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Respect is standard
He who does not respect others, others will not respect him. Only people who respect others can be respected. Someone once said, "I respect any independent soul, and although I don't approve of some of them, I can understand them as much as I can." ”
In this world, everyone's experience is different. It is not necessary to seek complete common ground, but to respect each other. The first thing we have to do when dealing with people is to give them enough respect. Respect other people's interests, respect others' three views, and respect each other's differences.
Only if you respect others, others will respect you. Equal treatment and mutual respect are the most basic rules of interpersonal communication.
Reliable is high-matched
I have heard a saying: "To really make friends, you need to find reliable people." "What does it mean to be reliable?Someone once gave an incisive definition: there is an explanation everywhere, everything has a fall, and everything has an echo.
Whether a person is worth associating with and whether he can get along for a long time often depends on how reliable he is. Reliable, easy to say, complicated to fall;It sounds like a feeling, but it's a principle to do.
Really reliable people have the ability to reassure people. In this world, there is never a shortage of smart people, but there is a lack of reliable and down-to-earth people. For the rest of your life, you must walk with reliable and down-to-earth people, and at the same time, you must always remind yourself to be a responsible and reliable person.
Kindness is the top match
As the saying goes, "It's better to be honest than to be careful, and it's better to be kind than to be shrewd." "The maintenance of a friendship usually requires equal efforts from both parties, and if there is bias, no matter how good the relationship is, it will become weaker.
Some people say: "Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, long-term kindness, and finally character." "On the long road of life, we will meet many people and know many people. When you associate with people with good character, your relationship will become deeper and more stable with the precipitation of time.
Get along, rely on fate;Deep friendship, look at character. People who are kind and well-behaved are the most worthy of our deep friendship for a lifetime.
In the final analysis, whether people can get along with each other depends first on whether they respect each other;Whether you can have deep friendship mainly depends on whether it is reliable;Whether it can go for a long time depends on the character in the end. Short-term relationships look at temperament, and lifelong interactions look at conduct. The road of life is long and tortuous, and you must walk side by side with the right people.
*: One book per night (ID: jyxz89896), Xinhua News Agency.
Editor-in-chief: Li Wei.
Anchor: Li Wei.
Editor of this issue: Gao Xiang.
Curator: Gao Xiang.