An Jie to paint in the afternoon, but An Jie politely declined on the grounds that he had something to do.
When the painter left, Ge Meixia mentioned that he locked his eyes on you as soon as he entered, and I think Mr. Xia seems to have a good impression of you.
An Jie eagerly dissuaded Ge Meixia and said: The more you say, the more people feel inappropriate, and if you are heard again, it is time to spread rumors.
Unexpectedly, Ge Meixia said indignantly: "Is there really any gossip?"Is there any harsher gossip than being completely stripped naked?Even if you're completely naked, what's the matter?That's all for the sake of art, dedication for art, and it doesn't make people ashamed. ”
An Jie said angrily: You'd better keep your mouth shut, you don't feel pain in your lower back when you stand and speak, so why don't you devote yourself wholeheartedly to art?
Anjie invited Ge Meixia to her home for coffee in the afternoon.
When Ge Meixia arrived in the afternoon, she brought the painter Teacher Xia to An Jie's home. Unfortunately, this scene was seen by Jiang Defu, who had just returned from a business trip, which led to a quarrel between their husband and wife, and An Jie was very angry and shed tears.
In this scene, Ge Meixia's every action seems to be a joke, but every word she says seems a little excessive. It's not a joke, it's about herself. In that era, people's requirements for lifestyle were very strict, not to mention that Jiang Defu was the head of the military region, and An Jie's every move directly affected Jiang Defu's career and reputation, which An Jie knew very well.
Therefore, when she realized that there was something talking behind her back, she, who was usually wayward, began to restrain her pride and take the initiative to distance herself from the painter. Ge Meixia always stood aside and observed, she was not unaware of An Jie's worries, and specially put the flowers presented by the painter on An Jie's table, and made the kind of remarks that she would not feel back pain when she stood and spoke.
If we take Ge Meixia's behavior in the office as a simple joke, then her performance in the afternoon is undoubtedly beyond the boundary. Although she directly heard An Jie's rejection of the painter in the morning and excused herself on the grounds that there was something to do in the afternoon, she deliberately told the painter that she wanted to go to An Jie's house for coffee, which caused Jiang Defu to go home early and a conflict arose between the husband and wife.
Liu Yu expressed this wish in his work "May You Grow Up Slowly": May you grow up gradually, may you encounter good luck, if not, may you learn compassion in the face of adversity;May you be loved by many, and if not, may you learn to be magnanimous in solitude.
Ge Meixia did not cultivate compassion when she encountered misfortune, nor did she show tolerance in loneliness, and her heart became more gloomy. She didn't understand, she didn't understand why a painter could be so indifferent to someone else's husband, even his own son. Although she knew that other people's words might frighten her, that An Jie was afraid of gossip with the painter, and that the couple might have conflicts because of this, she brought the painter to An Jie's home. Not only did she show a helpless look, claiming that the painter didn't want her to bring him, but she also asked An Jie if she would like to bring him
An Jie always avoided this painter, and Ge Meixia is now taking him home, which makes An Jie feel unhappy in his heart. He wanted to ask her, why don't you want to go to the exhibition with me?She was still interested in asking the question. She didn't know what the painter meant. Then again, even if the painter wanted her to bring him over, wouldn't she choose to refuse?The painter will be punished if he does not agree.
If she firmly disagrees, then the painter may not be able to **** herHer attitude was too resolute. In addition, she deliberately told the painter that she planned to go to An Jie's house for coffee, and revealed that An Jie's yard was very beautiful, and she took the painter to An Jie's house out of good intentions.
She really didn't know how much trouble she would cause to Anjie by doing this?How could he treat her like this?After Jiang Defu returned, he and his wife had a disagreement in the room, and she proposed to the painter: Mr. Xia, should we leave first?
At first, he took guests to other people's homes without permission, but when he saw that things were getting chaotic, he wanted to leave quietly. As a result, he was caught in the end. Ge Meixia's behavior in this particular scene is not only unconventional, but also extremely cruel and resolute.
If she really regards An Jie as a friend, will she involve her friend in the whirlpool of public **?Will she have a crush on her friend?Will she really put up with seeing her friends and wives strained?
In the loneliness and waiting day after day, her heart was filled with emptiness. She gradually developed jealousy and hatred for An Jie from the initial envy. In the painter's case, she made it clear that she wanted to embarrass An Jie, but she also achieved her goal. An Jie was not only slandered, Jiang Defu was also angry with An Jie because of this, and An Jie felt very sad and shed tears.
This series of events is inextricably linked with Ge Meixia.
Cover up the truth. Wang Zhenbiao invited Jiang Defu and his wife to be his matchmaker with Ge Meixia. An Jie told Ge Meixia that Ge Meixia quickly agreed. An Jie realized at this time that the two of them already had a deep relationship in private, so they were invited to be matchmakers just to avoid being talked about.
At that time, Wang Zhenbiao's wife had just died, and not long after his death, Wang Zhenbiao quickly announced his relationship with Ge Meixia. We don't know when they started their relationship, but Ge Meixia and Lao Ding were separated because of Wang Zhenbiao's words. Now, Wang Zhenbiao proposed marriage again after his wife's death, and she didn't want to agree immediately.
From this, it can be seen that she is very afraid of long nights and frequent dreams. She was worried that her engagement with Wang Zhenbiao might fail as before, so she decided to seize the opportunity.
Of course, everyone expects Ge Meixia to marry a good man, but Ge Meixia chose to marry Wang Zhenbiao at this time, not because of true love, but because Wang Zhenbiao completely meets her mate selection criteria. An Jie mentioned before that Wang Zhenbiao's residents on the island have a very low opinion of him, which Ge Meixia will definitely not be unfamiliar with.
However, at this moment, she has no extra time to think about it, because she clearly realizes that once she loses Wang Zhenbiao, the next opportunity will become difficult. She thought that if she could be with him, it would be a happy life. Therefore, she quickly entered the palace of marriage. She has the ability to make Wang Zhenbiao obedient. She knows that he is a very good man, his behavior will be respected by many people, and he is also very strict with her, and all he has to do is obey and cooperate. And she did.
After Wang Zhenbiao remarried, her attitude towards Ge Meixia became very friendly, and she also began to enjoy a leisurely coffee time similar to An Jie.
On this particular occasion, An Jie became the last person to learn that Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao were about to get married. Although she and Ge Meixia had some close relationships before, Ge Meixia didn't even tell An Jie about it. Of course, she may have her own judgment without knowing it, but from this point, we can clearly see that she does not really regard Anjie as a close friend. The two of them used to enjoy coffee and small talk together, but on the island, two people of similar identities have found a sense of their own, and their relationship is more like a "plastic sisterhood".
Jing Yidan pointed out: In a person's life, how many roads do we need to go through in order to have a clear direction of progress;And on this road, we need to meet how many people we need to decide who to go with them.
At the stage when Ge Meixia felt most helpless, she met An Jie and spent some time with him. However, when they reach middle age, they realize that they are not really companions.
Remember hatred. An Xin and Ouyang Yi planned to return to the island, so the four families took a ship back to the place where they had lived many years ago. The boat was already parked by the sea, and they did not find a suitable place either. Although everyone else was in a happy mood, Ge Meixia seemed depressed, and she complained to Dehua that these people seemed to have lost their vitality, why did they want to go back and see what was worth seeing?She said she was in a bad mood because of her illness. She said that every time she returned, she would recall the pain she had experienced on the island, which weighed her heart.
Dehua curiously asks her why others are always so happy.
Ge Meixia mentioned that some people have memories, while others don't.
Dehua jokingly said to her that you did it because you couldn't remember things, and you did it because you held grudges.
When it comes to hardship, An Xin is undoubtedly one of the most experienced hardships in this group of people. At that time, Ouyang Yi was labeled as a rightist, and An Xin decided to give up her position in Qingdao and take her two young daughters to face the hardships of life with Ouyang Yi. Although she had a good job, she persevered on the island for more than a decade. Compared with Ge Meixia, her living situation is significantly worse.
Despite this, An Xin showed a happy attitude towards the gift of fate, and she did not show any complaints or hatred, but happily returned to his hometown with her husband and stayed on the island for two days.
Although Ge Meixia experienced many difficulties during that period, she has always been committed to education, and compared with An Xin, her treatment is obviously more generous. "My salary is more than half of everyone else's. During An Jie's confinement, An Xin said that she did not dare to consider becoming a teacher in her life.
In the same experience, An Xin's situation was more tragic than hers, but she still regarded those past days as precious memories and did not feel deep pain and hatred because of the suffering on the island.
However, Ge Meixia is still dissatisfied with the events that have occurred in the past. Her experience and her character were formed in a specific historical environment, and this specific social environment is inextricably linked to her personally. Actually, she is quite narrow at heart. Therefore, we can gain insight into her complex feelings for An Jie at that time, which is accompanied by both envy and jealousy.
Fortunately, Ge Meixia is very intelligent, and no matter how much she desires in her heart to live a life similar to An Jie, it is her free choice. She never hurt others because of this, always stuck to her original intention, and finally achieved her wish.
Ge Meixia is kind, intelligent, and beautiful, and although she has every chance to live a better life, her life experience has changed drastically due to the changing times. She has also experienced the jealousy and hatred of ordinary people, and she also has the careful eyes of ordinary people, but she has never made unforgivable mistakes.
As a result, her whole life is full of complexities. In the process, she has experienced pain and frustration, as well as unfortunate things. However, it is also bound to be a puzzling thing. Because of these experiences, she has developed strong expectations for marriage, which is why she has had love stories with two officers, and the stories behind these love histories are the real reason why she chose to be with them.
Cause and effect depend on each other, this is exactly the way of life that she Ge Meixia pursues.
Here's a summary.
At the end of the TV series, An Jie tastes coffee in Ge Meixia's yard. Ge Meixia finally mustered up the courage to confess her inner feelings to An Jie: she had set a goal when she was young, that is, when she could spend it like Teacher An, even if she only lived one day, she felt that it was worth it. Although both of them come from the same family background, their living conditions are very different. It's really a comparison between people, and it's infuriating.
Ge Meixia finally confided her true feelings in her old age, and she made countless comparisons with Ann's masterpiece, but each comparison made her even angrier, because An Jie's fate seemed to be better. His luck is really bad!Therefore, when Ge Meixia set a goal for herself, her eyes gradually turned to the other officers on the island, first Lao Ding, and then Wang Zhenbiao.
She knew that her strength was insufficient, so she told her comrades and family her thoughts. Luckily, she finally got her wish, and as she described, she was able to live the life she dreamed of when she was younger, albeit a little later.
Her background and her haughty personality have shaped her unique life trajectory. She has had deep emotional entanglements with two officers, and the stories behind these love histories are even more emotional!