How do parents talk to death?The college student posted a conversation record, and netizens identified it as his own mother
After the coming-of-age ceremony, stepping into the university and leaving the protection of their parents, many students experience a feeling of "hardened wings", as if they have become a raging tide, leaving their parents on the beach.
As students grow up, so do their parents, and students may think that they are "surfing on 5G" and easily surpassing their parents. However, the reality is often harsh, and parents can make a conversation boring with just a few words.
A college student has made public a chat with his parents, revealing the confusion between parents and their children. Netizens said: "This mother is really a mother." This kind of maternal love seems to be a little too heavy.
As the saying goes, "a generation gap in three years", the age gap between parents and students is as far away as the Great Rift Valley. The generation gap, in short, is when two generations may have different understandings of the same thing.
This depiction shows the communication barrier between parents and college students. Parents may be uncomfortable with modern student life, values, and language, and students feel that their parents' stereotypes and communication styles make communication boring.
This generation gap reflects the challenges posed by the rapid changes in society, and the differences between parents and children make understanding more complicated. It has also led to reflection on how to better communicate, understand and respect the differences in perceptions between different age groups.
For example, the "poop" emoji. It may be a simple icon for students, but in the eyes of parents, it becomes a piece of cake. Although parents will admit their mistakes, they expect their students to "eat as soon as they are ready", and this kind of maternal love seems to be heavy and heavy.
Some netizens commented: "It seems that knowing the son is the truth", because parents have been witnessing the growth of their children and will always know their children best. However, when seeing this parent's concern, perhaps the student has begun to wonder in his heart whether he will become a waste that will be "picked up" by the trash can
Although this parent may seem to have a "poisonous tongue", in fact, it is often the parents who have such a "poisonous tongue" who are more likely to raise humorous and optimistic children, because they see themselves as friends rather than serious elders.
In middle and high school, students usually turn a deaf ear to what is going on outside the window and focus on reading, almost like living in a time and space without the Internet. However, once entering the university, with the equipment of mobile phones and computers, students "surf" the Internet every day to learn about various popular memes for the first time.
In fact, the parents' communication proves that there is indeed some truth to the old saying - ginger is still old and spicy. When the parent has a conversation, the other person feels less like a traditional parent and more like a peer. This raises some doubts about whether this parent can really build friendships with his peers
Sure enough, the family's words, after entering the door, they found that there was a big difference.
As the saying goes, old children and old children, as this parent grows older, the more childish he becomes. The two actually made a bet on the Rubik's Cube in the game, which seemed to be an easy game, but the question is, how serious is this bet?
However, it is not this bet that is the most intriguing. What's even more interesting is the question from my mother: Why don't you try it?It's just hilarious. As a family, they show a lively and interesting side in this small family.
Parent-teacher conferences can seem like an inescapable responsibility for students. However, even if they are both parents, there is a very different difference in the attitudes of good parents and slightly negligent parents. Interestingly, even after becoming parents, they still crave words of praise.
So, a parent staged a surprising "face-changing" drama. At first, he was reluctant in every way, and was even willing to sacrifice himself to avoid attending the parent-teacher conference. However, as soon as he heard that the student was doing well, the parent immediately found a reason to "watch the commercial resurrection", and the speed of the instant change was simply hilarious. This sudden change is like a Sichuan opera changing face, which makes people cry and laugh. This funny plot shows the parents' expectations for their children's grades and their desire for praise, making the whole scene full of humor and contrast.
Others may just be teasing the student, but this classmate directly staged a "trick" drama, and it was the parents who worked together to deal with the "younger siblings". It can be seen that only the situation in which students are teased has become a reality, and the students sigh: This "orphan" is either I can do it.
Although it may seem difficult, the students are fortunate to have such a close bond between parents. The tacit relationship between parents brings students a sense of security that cannot be compared with any material conditions. There is a deep truth to this saying that laughter and support in childhood help heal the unhappiness of later years.
When interacting with parents, students always seem to feel that they are at a disadvantage, and from the words, it seems that the student's family status has been reduced to dust. However, in reality, this kind of family atmosphere is what many students yearn for.
These parents do not see themselves as authorities, and there is no tedious nagging or dull preaching when talking to students. Just like friends, it's easy to joke around with each other. Who can't feel envious of such an atmosphere?Children who grow up in this family atmosphere tend to have a lively personality and are very popular.
Of course, parents have different personalities, and some do not seek to be superior, but maintain a relatively traditional personality. It's not that such parents are bad, every family has its own unique way of caring. At the same time, I hope that students can understand their parents better. During the school period, I was able to keep in touch with my parents and share interesting things around me. The so-called generation gap requires the joint efforts of both parties to truly bridge it.
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