A happy marriage is more likely to make people happy.
But if you want to have a good marriage, it takes some effort.
Marriage relationship is one of the intimate relationships, after marriage to do a good job of after-sales service, good management in order to make the relationship more durable, if you take it lightly, continue to withdraw from the emotional account, do not take the initiative to deposit to maintain emotional wealth, over time, there will be problems in marriage.
At least there are constant contradictions, and at worst there are husband and wife centrifuges.
Recalling the excitement of entering the marriage hall, even if the two people who didn't get along well later, they broke through various obstacles together, and the beautiful expectation for marriage is not to break up, but to grow old together and enjoy the years together.
However, not all couples are capable of running a good marriage and have to face the consequences that they are least willing to let happen, and accept the fact that their fate has been destroyed.
When the couple goes to the end, there will be a show like this:
Husband and wife get along well, it doesn't matter if there are contradictions, as long as they are willing to work hard to repair the relationship, it is enough to show that neither of the two people is willing to let go of their feelings and care about each other, it can't be done.
There is no longer an expectation of the partner, no matter what the other party does, the heart does not move, it does not hurt, as if it has nothing to do with him, the behavior of the other half can no longer affect his mood, and the desolation is like a pool of stagnant water, which is enough to show that the fate of the two people has come to an end.
Just like in the TV series "I Really Love You", after Chen Jiaorui gave birth to a child, she couldn't balance her career and family, pinned her hopes on her husband, and longed for her husband's unconditional understanding and support, but her husband couldn't feel his wife's emotions and stood on the opposite side of his wife everywhere.
The rival Xiaoyan came to visit, Chen Jiaorui didn't want her to see what she looked like after work, and specially asked her mother-in-law to set aside a few hours and not ask herself to go **, but in front of Xiaoyan, her mother-in-law asked Chen Jiaorui to go **, Chen Jiaorui looked at her husband helplessly, hoping that her husband could save him from the embarrassing scene.
It's a pity that what her husband said was to persuade Chen Jiaorui to breastfeed the child, completely ignoring the existence of outsiders.
The disappointments accumulated again and again, so that Chen Jiaorui no longer counted on her husband and decided to divorce.
If you lose hope in your partner, fate will naturally come to an end.
Love is unique, especially after marriage.
After making a promise to each other and picking up the marriage certificate that symbolizes the union, it means that you will take the initiative to give up other more possibilities, and only take full responsibility for the rest of your life for the person you choose to be in front of, whether it is life, illness, death, or prosperity and wealth, you can only give all your time to the person you choose.
Willing to spend energy on the partner is more conducive to the longevity of the marriage, but if one of the partners has an extroverted heart and likes others, it turns out that the partner in the marriage should have a pleasing behavior and deliver it to others, and the fate of the two people will come to an end.
is like Chen Junsheng in "The First Half of My Life", he likes Lingling, because Chen Junsheng has a wife, so the love between the two cannot be seen. Knowing that Lingling had been wronged, Chen Junsheng filed for divorce in order to appease her emotions, regardless of his wife's feelings, and immediately got together with Lingling after dealing with trivial matters.
For Chen Junsheng and Ling Ling, it was fate that brought the two together and together;However, for Chen Junsheng and the original partner Luo Zijun, divorce is the end of fate, and the process of the edge has internal reasons, but the external symbolic performance is that Chen Junsheng has love outside of marriage and changes his heart.
The power of love is huge, it will make people reckless behavior, even if they are married, they may not be able to stop, to remind all people in marriage: don't think that everything is OK after marriage, no need to continue to pay, "after-sales service" in marriage, is a subject that couples need to face throughout their lives.