Love requires a bottom line and a sense of proportion, which is the cornerstone of a healthy, stable and long-lasting relationship. We often long to meet vigorous love, hoping to meet true love that runs desperately, loves desperately until the sky falls apart, and integrates each other into one. But in fact, true love does not only exist in the expression of intense love, but also in the ordinary life of staying together and caring for each other.
In a relationship, it is crucial to respect the other person's bottom line. This not only reflects respect and tolerance for each other, but also allows each other to get along in the most comfortable way. If a person dares to touch your bottom line, or even cross the bottom line of love, then this person must not love you.
True love is willingly drawing the ground for you, even in the face of beautiful scenery and excellent people, you will know how to refuse and alienate. The person who loves you the most will be able to keep his original intention no matter how time changes, giving you a sense of trust and security. If a person crosses your bottom line and has no respect for you, then this so-called "love" is actually a manifestation of unlove.
In the TV series "Our Marriage", Sheng Jiangchuan's machismo makes him think that men should be outside the main and women should be inside the main house. He earns money outside the home to support his family as a way of showing love and responsibility to his wife.
However, this concept ignores Comet Shen's thoughts and dreams. If a person only cares about their own feelings and does not respect the needs and bottom lines of the other person, then this so-called "love" is only hurting the other person in the name of love.
A person's love is a stressful, meaningless love that only makes people feel broken and tears burst into tears. If a person doesn't even respect your bottom line, then he may not love you as much as you think. Love is respect, tolerance, and tenderness to let you be yourself. All love without respect no longer has to consume one's passion, because moving oneself can never move a person who only loves oneself.
In short, love needs a bottom line and a sense of proportion to maintain a healthy, stable and long-lasting relationship. In a relationship, it is crucial to respect the other person's bottom line. If a person crosses your bottom line and has no respect for you, then this so-called "love" is actually a manifestation of unlove.