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The relationship between college students and counselors is very important, but it is not for students to "pat on the back", but for students to maintain a low-key and humble polite attitude, and treat the counselor as a "teacher and friend". College students should not put on a posture of "being on top", nor should they have "princess disease, young master disease". The role of a counselor is not only to deal with various trivial matters of students, but also to transfer professional knowledge, provide career guidance, etc. Therefore, students should be honest with their counsellors and build a good relationship with them.
The scene of college students asking for leave and not being approved and angrily scolding the counselor makes people cry and laugh. A student bought a bus ticket in advance, but had an English class in the afternoon, and asked the counselor to approve the leave. However, due to the student's arrogant attitude, the counselor rejected his request for leave and stated that such a leave could not be granted. The student angrily said that the counselor really thought he was amazing, superiorThis disrespectful and self-righteous attitude towards counsellors is truly ironic. Although the counselors are not "class teachers", they are responsible for handling all kinds of trivial matters of students and play a vital role in the lives of students.
The fact that a student asks for leave and does not approve it does not actually give the student the results he wants. Counselors are not "vegetarians", they also have their own principles and bottom lines. The student's selfish behavior and disrespectful attitude will only make the counselor more determined to reject the leave request. The counselor said that as long as the student was informed in advance and explained the situation well, they could approve the leave. However, students are reluctant to take the initiative to communicate, and only want to skip class and let the counselor take the blame. Such an attitude is not only unfair to counselors, but also inconsistent with the politeness and humility expected of college students.
The relationship between college students and counselors is not just about dealing with trivial matters like taking time off, it is also about student learning and development. Although counselors do not attend classes frequently, they are responsible for passing on professional knowledge and mindset to students and giving them career guidance. Their job is not as easy as students think, and they need to carefully plan their students' careers and help students with their learning and development plans.
Counselors are usually about the same age as the students, and they may be the "big brothers" to the students. Coupled with a higher educational background, there is also a good relationship between the counselor and the university students. Most counselors genuinely want to see students succeed and are willing to help students solve problems and provide support. However, if students have a bad attitude towards the counselor, thinking that the counselor is "sycophant", then they will only let themselves lose opportunities and resources.
The student's attitude is very important to build a good relationship with the counselor. Students should be sincere and put themselves in the right position. Don't put yourself on a "high pitch", counselors don't exist to meet the various needs of students. Instead, students should be humble enough to ask the counsellor about learning and development, and treat the counsellor as a mentor who is both a mentor and a friend.
Students should keep in mind that university is a "small society" and is also about "human sophistication". The relationship with the counselor not only affects the student's daily life, but also has a close relationship with the student's grades and ratings. Students are advised to build a good relationship with a counselor if they want more opportunities and resources. In addition to handling students' chores, counselors also provide academic and career guidance to help students achieve their goals.
Building a good relationship with a counselor is a must-do for college students. Students should be open to asking questions from the counsellor and learning from their experience and knowledge. At the same time, students should maintain a humble and polite attitude and should not be arrogant to the counselors or think that they are "sycophants". Only in this way can you truly get the support and help of your counselor. College students should not only pursue academic success, but also develop good interpersonal and social skills. Only in this way can students be well-rounded during their time at university and lay a solid foundation for their future careers.
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