Nowadays, many young people don't want to get married even when they reach the age of marriage, it's not that they don't crave love and the warmth of their families. But after getting married and having children, I have to spend a lot of time around the family.
When you are not married, you can sleep until what time you want without going to work, and the whole family will not be hungry if you have enough to eat. After having children, I have to take care of the children and take care of the family all the time except for work.
Even if I go out for dinner with friends once in a while, I always think that there are children waiting for me to come home. In short, after having a child, the whole person is ** at home.
Recently, in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, a husband and wife watched the baby to implement the "rotation system", the wife came back at 12 o'clock in the evening, and the husband left directly with his bag. Netizens said that this is very good, everyone has time to relax.
In the picture, the husband is playing with his daughter at home, and the wife is out for dinner with friends. Before going out, the wife said that she would come back at ten o'clock to change her husband and go out to play with friends.
As a result, while playing, my wife forgot the time and didn't come home until 12 o'clock. At this time, the daughter had fallen asleep, the husband looked at the clock on the wall and pointed to 12 o'clock, and the friend also sent messages to urge him many times, asking him why he hadn't arrived yet.
The husband explained helplessly that his wife had not come home yet, and he was worried that his daughter was alone at home. In this case, my friend had to wait while playing.
At 12 o'clock, the wife pushed open the door, the husband opened the door, his eyes lit up, daughter-in-law, you are finally back. With that, he immediately went to the room to get a coat to put on, took some personal belongings, and couldn't wait to tell his wife, the house will be handed over to you, and I will leave.
My husband is in a hurry, and I feel that it is a waste to stay at home for an extra second. When the wife saw her husband's appearance, she couldn't help laughing. I have to say that the two of them are seamlessly connected.
Later, according to his wife, since she married her husband and had children, the two rarely went out to party with friends. When the child was young, he hardly went out.
After a few years, I gradually found that my friends around me were getting fewer and fewer because I didn't contact them for a long time, and I couldn't find someone to do something. The two of them combined, this is not good.
When their daughter was a little older, the two tried to contact their friends, but found that it was not convenient to take their daughter with them, and the children were crying by their side, often busy taking care of the children, and had no time to chat with friends. Before he could say a few words to his friends, the child cried and wanted to go home.
Later, there was really no way, so the couple came up with a trick, and the two took turns to watch the children. This is also known as the "job rotation system".
In this way, both people have time to go outside to friends, and at the same time, it does not affect the company of the children. Adults are also freed and relaxed.
As a result, there is often one person in the family to accompany the children, and the other person to play with friends in the presence. The other person goes home**, and the family leaves immediately.
Netizens watched the scene at that time and couldn't help laughing, some netizens said that this shift was too urgent, and they were too lazy to hand over things at work.
Some netizens said that this is very good, everyone has freedom and relaxation, and when they get married, there is no need to restrict people's freedom because of children, otherwise marriage will really become a siege.
Some netizens even complained that the couple was so fun, and it was a waste to spend an extra minute at home in the first half of the night and the second half of the night. This kind of life is really good, and no one has to revolve around the child all the time.
Author's point of view. After the two got married and had children, they did have to spend most of their time with their children. Don't look at a child as a small person, but it can take up a lot of an adult's time.
First of all, you have to serve him to eat and drink, help him wash clothes and cook, and play with him. All the time parents devote to their children can still feel busy.
Therefore, after getting married, there is basically no freedom, and it is impossible to have time to go out to parties with friends. If you want to go, couples can only rotate.
In fact, this matter shared by women is common in many families. No fuss.